NT fambs....my own brother got me. For 10 Deadstock pairs of sneakers...what do I do? *update page 6

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Over the course of 2 weeks, my younger brother was robbing me blind and I had no idea until it was too late.

Quick breakdown of what happened to me:

I go to Cali on vacation for a week, come back and I'm missing $600 cash from my closet. Knew right away who it was. Notified my mom, and of course she downplayed the whole thing and just told me to let it go, he's your little brother and just let God deal with it. I couldn't even think straight once that happened. I lost it.

We think he's on some hardcore drugs, and he's only 21. No other reason why he would do this.

Than over the course of the next 2 weeks, he literally broke into my mothers house by climbing through the window, and he got me for 10 deadstock pairs of sneakers. And I didn't noticed until 2 days ago, because it never occured to me to look in my closet until the other day. I dont know what to do, I've never taken a loss this big before in my life, financial-wise. I already filed a police report on him, because it was either that - or I hunt him down and physically hurt the kid bad, like permenant disfigurment type hurt. But than my mother would suffer if I did that, so I resorted to calling the police.

Home insurance won't cover it because me and him are both listed on the policy as residents (I no longer even live there anymore, purchased my own home a few months ago).

I'm sick with it fambs. It's pretty much a $3,000-$3,500 loss I just took, and I can't comprehend the reasoning behind robbing your own brother, and it's eating me alive the more I think about it.

Pairs he got me for (all DS except for probably 1 pair): Jordan 6 infrared, Jordan 11 Concord, Jordan 11 Black/Red, Jordan 1 Hare, Jordan 9 powder blue, Jordan CDP 5, Jordan 7 charcoal, Jordan 3 88 OG, Jordan 1 shadow.

I'm sick with it NT :/ . It's so ironic that I've been put in a position to prevent fraud and theft here on NT with the classified section, and here I am dealing with the biggest loss of my life in terms of money/sneakers.

All those sneakers were pretty much my back-up resource for funds in case I never needed it, because I just purchased a new home and car and now I'm literally ******.

Has anyone ever dealt with a similar situation? Do I just give up on the sneaker thing and never look back? I'm literally in shambles, I can't even go to sleep at night because I can't over the fact my younger brother of all people - got me.

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WE HAVE BEEN AT ODDS AT SOME TIMES DURING MY TIME ON NIKETALK BUT I CAN TRULY SAY THAT IS SAD AND SHAMEFUL THING TO GO THROUGH. I HOPE THE BEST WILL COME OUT OF IT FOR YOU.
 
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I'm sick for real. The only thing keeping me sane right now is my job, my girl and NT. Literally.

If I take him to court, can the judge make him pay me back?

Like I really relied on those kicks for as back-up funds, and the next 3 weeks are cruical for me.

My first official mortgage payment is due today. Than my car insurance, than my car note, my cell phone and than my credit card payments (which i still owe some money for the sneakers he got me :smh:)

And my mother, God bless her - is downplaying the whole thing still. I'm sick for real.

I don't want to hurt him because my mom will suffer, he's the youngest of the family so she has a weird love for him. But I can't help but just lurk in the wee-hours and catch him slipping and literally mop the floor with him.
 
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It's pretty much a $3,000-$3,500 loss I just took


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I was relieved of my Carolina Jordan 17 low, Playoff 12 and Black/red 13s over the course summer of 2005. It was "family" too.


I was pissed...but me being the real dude that I am. I just went to the mall and bought 3 more pairs of kicks in the same colorways.

Couldn't let all those fits I had lined up go to waste :pimp:
 
1st mistake was letting him get away with taking 600 bucks from you. I would beat the living **** out of my little bro for that. I wish you the best though man. I've never dealt with anything like that so I can't imagine how you're feeling.
 
Just take everything and move it to your house now so he doesn't bang you over the head for more stuff.

I think you're going to have to chalk this one up and take the L because of the family pass and he's close fam too not like a cousin that you can cut ties with... he's your brother so that's like a baby moms you stuck with for life.
 
Didnt he rob you last year too? How does your own brother feel comfortable with doing this to you again and again. Scumbag behavior man
 
Beat his ***. Me and my brother are only a year apart and he would do the same ****. I'd be missing something from my room and he's the first one I suspect. I don't even ask him about it cause the first thing out his mouth is always a lie. Id go in his room and there's all my stuff.

Got fed up with it and beat the **** out him. Me and him still don't get along, but I really don't care.

And with all due offense your mother is an idiot. Don't feel bad I told my mom the same thing. I told her of the issue plenty of times to avoid the alternative and nothing would occur so I dealt with it myself.
 
I didn't think he would come back home after robbing for $600 after my mom told him how livid I was.

But he exceeded the greediness that a thief carries, and he came back in one shot (maybe two attempts) and got me for as much as he could.

Man. It's getting to the point where it's affecting my job, because I can't focus for real.

I just want my stuff back. Us NTers take this sneaker thing serious...and I appreciate the gratitude NT - it means a lot.

Waiting for the detective to contact me today or tomorrow. I'm going all out with pressing charges on him.
 
Do you know what he did with the kicks? Because either 1) consignment 2) craigslist or 3) eBay.

If the kicks are on eBay and you find them we can shill bid them so they don't sell.

Consignment, find your bro and take him to the shop make him get all the kicks back even if he has to pay restock fee it'll be small.

Search your local craigslist and then...?

This is a terrible situation man. I can't offer much advice since I don't know you and your family but try to get the shoes back before he can get rid of them. If he's using drugs then he's not going to wait for a good price and might be selling them all in bulk too.
 
How is he so much different than you?  Seriously?  I trust my bro with any of my things and vice versa, he's 2 years older
 
Police. He did you dirty, now do him dirty.

this.

i feel you Animal, sad stuff. i know what your going through and kudos in keeping your cool in not physically hurting him because if you did that, it would end up hurting your mother even more.

just call the cops, let him rot in jail or something and move on. theres nothing you can really do, he obviously has no money or anything.

take your stuff, move it out of the house and leave it at that.
 
That has to be a terrible feeling. Once again I'm sorry man. I hope everything works out. I wouldn't listen to your mom. She's blinded by her love. You need to do what you have to do. Press charges, whoop his ***. The whole nine.
 
Let the police handle it.

If they dont you gotta clap his shoulders.

I could understand taking the L for $100. But $3000-$3500 NAH.
 
Idk man HONESTLY if he has a problem and its ur brother I wouldn't call the cops
Getting him help is more important IMO
Bruh they are just shoes when it all boils down to it and those 10 shoes u listed don't even add up to 3000 with retail plus tax and even if they did are some shoes REALLY more important than ur brother. I mean he must be going through some car y **** to have to break into ur moms house I mean be upset that he broke into ur moms house not cause he stole some needless material possession. I hope u see where I'm coming from. **** the shoes it's ur brother I mean yeah I would be upset to and I would be heated but I would just whoop my brothers *** then try and get him help if he's on drugs or whatever I wouldnt call the police
 
why is your mom letting this occur? does she think this is normal behavior? 

he is going to end up dead robbing the wrong person, i also don't think you will be able to get anything back.

it sounds like your bro has absolutely nothing to give you, i also think the judge will just tell him to get help and drop everything else because you guys are fam.

they will prolly put you in that crappy position and ask you whether your shoes and your money are more important than your brothers life.

your mom is enabling him, and ultimately she's going to be the reason why he is dead, you need to find out if he is POSITIVELY on drugs.

it just seems like you guys are trying to downplay your bros situation for some odd reason when anybody else would be doing anything possible to save his life.
 
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