Being a good man Vol: waiting it out for sex

[DeadsetAce]

dated a girl who wanted to wait till marriage in high school for 10-11 months. but now...i'd wait a couple months max i think.

 

[brandonb2005]

ericberry14 wrote:

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yungmatt wrote:

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My goal after meeting an attractive lady is always to get in her pants ASAP... How I feel after that happens is another story.

Some chicks keep my interest after im done, others dont.
that's pretty much all there is to it.




Pretty much the same for me

Its like what if you wait...and fall for the person and then it finally comes down to it. Then when you done its was horrible???

Like DAMN! you made me wait that long for this wack %@*!!

 

[weekend girl]

Originally Posted by kicksgetmehigh

Weekend Girl wrote:

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stoneyjax wrote:

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yungmatt wrote:

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My goal after meeting an attractive lady is always to get in her pants ASAP... How I feel after that happens is another story.

Some chicks keep my interest after im done, others dont.

basically



I mean... it depends on what your intentions are with shorty (relationship/jumpoff etc.) but if you were trying to be in a relationship with a female could you take her seriously if she gave it up the first night?

Regardless whether she keeps you interested you'd have to wonder how many dudes been through that with ease before you.


If I'm tryin to establish a relationship and she gives it up the first night... I'll be wondering how many other dudes got the same ease of access?!


Yeah, that's what I'm sayin'... @%@# we lose either way though

"It's been 2 weeks."

"So...?"

I'd be willing to bet a lot of females wouldn't be giving it up so fast if they didn't feel some kinda pressue

Not to blame ya'll becauseat the end of the day it's a mutual decision but how you gonna make us feel like a %#$*% when you goin' just as hard (no pun intended) if not more thanwe are...

%@%% is wack

 

[crossisom]

There's no good time table for sex. If the chemistry is right, it might happen after the first date.


It's up to you to recognize/find out if she's just a skeezer and/or if you want to continue the realtionship.

 

[sneakerpimp2k8]

when a chick gives it up quick..i dont think shes bad, i just figure im that good

 

[stoneyjax]

Originally Posted by Weekend Girl

Originally Posted by stoneyjax

yungmatt wrote:

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My goal after meeting an attractive lady is always to get in her pants ASAP... How I feel after that happens is another story.

Some chicks keep my interest after im done, others dont.

basically

I mean... it depends on what your intentions are with shorty (relationship/jumpoff etc.) but if you were trying to be in a relationship with a female could you take her seriously if she gave it up the first night?

Regardless whether she keeps you interested you'd have to wonder how many dudes been through that with ease before you.
well my job is to try... her job is to hold out for as long as she can

... if she cant hold out from my pursuit of the panties then you are correct! she is NOT wifey material... I like the chase but not too long

 

[yungmatt]

Originally Posted by SneakerPimp2k8

when a chick gives it up quick..i dont think shes bad, i just figure im that good

Exactly

 

[weekend girl]

Originally Posted by SneakerPimp2k8

when a chick gives it up quick..i dont think shes bad, i just figure im that good

No, baby

 

[sneakerpimp2k8]

Originally Posted by Weekend Girl

Originally Posted by SneakerPimp2k8

when a chick gives it up quick..i dont think shes bad, i just figure im that good

No, baby

oh you think thats funny huh....you got a PM

 

[weekend girl]

well my job is to try... her job is to hold out for as long as she can


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THIS.

%+*? What kinda logic is this. It's the truth but damn

we officially the gatekeepers and *$+%?

 

[an dee 51o]

Originally Posted by BJJ Prodigy

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Gotta test drive the car sooner or later.

Why is that if two people are in love and wait for marriage why does it matter?

Sexual chemistry is important.

 

[stoneyjax]

Originally Posted by Weekend Girl

well my job is to try... her job is to hold out for as long as she can

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THIS.

%+*? What kinda logic is this. It's the truth but damn

we officially the gatekeepers and *$+%?

YALL WOMEN KNOW THE GAME

 

[nawth21]

Originally Posted by an dee 51o

Originally Posted by BJJ Prodigy

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Gotta test drive the car sooner or later.

Why is that if two people are in love and wait for marriage why does it matter?

Sexual chemistry is important.

Bingo. I dont care if a couple of virgs want to wait until that special night but I gotta do me. And for me, sexual chemistry is important.

 

[crumbs]

whats good with letting it happen whenever it does...whats this perfect timing business...+#@# that...too much to worry about ...

 

[weekend girl]

@ the concept of waiting until marriage to have sex

does that *%!@ really still happen though? %%$@, props to whoever can do that*%!@ but I'm not built for that

Depending on how often ya'll get up I think 1-3/4 months is coo.

I woulda been said "whenever the chemistry is right" but the fact of the matter is, ya'll won't respect us if we let you slidequick-fast.

That's just for relationship type situations though

 

[k2theablam]

Originally Posted by KayCurrency

Females are vulnerable...so I dont judge them by how easy it is to have sex with them...


Besides....I can make a Nun give it up

You must not know anything about nuns

 

[kicksgetmehigh]

Its rare to connect on a mental/emotional level instantly, so if you give up the goods before we can even get to know each other....
chances are I'm gonna be bored, may lose interest, or not even like you as a whole.... I might just see you as somebody to put my joint in from time totime, thats it!

 

[crossisom]

I think the problem is that people let sex dictate relationships (and their lives) too much. It leads to questions like "how long should you wait"because that's what you're weighing your relationship on.

 

[brandonb2005]

Originally Posted by Weekend Girl

@ the concept of waiting until marriage to have sex

does that *%!@ really still happen though? %%$@, props to whoever can do that *%!@ but I'm not built for that

Yup I know this one female who is doing it right now! she is 20.

All she does is give the bop to her BF's in relationships and that is after some months...

I can respect her decision though to each is own

 

[kicksgetmehigh]

Originally Posted by CROSSISOM

I think the problem is that people let sex dictate relationships (and their lives) too much. It leads to questions like "how long should you wait" because that's what you're weighing your relationship on.

Of course its an important factor in a relationship, but what kinda mystery is there if you're gonna give it up on the first night and do all types of wild& freaky stuff?!
All I'm gonna be thinkin is, "My work here is done...peace out"

 

[weekend girl]

Originally Posted by CROSSISOM

I think the problem is that people let sex dictate relationships (and their lives) too much. It leads to questions like "how long should you wait" because that's what you're weighing your relationship on.

There's different kinds of relationships though... you can have a sexual relationship without having a committed relationship. Sexual relationships arebuilt on sex and committed relationships are built on respect (among other things). When you establish a sexual relationship before trust and respect it canpotentially be problematic...

 

[kicksgetmehigh]

Originally Posted by Weekend Girl

Originally Posted by CROSSISOM

I think the problem is that people let sex dictate relationships (and their lives) too much. It leads to questions like "how long should you wait" because that's what you're weighing your relationship on.

There's different kinds of relationships though... you can have a sexual relationship without having a committed relationship. Sexual relationships are built on sex and committed relationships are built on respect (among other things). When you establish a sexual relationship before trust and respect it can potentially be problematic...

True story.
Sooner or later, somebodys gonna be catchin feelings and get too comfortable not knowing that the other person doesn't feel the same way you do.

 

[nawth21]

Originally Posted by kicksgetmehigh

Originally Posted by Weekend Girl

Originally Posted by CROSSISOM

I think the problem is that people let sex dictate relationships (and their lives) too much. It leads to questions like "how long should you wait" because that's what you're weighing your relationship on.

There's different kinds of relationships though... you can have a sexual relationship without having a committed relationship. Sexual relationships are built on sex and committed relationships are built on respect (among other things). When you establish a sexual relationship before trust and respect it can potentially be problematic...

True story.
Sooner or later, somebodys gonna be catchin feelings and get too comfortable not knowing that the other person doesn't feel the same way you do.

They'll know the deal if you're upfront about it with them in the first place. Communication can get you far. Of course it won'tstop them*coughthegirl* from catching feelings but atleast you can say you werent leading them on.

 

[executive76]

 

[rko2004]

Try waiting until marriage. Your forced to find other things to do and talk about.