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this is my rule, so that she doesn't get the satisfaction of telling all her girls "daaaaang this dude blowin up my phone"
no at all ma. keep it moving
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no at all ma. keep it moving
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She simply wants to know that you'll work for it. You can either: A.) Oblige and let her know that she owns you. or B.) Leave it alone. If somethingsyours, and you let it go. If it comes back to you, it was yours all along.
I'd let her go. But that's just me.
I'd let her go. But that's just me.
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if i really liked the chick then i try to contact her 3-4 more times in the month and if she doesnt answer, dead her
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she's still feelin u no matter what, if she had the initiative to shoot u that text, but u might have to put in a lil extra work with this chick ..
U tryna wife??
U tryna wife??
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There's gotta be a mutual interest to communicate with each other. Sometimes I hit girls up and they barely respond. Sometimes I do the same to them. Butif you're cool with each other and you're always calling/texting each other then you have something. If only one person is making the effort tocommunicate then you just gotta move on.
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Same thing just happened to me. We would talk constistantly then not talk for periods of time. Recently I wanted to have something solid with herand this happened. I just let it go.
I really like the girl but I'm not chasing her
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Dont ever do that #+%+
Like I said dont make it seem like ur begging, give it some time...if u do dat ^, ol girls gonna think ur a lame cause what are u apologizing for , u aint do#+%+...den dis dude said "if she never writes back leave it alone" ...ol girl aint gon right back cuz she prolly at home wit her home girls laughinat ur beggin #+%.
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I've been through this with a couple chicks recently. Right now I'm just giving these 2 chicks their time away so that they can contact me. I did similar to you and tried to reconnect and say my peace but getting that ol no response treatment. I'm finna postrandom pics with other broads to let em know I moved on and they should as well.
On the other hand with some of these other chicks that are real cool and I dig, I call em, try to catch em at the right time and we get to talk it out. Ibasically tell em if you feel I'm not doing something right, disrespecting, ignoring, etc. just be real and address me about it. When it comes to the lackof communication problem whether I was busy or not I tell em I was busy explain it thoroughly lies or not and tell em I had plans to make it up to them. I dotend to hate when I make plans a week or 5 days in advance and if I don't contact them 2-4 times before said date they wanna get hurt feelings and try tofront.
Girls, they can be nuisances at time. How about you for once think of why I haven't been communicating with you, maybe I been busy? and it's crazy tome that in between this time when I don't contact them they don't hit me up to see what's good.
On the other hand with some of these other chicks that are real cool and I dig, I call em, try to catch em at the right time and we get to talk it out. Ibasically tell em if you feel I'm not doing something right, disrespecting, ignoring, etc. just be real and address me about it. When it comes to the lackof communication problem whether I was busy or not I tell em I was busy explain it thoroughly lies or not and tell em I had plans to make it up to them. I dotend to hate when I make plans a week or 5 days in advance and if I don't contact them 2-4 times before said date they wanna get hurt feelings and try tofront.
Girls, they can be nuisances at time. How about you for once think of why I haven't been communicating with you, maybe I been busy? and it's crazy tome that in between this time when I don't contact them they don't hit me up to see what's good.
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I like threads like these cause i like to see what type of lames we got on NT wit the lame reponses
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Can I get an AMEN?
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this isn't always the case. i'm talkin to one right now where i'm the one putting in the most effort but i know she likes me, she's just a lilshy/maybe a lil inexperienced so she's taking it slowly. its no biggie for me, i like her so i'm not gonna rush her n make her feel uncomfortable. i doagree with the mutual effort but it doesn't happen all the time, unless both parties are really diggin eachother.
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If girls don't like me, I don't like them.
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Dont ever do that #!%%
Like I said dont make it seem like ur begging, give it some time...if u do dat ^, ol girls gonna think ur a lame cause what are u apologizing for , u aint do #!%%...den dis dude said "if she never writes back leave it alone" ...ol girl aint gon right back cuz she prolly at home wit her home girls laughin at ur beggin #%$.
If you say so my dude.
Works for me 100% of the time, she wants the apology because women like attention, give her the attention so she'll be back in your life.
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Hmm. Sounds like a piece of the story is missing. If she told you to have a nice life she A)was into you & you insulted her or disrespectedher in some way or B)she's crazy. For some reason i don't think it's B. If SHE really likes YOU, then she's just salty right now and she mightcome around again. Peruse at your own risk.
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if you were feeling her, you never should have let the communication get bad. but now that it has, i would make an effort to talk to her about it. dont gostalker style and try to catch her outside of work or something dumb like that, but do a little more than one phone call.
i wouldnt necessarily leave a message saying you are sorry and blah blah blah, but leave a message saying you want to talk and solve issues you may have. dontmake yourself sound like a $@+*% to get this girl. thats asking for a leash or at least a girl who does something stupid everytime shes not getting enoughattention or doesnt get something she wants. you need to try to solve this but also set the tone for the relationship in case she does want to move forward.
if it doesnt work out, spit game at the next hot girl. it wont take you as long as you think to get over her when the next girl wants to make it work.
i wouldnt necessarily leave a message saying you are sorry and blah blah blah, but leave a message saying you want to talk and solve issues you may have. dontmake yourself sound like a $@+*% to get this girl. thats asking for a leash or at least a girl who does something stupid everytime shes not getting enoughattention or doesnt get something she wants. you need to try to solve this but also set the tone for the relationship in case she does want to move forward.
if it doesnt work out, spit game at the next hot girl. it wont take you as long as you think to get over her when the next girl wants to make it work.
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Take the L.
You hit her up, she didn't respond so she's probably moved on already.
Do the same
You hit her up, she didn't respond so she's probably moved on already.
Do the same
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[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I don't want to sound cocky and say she was into me, who knows..Sometimes it showed, other times it didn't. And IF I disrespected, I guess that would be the communication error on my part? Other than that, I have neverdisrespected her or insulted her, It's not like she was just a random chick or w/e[/color]
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Originally Posted by DROOPY7
Dont ever do that #!%%
Like I said dont make it seem like ur begging, give it some time...if u do dat ^, ol girls gonna think ur a lame cause what are u apologizing for , u aint do #!%%...den dis dude said "if she never writes back leave it alone" ...ol girl aint gon right back cuz she prolly at home wit her home girls laughin at ur beggin #%$.
If you say so my dude.
Works for me 100% of the time, she wants the apology because women like attention, give her the attention so she'll be back in your life.
How's that considered begging?
Dude ur sellin urself out for some ({})
Why should dude apologize for, he didnt do nun...or is it right to apologize for nun cuz women like attention?
How old are u btw? Cause i can see it workin for u all the time if ur still in High School.
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just go for the kill. ask her out in person then you will know if she likes you. "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take", wayne gretzky. Ifshe
said no, then you can move on to another chick, instead of waiting for her.
said no, then you can move on to another chick, instead of waiting for her.
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Never apologize... but if she's actin like she wants to be done and ignore you... then be done wit her. She should call back soon enough... but if not...its an L... but who cares
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Is the Risk worth the Reward?....im not about to chase anybody. Give it like 2 more times...and then let it breath.
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[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Ehhh, I could see how one would come up with that, but that wasn'tthe case. I do have a history of bad communication though.[/color]
[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I guess that's what it comes down to.[/color]
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Apologize?
Just leave 1 more. If she doesn't do nothing, then leave it alone.
Just leave 1 more. If she doesn't do nothing, then leave it alone.
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Let me teach you something!
it seems like this chick is an attention wh***
this is the type of chick that wants you to keep in touch and just wants attention from you!
by not showing that type of attention by not communicating
shes only testing you fam
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she didn't have to add the have a nice life part.
one broad did that to me.. i laughed and said word? bye.
she came back a week later.
one broad did that to me.. i laughed and said word? bye.
she came back a week later.
