Going out with a woman 4 years older. Yes or No ?

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I met this girl. Very pretty. Have her own career. House, car, etc. However she's already 30 and pushing 31(although she look a lot younger) and im only 26. We've been going out for the last two weeks. I have a feeling she want to find that "guy" to settle down with

This is my first time dating a woman older than me. To be honest i feel weird at first but now i feel very comfortable with her.

Half of my mind is telling me I should go ahead and start a relationship. The other half is telling me i should keep her as friend only and find someone more appropriate for my age.

For the Nters who have dated women older than them. Did it work ? Is age really just a number ?

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Hell yes. Older women around 30 are my favorite. And if she looks a lot younger then you know she's got the youthful looks combined with the older intelligence.

And she's independent and has her own place and car? If you aren't feeling it, put me on to that.

P.S. I'm 17 so my take my opinion with a grain of salt.
 
If the chemistry is there go for it. Who cares if shes older or younger.
 
this can't possibly be a question
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go for it bruh
 
Originally Posted by illphillip

You really need our help with this?
Well i've heard the typical pros and cons of dating someone older but im just curious . Maybe there are Nters who have dated or even marry women older than them
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Originally Posted by ACBboyz84

Originally Posted by illphillip

You really need our help with this?
Well i've heard the typical pros and cons of dating someone older but im just curious . Maybe there are Nters who have dated or even marry women older than them
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Dog. It's 4 years. Not 20. 
 
im opposite

i actually dont want a woman already in her 30s when im in my 20s

but do you
 
Depends on at what point she's at right now in her life, and if you're in that settle down get married in two years mindset. If I were you and you're serious about her find out when and why she broke up with her last boyfriend
 
Man at your age its no big deal. My GF is 3 years older than me and she is the best female I ever dated. She isnt about childish games and is very upfront. Plus its always nice to know she will always be older than you, makes for some serious jokes.
 
Be. That. Guy.

Seriously? She has it all together & you're still questioning it? Age is a state of mind; you're only talking 4 years diff. & at that age for sure most women want to settle down, at 26 you might bag more women but if you want to build a life & family try to start early.

Looks like you've lucked into a situation a lot of NTers would like to be in...

Either way; good luck.
 
Originally Posted by scshift

Hell yes. Older women around 30 are my favorite. And if she looks a lot younger then you know she's got the youthful looks combined with the older intelligence.

And she's independent and has her own place and car? If you aren't feeling it, put me on to that.

P.S. I'm 17 so my take my opinion with a grain of salt.
How the hell would you know that 30 year olds are favorite if you're 17
you've been watching too much porn brah 
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Originally Posted by BroComeAtMe

Originally Posted by scshift

Hell yes. Older women around 30 are my favorite. And if she looks a lot younger then you know she's got the youthful looks combined with the older intelligence.

And she's independent and has her own place and car? If you aren't feeling it, put me on to that.

P.S. I'm 17 so my take my opinion with a grain of salt.
How the hell would you know that 30 year olds are favorite if you're 17
you've been watching too much porn brah 
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sc says a lot of things for his age
he just has to grow, dude is so sure of life already which is cool an all but yea still naive
 
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