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Me and him have been great friends since 6th grade, we're both 24 now. We had great adventures from getting stuck in Tijuana to taking the greyhound from LA to SF just for the weekend.
He told me a month ago he was going to get married, small wedding of 40> . He asked me if I could DJ to save money, I agreed. As the month went on I tried to plan him a bachelor party. He kept avoiding my calls and text. He sent a group message asking for our emails so he can send invitations but mine never arrived.
I show up to the wedding and he treats me like a hired employee. Tells me where to set up and what music he wants and so fourth. As everybody is enjoying the ceremony I'm sitting behind 2 turntables on the sideline.
As they ask the best man for the rings, 2 friends show up. I had no idea there was a best man, better yet 2 best men. ALL I COULD THINK ABOUT WAS WHY WASN'T I CHOSEN. As the night goes on I start drinking IPA's and Tequila shots aaaaaannnnndddd I Black Out.
Next day I go over to his house and he tells me BRO WHY DID YOU GET SO DRUNK, YOU EMBARRASSED YOURSELF IN FRONT OF MY FAMILY and so I ask him, WHY WASN'T I CHOSEN AS BEST MAN, and he responds YOU DON'T HAVE YOUR LIFE TOGETHER AND THEY DO
What upset me was that I know for a fact that my life is better than one of the guys. He is unemployed, no car, lives with mama dukes, would like to be professional soccer player.
Niketalk, what do you think of the situation? I was going to choose him as my best man. I've come to realize tho, I'm always the friend that does more. After this, I don't think I ever wanna have friends anymore to he honest. I feel really let down.
Cliffs
-best friend (I think) got married
-picked some other cats as best man and me as DJ
-I got hammered
-he got mad told me those guys were better options as best man
-don't know if I ever wanna have friends no more
He told me a month ago he was going to get married, small wedding of 40> . He asked me if I could DJ to save money, I agreed. As the month went on I tried to plan him a bachelor party. He kept avoiding my calls and text. He sent a group message asking for our emails so he can send invitations but mine never arrived.
I show up to the wedding and he treats me like a hired employee. Tells me where to set up and what music he wants and so fourth. As everybody is enjoying the ceremony I'm sitting behind 2 turntables on the sideline.
As they ask the best man for the rings, 2 friends show up. I had no idea there was a best man, better yet 2 best men. ALL I COULD THINK ABOUT WAS WHY WASN'T I CHOSEN. As the night goes on I start drinking IPA's and Tequila shots aaaaaannnnndddd I Black Out.
Next day I go over to his house and he tells me BRO WHY DID YOU GET SO DRUNK, YOU EMBARRASSED YOURSELF IN FRONT OF MY FAMILY and so I ask him, WHY WASN'T I CHOSEN AS BEST MAN, and he responds YOU DON'T HAVE YOUR LIFE TOGETHER AND THEY DO
What upset me was that I know for a fact that my life is better than one of the guys. He is unemployed, no car, lives with mama dukes, would like to be professional soccer player.
Niketalk, what do you think of the situation? I was going to choose him as my best man. I've come to realize tho, I'm always the friend that does more. After this, I don't think I ever wanna have friends anymore to he honest. I feel really let down.
Cliffs
-best friend (I think) got married
-picked some other cats as best man and me as DJ
-I got hammered
-he got mad told me those guys were better options as best man
-don't know if I ever wanna have friends no more
