Single Black Women Go On Russian TV Explaining How Hard It Is To Find A Good Black Man!

[4u2c]

This is BS. I been to various cities states bars clubs malls get together whatever. Met alot of black women. No disrespect, but Im a tall handsome black male who got his own stuff, car, money bla bla..

I had alot of women and most was about jack. When I do find a women i like they are to busy chasing joe blow the neighbor hood baller .

I think they real problem is black men have problems finding a good black women. Now that I think of it, I dont think I can say out of all the women I messed with that i really never found a good black women who was down to earth.

I'm older and the young girls are cool, the older ones are like whatever.

WOW I'm really thinking now. I'm almost 30 and I cant really say if I ever meet a "good women" in my times. Strange. Most always lied, wanted money, chasing other dudes , clubber or something or had kid or kids.

I never meet a girl with a degree or career behind her except a few but they were far to fat or ugly for me.

I'm going to have to do some thinking on this and get back to you all

 

[KMante]

Naw they are just blind.

 

[milestailsprowe]

Originally Posted by ChampionEdition

well... its lookin like a fail zone here.

wrap this up.

thats the problem.
black man this, black man that.

how bout they just find a nice guy who likes whatever they like and doesnt piss them off and pays bills on time?

This as long as they are open to people they can find someone of any race, area, and religion that's on their level that will work with them that's on their level. 

 

[me no pass]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

God I wish men were as picky as women were when it comes to "success"! Could you imagine what the game would be like!? What most people fail to realize is that we are talking

about people that are looking at marriage as a application process wherein the only suitors that are qualified have to be "successful" by worldly standards. hahahahaha It's no

wonder the divorce rates are so high and people are genuinely not happy no matter how "rich" they are. If Oprah tried to marry me I wouldn't do it but at the same time if the

equivalent male counterpart approached most western women, they would jump all over it even if they found him completely butt ugly and uninteresting. This issue is much bigger

than a black issue. It's easy to highlight the black part of this social paradigm because black people are not on equal footing in most western(white) controlled countries therefore as

consequence this scenario plays out.(They also so eloquently never mention that there are far more black women then men in these pieces.) Furthermore it doesn't help that in our

hyper materialistic modern society where most of the celebrated black celebrities and stars are filthy rich or pretend to be through every facet of the entertainment medium it builds a

false reality wherein black women believe the creme de le creme of their male counterparts is the pro athlete, musician, actor. If that is not accessible the next best thing is the drug

dealer, thug, hustler. The regular 9 to 5 Fed ex dude or ambitious but works a part time gig dudes are mostly undesirable and not wanted. Chicks don't like to build anymore, people

aren't into the beauty of struggling, growing and making something together anymore. It's either you have it or you don't. This is why most black men that are "successful" from a

monetary standpoint have resentment for black women as they get older. It becomes, " %#@@ you +#+%% you didn't and wouldn't look my way when I was the cable guy!" Not to

mention men have their own illusions and hangups about what a "successful" black man should have holding his arm. In a nutshell we are ****## and most people don't have a clue

what "love" is anyway so discussions like this are pointless......... carry on.

dropping knowledge as always

 

[gry60]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

God I wish men were as picky as women were when it comes to "success"! Could you imagine what the game would be like!? What most people fail to realize is that we are talking

about people that are looking at marriage as a application process wherein the only suitors that are qualified have to be "successful" by worldly standards. hahahahaha It's no

wonder the divorce rates are so high and people are genuinely not happy no matter how "rich" they are. If Oprah tried to marry me I wouldn't do it but at the same time if the

equivalent male counterpart approached most western women, they would jump all over it even if they found him completely butt ugly and uninteresting. This issue is much bigger

than a black issue. It's easy to highlight the black part of this social paradigm because black people are not on equal footing in most western(white) controlled countries therefore as

consequence this scenario plays out.(They also so eloquently never mention that there are far more black women then men in these pieces.) Furthermore it doesn't help that in our

hyper materialistic modern society where most of the celebrated black celebrities and stars are filthy rich or pretend to be through every facet of the entertainment medium it builds a

false reality wherein black women believe the creme de le creme of their male counterparts is the pro athlete, musician, actor. If that is not accessible the next best thing is the drug

dealer, thug, hustler. The regular 9 to 5 Fed ex dude or ambitious but works a part time gig dudes are mostly undesirable and not wanted. Chicks don't like to build anymore, people

aren't into the beauty of struggling, growing and making something together anymore. It's either you have it or you don't. This is why most black men that are "successful" from a

monetary standpoint have resentment for black women as they get older. It becomes, " %#@@ you +#+%% you didn't and wouldn't look my way when I was the cable guy!" Not to

mention men have their own illusions and hangups about what a "successful" black man should have holding his arm. In a nutshell we are ****## and most people don't have a clue

what "love" is anyway so discussions like this are pointless......... carry on

 

[mastamind89]

posting for later

 

[speakup23]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

In a nutshell we are ****## and most people don't have a clue
what "love" is anyway so discussions like this are pointless......... carry on.

Great post as a whole, but I mostly co-sign this

 

[ruxxx]

Originally Posted by Gry60

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

God I wish men were as picky as women were when it comes to "success"! Could you imagine what the game would be like!? What most people fail to realize is that we are talking

about people that are looking at marriage as a application process wherein the only suitors that are qualified have to be "successful" by worldly standards. hahahahaha It's no

wonder the divorce rates are so high and people are genuinely not happy no matter how "rich" they are. If Oprah tried to marry me I wouldn't do it but at the same time if the

equivalent male counterpart approached most western women, they would jump all over it even if they found him completely butt ugly and uninteresting. This issue is much bigger

than a black issue. It's easy to highlight the black part of this social paradigm because black people are not on equal footing in most western(white) controlled countries therefore as

consequence this scenario plays out.(They also so eloquently never mention that there are far more black women then men in these pieces.) Furthermore it doesn't help that in our

hyper materialistic modern society where most of the celebrated black celebrities and stars are filthy rich or pretend to be through every facet of the entertainment medium it builds a

false reality wherein black women believe the creme de le creme of their male counterparts is the pro athlete, musician, actor. If that is not accessible the next best thing is the drug

dealer, thug, hustler. The regular 9 to 5 Fed ex dude or ambitious but works a part time gig dudes are mostly undesirable and not wanted. Chicks don't like to build anymore, people

aren't into the beauty of struggling, growing and making something together anymore. It's either you have it or you don't. This is why most black men that are "successful" from a

monetary standpoint have resentment for black women as they get older. It becomes, " %#@@ you +#+%% you didn't and wouldn't look my way when I was the cable guy!" Not to

mention men have their own illusions and hangups about what a "successful" black man should have holding his arm. In a nutshell we are ****## and most people don't have a clue

what "love" is anyway so discussions like this are pointless......... carry on

Real +#*%.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

I remember Dirty posting something that said Asian Men and Black Women are the least likely to date outside of their race. Now is this by choice or is this because nobody wants them?

Asian men are the most feminized, weak male specie when the media portrays them. (I don't believe this of course).
Black women are the most masculine female specie when the media portrays them.

 

[sifupooh]

Ugly don't discriminate

 

[grypr33]

Originally Posted by ME NO PASS

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

God I wish men were as picky as women were when it comes to "success"! Could you imagine what the game would be like!? What most people fail to realize is that we are talking

about people that are looking at marriage as a application process wherein the only suitors that are qualified have to be "successful" by worldly standards. hahahahaha It's no

wonder the divorce rates are so high and people are genuinely not happy no matter how "rich" they are. If Oprah tried to marry me I wouldn't do it but at the same time if the

equivalent male counterpart approached most western women, they would jump all over it even if they found him completely butt ugly and uninteresting. This issue is much bigger

than a black issue. It's easy to highlight the black part of this social paradigm because black people are not on equal footing in most western(white) controlled countries therefore as

consequence this scenario plays out.(They also so eloquently never mention that there are far more black women then men in these pieces.) Furthermore it doesn't help that in our

hyper materialistic modern society where most of the celebrated black celebrities and stars are filthy rich or pretend to be through every facet of the entertainment medium it builds a

false reality wherein black women believe the creme de le creme of their male counterparts is the pro athlete, musician, actor. If that is not accessible the next best thing is the drug

dealer, thug, hustler. The regular 9 to 5 Fed ex dude or ambitious but works a part time gig dudes are mostly undesirable and not wanted. Chicks don't like to build anymore, people

aren't into the beauty of struggling, growing and making something together anymore. It's either you have it or you don't. This is why most black men that are "successful" from a

monetary standpoint have resentment for black women as they get older. It becomes, " %#@@ you +#+%% you didn't and wouldn't look my way when I was the cable guy!" Not to

mention men have their own illusions and hangups about what a "successful" black man should have holding his arm. In a nutshell we are ****## and most people don't have a clue

what "love" is anyway so discussions like this are pointless......... carry on.

dropping knowledge as always

Excellent

 

[ricky409]

Originally Posted by 4U2C

This is BS. I been to various cities states bars clubs malls get together whatever. Met alot of black women. No disrespect, but Im a tall handsome black male who got his own stuff, car, money bla bla..

I had alot of women and most was about jack. When I do find a women i like they are to busy chasing joe blow the neighbor hood baller .

I think they real problem is black men have problems finding a good black women. Now that I think of it, I dont think I can say out of all the women I messed with that i really never found a good black women who was down to earth.

I'm older and the young girls are cool, the older ones are like whatever.

WOW I'm really thinking now. I'm almost 30 and I cant really say if I ever meet a "good women" in my times. Strange. Most always lied, wanted money, chasing other dudes , clubber or something or had kid or kids.

I never meet a girl with a degree or career behind her except a few but they were far to fat or ugly for me.

I'm going to have to do some thinking on this and get back to you all

i know that feel bro. smh.

 

[smedroc]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

God I wish men were as picky as women were when it comes to "success"! Could you imagine what the game would be like!? What most people fail to realize is that we are talking

about people that are looking at marriage as a application process wherein the only suitors that are qualified have to be "successful" by worldly standards. hahahahaha It's no

wonder the divorce rates are so high and people are genuinely not happy no matter how "rich" they are. If Oprah tried to marry me I wouldn't do it but at the same time if the

equivalent male counterpart approached most western women, they would jump all over it even if they found him completely butt ugly and uninteresting. This issue is much bigger

than a black issue. It's easy to highlight the black part of this social paradigm because black people are not on equal footing in most western(white) controlled countries therefore as

consequence this scenario plays out.(They also so eloquently never mention that there are far more black women then men in these pieces.) Furthermore it doesn't help that in our

hyper materialistic modern society where most of the celebrated black celebrities and stars are filthy rich or pretend to be through every facet of the entertainment medium it builds a

false reality wherein black women believe the creme de le creme of their male counterparts is the pro athlete, musician, actor. If that is not accessible the next best thing is the drug

dealer, thug, hustler. The regular 9 to 5 Fed ex dude or ambitious but works a part time gig dudes are mostly undesirable and not wanted. Chicks don't like to build anymore, people

aren't into the beauty of struggling, growing and making something together anymore. It's either you have it or you don't. This is why most black men that are "successful" from a

monetary standpoint have resentment for black women as they get older. It becomes, " %#@@ you +#+%% you didn't and wouldn't look my way when I was the cable guy!" Not to

mention men have their own illusions and hangups about what a "successful" black man should have holding his arm. In a nutshell we are ****## and most people don't have a clue

what "love" is anyway so discussions like this are pointless......... carry on.

my man..

 

[oidreez]

Wisepharoah speaking truth

 

[aka longstroke]

This thread has me crackin' up! All I gotta say is that wait until you peeps get a bit older, then you'll see that it is even worse than you've ever dreamed!
 Being a well rounded, well read, articulate, then well traveled Black man, you'll see the world a bit differently than those who've never done as much...and then you realize how the world sees you. You pounce upon the stereotype, meeting people, women, of all nationalities, those who may have never thought to deal with Black men, due to the stereotypical images that are purported about US. They find that you may not know every rap lyric that is in the top ten, that you know more about Miles and 'trane, Roy Hargrove, and Herbie  Hancock, and that you actually READ, because we are not supposed to be able to that, right? Then the fact that we are able to defend ourselves, not simply because we did a bid, but then don't even start about our clothes actually fitting!

So I try to come home, desiring that wonderful sister, who should be able to appreciate all that I have evolved in to, and what's the first question she asks me?

You're not married, live on your own, make your own paper, you are of a certain age, not a christian nor religious, 

are you gay or something?




The marginalization of Black men by Black women is a major issue in Black on Black relationships. It is bad enough that we have to deal with that crap everywhere else, but where it should not happen, it is intensified tenfold.

I see it, and deal with it everyday. The issue is that with these sort of women, not all of them, but most, they want to be taken seriously, yet they live the stereotype to the core.

So why should I take an individual who behaves in a stereotypical fashion seriously again?

 

[knowledgethefoundation]

the thread title alone made me lol

 

[blackmagnus514]

Homie does bring a up a very good point. There's an obsession with black men being on the down low that some sistas perpetuate. Hell, I'm a regular dude and I've had girls I was talking to insinuate that I'm gay simply because I didn't wanna sleep with them for whatever reason.

The funny thing is, those same !*@!%% have gay male friends and always complain about thirsty dude sand how dudes don't know how to talk to women.

It's even worse when you around ppl in the entertainment business. These chicks are obsessed on knowing who's gay or not. I personally think its a way to remove the "threatening" image of the black man and make it something other. if its like either you're a super thug or a athlete or rapper or gay.theres no medium for a heterosexual average guy. I don't even watch much TV besides sports and maybe one or two shows.

Even this movie, Red Tails, I'm super excited about because it seems like there hasn't been a movie for us and lo and behold I think it's a Lucas film. People always talk about black actors not getting work or being talented enough and here in 2012 we have a film about national heroes. I hope there's no funny style %$$ in the film either.

 

[blackmagnus514]

I'm tired of these shows and articles. They act like these sistas are CEOs. On Nightline, they talked about this. One of them was a payroll specialist and the other was an attorney/professional cheerleader or something like that.

I don't understand...if you're independent, what do how much a guy makes or his job have bearing on why you would date him?

 

[sillyputty]

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

I'm tired of these shows and articles. They act like these sistas are CEOs. On Nightline, they talked about this. One of them was a payroll specialist and the other was an attorney/professional cheerleader or something like that.

I don't understand...if you're independent, what do how much a guy makes or his job have bearing on why you would date him?

Yo...Tariq went IN on those chicks with that episode. 

One of these girls was a High School Counselor acting like she was a successful business woman....like PIPE DOWN 

This is what I see on my timeline from time to time... 

The hypocrisy just goes right over their heads. 

 

 

I've never seen someone with such an inflated sense of "self" 

 

[primetime21]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

God I wish men were as picky as women were when it comes to "success"! Could you imagine what the game would be like!? What most people fail to realize is that we are talking

about people that are looking at marriage as a application process wherein the only suitors that are qualified have to be "successful" by worldly standards. hahahahaha It's no

wonder the divorce rates are so high and people are genuinely not happy no matter how "rich" they are. If Oprah tried to marry me I wouldn't do it but at the same time if the

equivalent male counterpart approached most western women, they would jump all over it even if they found him completely butt ugly and uninteresting. This issue is much bigger

than a black issue. It's easy to highlight the black part of this social paradigm because black people are not on equal footing in most western(white) controlled countries therefore as

consequence this scenario plays out.(They also so eloquently never mention that there are far more black women then men in these pieces.) Furthermore it doesn't help that in our

hyper materialistic modern society where most of the celebrated black celebrities and stars are filthy rich or pretend to be through every facet of the entertainment medium it builds a

false reality wherein black women believe the creme de le creme of their male counterparts is the pro athlete, musician, actor. If that is not accessible the next best thing is the drug

dealer, thug, hustler. The regular 9 to 5 Fed ex dude or ambitious but works a part time gig dudes are mostly undesirable and not wanted. Chicks don't like to build anymore, people

aren't into the beauty of struggling, growing and making something together anymore. It's either you have it or you don't. This is why most black men that are "successful" from a

monetary standpoint have resentment for black women as they get older. It becomes, " %#@@ you +#+%% you didn't and wouldn't look my way when I was the cable guy!" Not to

mention men have their own illusions and hangups about what a "successful" black man should have holding his arm. In a nutshell we are ****## and most people don't have a clue

what "love" is anyway so discussions like this are pointless......... carry on.

too much real life..................

 

[brotherforreal]

another thing black women need to do is follow suit.

If black men can go outside their race and find happiness, why wouldn't you want "risk" doing something outside your comfort zone and maybe come away with a good man.

 

[ricky409]

Originally Posted by AKA LONGSTROKE

This thread has me crackin' up! All I gotta say is that wait until you peeps get a bit older, then you'll see that it is even worse than you've ever dreamed!
 Being a well rounded, well read, articulate, then well traveled Black man, you'll see the world a bit differently than those who've never done as much...and then you realize how the world sees you. You pounce upon the stereotype, meeting people, women, of all nationalities, those who may have never thought to deal with Black men, due to the stereotypical images that are purported about US. They find that you may not know every rap lyric that is in the top ten, that you know more about Miles and 'trane, Roy Hargrove, and Herbie  Hancock, and that you actually READ, because we are not supposed to be able to that, right? Then the fact that we are able to defend ourselves, not simply because we did a bid, but then don't even start about our clothes actually fitting!

So I try to come home, desiring that wonderful sister, who should be able to appreciate all that I have evolved in to, and what's the first question she asks me?

You're not married, live on your own, make your own paper, you are of a certain age, not a christian nor religious, 

are you gay or something?




The marginalization of Black men by Black women is a major issue in Black on Black relationships. It is bad enough that we have to deal with that crap everywhere else, but where it should not happen, it is intensified tenfold.

I see it, and deal with it everyday. The issue is that with these sort of women, not all of them, but most, they want to be taken seriously, yet they live the stereotype to the core.

So why should I take an individual who behaves in a stereotypical fashion seriously again?

fambs.... does it REALLY get that bad?
i'm on my way out of this college life into the professional world.

i'm still gonna be in grad school, but i'm turning 23 in a few months...

so... are the black women that ... i dont even know what to call it... 

what ever it is, are they that?

 

[thunderchunk69]

Smh, these women must be Dominican.

Amidoinitrite?

 

[bravo]

Originally Posted by primetime21

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

too much real life..................

wall of text is too real 

 

[brotherforreal]

Originally Posted by ricky409

Originally Posted by AKA LONGSTROKE

This thread has me crackin' up! All I gotta say is that wait until you peeps get a bit older, then you'll see that it is even worse than you've ever dreamed!
 Being a well rounded, well read, articulate, then well traveled Black man, you'll see the world a bit differently than those who've never done as much...and then you realize how the world sees you. You pounce upon the stereotype, meeting people, women, of all nationalities, those who may have never thought to deal with Black men, due to the stereotypical images that are purported about US. They find that you may not know every rap lyric that is in the top ten, that you know more about Miles and 'trane, Roy Hargrove, and Herbie  Hancock, and that you actually READ, because we are not supposed to be able to that, right? Then the fact that we are able to defend ourselves, not simply because we did a bid, but then don't even start about our clothes actually fitting!

So I try to come home, desiring that wonderful sister, who should be able to appreciate all that I have evolved in to, and what's the first question she asks me?

You're not married, live on your own, make your own paper, you are of a certain age, not a christian nor religious, 

are you gay or something?




The marginalization of Black men by Black women is a major issue in Black on Black relationships. It is bad enough that we have to deal with that crap everywhere else, but where it should not happen, it is intensified tenfold.

I see it, and deal with it everyday. The issue is that with these sort of women, not all of them, but most, they want to be taken seriously, yet they live the stereotype to the core.

So why should I take an individual who behaves in a stereotypical fashion seriously again?

fambs.... does it REALLY get that bad?
i'm on my way out of this college life into the professional world.

i'm still gonna be in grad school, but i'm turning 23 in a few months...

so... are the black women that ... i dont even know what to call it... 

what ever it is, are they that?

In Los Angeles...heres how it goes.
Bougie, Overly Pretty girls with nothing to offer other than their genitals are with one of 2 types. Thugs or Athletes

Educated black girls (9-10's) are bitter cause they can't find a good man. They're waiting for that "ideal" black man to come get them

Educated black girls (6-8's) are in relationships but pressure their significant others into the ticking clock and marriage before 30s.)

Educated black girls (5-below) are in interracial or same race relationships. HAPPILY.

Ratchets outnumber all of the above and well they're with whoever accepts them with their 3-5 kids and thinks having EBT is a plus.

The problem with L.A. and black women is that theres a thirst to be "seen" and in all honesty you're not going to find LOVE in a club. Most the dudes in the club live with their moms and bum rides.