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Put all the stuff in a box/away somewhere I can't get to. Then I go get my Johnson wet.
*** What Do You Do after a break up? All the stuff that was meaningful at one point. . . .
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My girlfriend broke up with my a few weeks ago. Its still hard but it has gotten easier and will be ok eventually. I still have all the stuff, just put away somewhere and I don't wear the clothes from her. Just keep busy and active. And don't cry because you're sad, smile because it happened.
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My girlfriend broke up with my a few weeks ago. Its still hard but it has gotten easier and will be ok eventually. I still have all the stuff, just put away somewhere and I don't wear the clothes from her. Just keep busy and active. And don't cry because you're sad, smile because it happened.
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Get rid of everything. Photos, letters, emails, text messages, home movies
, etc.. things that remind you of her will only prolong your suffering and will drain you.
Plus it's ok to be sad and depressed. I actually embrace it. Why? Because after breaking up with a girl you really cared for, your emotions will run it's course and the sooner you accept it not just in your mind but in your heart, the closer you are to recovery. First you are confused of what really happened. Then you will deny it and think back to what you did wrong. Then you will be angry. Soon after you will begin to accept and that's when you will move on .
Easiest way for me to get over a gf is to smash a random. It just builds your confidence to the 10000th degree.
Plus it's ok to be sad and depressed. I actually embrace it. Why? Because after breaking up with a girl you really cared for, your emotions will run it's course and the sooner you accept it not just in your mind but in your heart, the closer you are to recovery. First you are confused of what really happened. Then you will deny it and think back to what you did wrong. Then you will be angry. Soon after you will begin to accept and that's when you will move on .
Easiest way for me to get over a gf is to smash a random. It just builds your confidence to the 10000th degree.
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Get rid of everything. Photos, letters, emails, text messages, home movies
, etc.. things that remind you of her will only prolong your suffering and will drain you.
Plus it's ok to be sad and depressed. I actually embrace it. Why? Because after breaking up with a girl you really cared for, your emotions will run it's course and the sooner you accept it not just in your mind but in your heart, the closer you are to recovery. First you are confused of what really happened. Then you will deny it and think back to what you did wrong. Then you will be angry. Soon after you will begin to accept and that's when you will move on .
Easiest way for me to get over a gf is to smash a random. It just builds your confidence to the 10000th degree.
Plus it's ok to be sad and depressed. I actually embrace it. Why? Because after breaking up with a girl you really cared for, your emotions will run it's course and the sooner you accept it not just in your mind but in your heart, the closer you are to recovery. First you are confused of what really happened. Then you will deny it and think back to what you did wrong. Then you will be angry. Soon after you will begin to accept and that's when you will move on .
Easiest way for me to get over a gf is to smash a random. It just builds your confidence to the 10000th degree.
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Ive gotten rid of a lot of the ex's stuff, but the pics and vids are keepers
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Ive gotten rid of a lot of the ex's stuff, but the pics and vids are keepers
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THIS (for me)
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THIS (for me)
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Better yourself. Your identity should not be tied to your past relationship. Focus on you.
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Better yourself. Your identity should not be tied to your past relationship. Focus on you.
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^ This, exactly
*source: personal experience
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^ This, exactly
*source: personal experience
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Yeup.
Some people will tell you "Get rid of everything. Go out and *!++ all these @+##!+%. Get a new one to help you forget about the old one." etc, etc... but in reality, you're just running away from the pain and trying to rid of what was once a beautiful thing. Like dude said, face the pain, the worries, and the loneliness. Cry if you have to man. It will help out a lot. Just don't stall because it will accumulate and come back and bite you even harder. Work on your self and improve it even more. I personally wouldn't throw out some things that have a deeper meaning. I just stashed all of these things in my closet somewhere and look through some stuff every now and then. It brings a smile, and knot on my throat, to view an object that brings back good memories. Feels good man
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Yeup.
Some people will tell you "Get rid of everything. Go out and *!++ all these @+##!+%. Get a new one to help you forget about the old one." etc, etc... but in reality, you're just running away from the pain and trying to rid of what was once a beautiful thing. Like dude said, face the pain, the worries, and the loneliness. Cry if you have to man. It will help out a lot. Just don't stall because it will accumulate and come back and bite you even harder. Work on your self and improve it even more. I personally wouldn't throw out some things that have a deeper meaning. I just stashed all of these things in my closet somewhere and look through some stuff every now and then. It brings a smile, and knot on my throat, to view an object that brings back good memories. Feels good man
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