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im going through the same dilema just the other day some radom chick grabed me and all i could think about was smashing it but at the same time i dont wanna domy girl like that.....but the [()] is tempting
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Originally Posted by AntBanks81
It's tough as hell. I used to feel the only point to having a gf was to be able to go raw.
When the relationship is going well, its easy because then I can focus on more important things (money, career, school). But when we on the outs, temptation be a mofo.
Also, I think about what will happen if I get caught.
OP,I agree with you, it's difficult hitting the same one for an extended period of time.
That's a good point.Originally Posted by MrMoneyInDaBank
You gotta just remember that the grass always SEEMS greener on the other side. You got a girl, you know everything about her, accepted her flaws. Why would you wanna start over and deal with a new chick not knowing anything about her? I don't have the patience personally.
As far as the sex, it's better when you know that's all yours. You don't have to worry about who was smashing that the night before and what they got. Just remember to keep it fresh and try new things.
In conclusion,
Relationships > single life
Originally Posted by vrp32tl
Originally Posted by ninjahood
Bottomline is every "comitted" person I ever spoke to has cheated various times.
QFT.
Wait....what?!?! (Can't tell if you are joking or not).Originally Posted by freddymartinez
Originally Posted by dcortes23
just stay faithful... is watching porn cheating?
yes it is
Originally Posted by randyoss
That's a good point.Originally Posted by MrMoneyInDaBank
You gotta just remember that the grass always SEEMS greener on the other side. You got a girl, you know everything about her, accepted her flaws. Why would you wanna start over and deal with a new chick not knowing anything about her? I don't have the patience personally.
As far as the sex, it's better when you know that's all yours. You don't have to worry about who was smashing that the night before and what they got. Just remember to keep it fresh and try new things.
In conclusion,
Relationships > single life
I've been with my girl for over 7 years. There have been a few close calls as far as cheating and I've certainly thought about it. But I've found that at the end of the day, no P is worth losing what I have with my girl. And besides, I've found that masturbating while thinking about that chick you saw at Target with a nice fatty is a lot better than actually doing it. Know why? B/c in the fantasy she does ANYTHING and EVERYTHING you want her to do with no complaints.Just try that with a real woman.(And if they do, I don't even want to know what kind of things they've done, or *shudder* have!)
But really, the only way to get to this point is to find a woman who you love, have great chemistry with, who complements you, and is someone who you can easily see spending the rest of your life with. Don't know how common this is, but my girl does/says things all the time that (sappy as this may sound) make my heart feel warm.
Once you find all that, you'll find that it will be easy to stay committed.
And remember, despite all of that, it's not always easy or fun. There will be fights, arguments, etc., but what's important is how you resolve them and bounce back. Remember: EVERY girl is going to bring you some sort of grief or have some issues you have to deal with. The only reason that girl you see at Target/the mall/etc. looks perfect is b/c you don't know her.
Originally Posted by 951guero
Originally Posted by randyoss
That's a good point.Originally Posted by MrMoneyInDaBank
You gotta just remember that the grass always SEEMS greener on the other side. You got a girl, you know everything about her, accepted her flaws. Why would you wanna start over and deal with a new chick not knowing anything about her? I don't have the patience personally.
As far as the sex, it's better when you know that's all yours. You don't have to worry about who was smashing that the night before and what they got. Just remember to keep it fresh and try new things.
In conclusion,
Relationships > single life
I've been with my girl for over 7 years. There have been a few close calls as far as cheating and I've certainly thought about it. But I've found that at the end of the day, no P is worth losing what I have with my girl. And besides, I've found that masturbating while thinking about that chick you saw at Target with a nice fatty is a lot better than actually doing it. Know why? B/c in the fantasy she does ANYTHING and EVERYTHING you want her to do with no complaints.Just try that with a real woman.(And if they do, I don't even want to know what kind of things they've done, or *shudder* have!)
But really, the only way to get to this point is to find a woman who you love, have great chemistry with, who complements you, and is someone who you can easily see spending the rest of your life with. Don't know how common this is, but my girl does/says things all the time that (sappy as this may sound) make my heart feel warm.
Once you find all that, you'll find that it will be easy to stay committed.
And remember, despite all of that, it's not always easy or fun. There will be fights, arguments, etc., but what's important is how you resolve them and bounce back. Remember: EVERY girl is going to bring you some sort of grief or have some issues you have to deal with. The only reason that girl you see at Target/the mall/etc. looks perfect is b/c you don't know her.
So your saying Fantasizing is better than the real P;
Dog you on some Final Fantasy steez; just a quick question do you like video games?
DELETED - double post (yuku was acting up).Originally Posted by 951guero
Originally Posted by randyoss
That's a good point.Originally Posted by MrMoneyInDaBank
You gotta just remember that the grass always SEEMS greener on the other side. You got a girl, you know everything about her, accepted her flaws. Why would you wanna start over and deal with a new chick not knowing anything about her? I don't have the patience personally.
As far as the sex, it's better when you know that's all yours. You don't have to worry about who was smashing that the night before and what they got. Just remember to keep it fresh and try new things.
In conclusion,
Relationships > single life
I've been with my girl for over 7 years. There have been a few close calls as far as cheating and I've certainly thought about it. But I've found that at the end of the day, no P is worth losing what I have with my girl. And besides, I've found that masturbating while thinking about that chick you saw at Target with a nice fatty is a lot better than actually doing it. Know why? B/c in the fantasy she does ANYTHING and EVERYTHING you want her to do with no complaints.Just try that with a real woman.(And if they do, I don't even want to know what kind of things they've done, or *shudder* have!)
But really, the only way to get to this point is to find a woman who you love, have great chemistry with, who complements you, and is someone who you can easily see spending the rest of your life with. Don't know how common this is, but my girl does/says things all the time that (sappy as this may sound) make my heart feel warm.
Once you find all that, you'll find that it will be easy to stay committed.
And remember, despite all of that, it's not always easy or fun. There will be fights, arguments, etc., but what's important is how you resolve them and bounce back. Remember: EVERY girl is going to bring you some sort of grief or have some issues you have to deal with. The only reason that girl you see at Target/the mall/etc. looks perfect is b/c you don't know her.
So your saying Fantasizing is better than the real P;
Dog you on some Final Fantasy steez; just a quick question do you like video games?
Originally Posted by randyoss
Originally Posted by vrp32tl
Originally Posted by ninjahood
Bottomline is every "comitted" person I ever spoke to has cheated various times.
QFT.
Then you know a lot of people who shouldn't be in relationships.
I love it when people project "the people they know" onto all people in that group.
Yeah, but for that group only. It doesn't apply to ALL people in committed relationships. If you meant the former, then I apologize.Originally Posted by vrp32tl
Originally Posted by randyoss
Originally Posted by vrp32tl
Originally Posted by ninjahood
Bottomline is every "comitted" person I ever spoke to has cheated various times.
QFT.
Then you know a lot of people who shouldn't be in relationships.
I love it when people project "the people they know" onto all people in that group.
Well if everyone that group tells you they've cheated @ one time or another doesn't it make it true?
Your statement was pointless. exit the thread immediately.Originally Posted by 951guero
Originally Posted by randyoss
That's a good point.Originally Posted by MrMoneyInDaBank
You gotta just remember that the grass always SEEMS greener on the other side. You got a girl, you know everything about her, accepted her flaws. Why would you wanna start over and deal with a new chick not knowing anything about her? I don't have the patience personally.
As far as the sex, it's better when you know that's all yours. You don't have to worry about who was smashing that the night before and what they got. Just remember to keep it fresh and try new things.
In conclusion,
Relationships > single life
I've been with my girl for over 7 years. There have been a few close calls as far as cheating and I've certainly thought about it. But I've found that at the end of the day, no P is worth losing what I have with my girl. And besides, I've found that masturbating while thinking about that chick you saw at Target with a nice fatty is a lot better than actually doing it. Know why? B/c in the fantasy she does ANYTHING and EVERYTHING you want her to do with no complaints.Just try that with a real woman.(And if they do, I don't even want to know what kind of things they've done, or *shudder* have!)
But really, the only way to get to this point is to find a woman who you love, have great chemistry with, who complements you, and is someone who you can easily see spending the rest of your life with. Don't know how common this is, but my girl does/says things all the time that (sappy as this may sound) make my heart feel warm.
Once you find all that, you'll find that it will be easy to stay committed.
And remember, despite all of that, it's not always easy or fun. There will be fights, arguments, etc., but what's important is how you resolve them and bounce back. Remember: EVERY girl is going to bring you some sort of grief or have some issues you have to deal with. The only reason that girl you see at Target/the mall/etc. looks perfect is b/c you don't know her.
So your saying Fantasizing is better than the real P;
Dog you on some Final Fantasy steez; just a quick question do you like video games?
I've heard this before; my ex used to say he "invested" way too much in me already.Originally Posted by bigsupa
You gotta make sure u never get caught cuz its cheaper to keep her...REAL TALK...
Originally Posted by KayCurrency
"Committed" and "relationship" cant be in the same sentence when it comes to "males"
...And we play the "double standard" card as much as we can......Shame on us
Originally Posted by milestailsprowe
Originally Posted by KayCurrency
"Committed" and "relationship" cant be in the same sentence when it comes to "males"
...And we play the "double standard" card as much as we can......Shame on us
Females are different?
In my experience, getting sex in a committed long-term relationship is all emotional for women. Meaning if a woman isn't happy emotionally(like if she feels you're not doing enough in the relationship (housework, chores, etc.)), you're not getting it.Originally Posted by KayCurrency
Originally Posted by milestailsprowe
Originally Posted by KayCurrency
"Committed" and "relationship" cant be in the same sentence when it comes to "males"
...And we play the "double standard" card as much as we can......Shame on us
Females are different?
Yeah...Sex is a more emotional event for MOST women, Even Kissing.....Men just dont care....