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good stuff, sir. Personally I don't have a lot of first dates because there is usually a 2nd or 3rd....Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
Yea in a RELATIONSHIP it doesn't matter, but he doesn't need to get into the habit of paying for ALL of these "1st dates" because it is "the right thing to do. We as men have too many first dates to be spending $ on ALL of them. Add that $ up and you will seriously question why you do it. Again, best first date is to go somewhere where you can just talk and focus on each other.Originally Posted by RyeNO
this is only one small aspect of the big picture OP, but there is nothing wrong with paying, esp. if it's your first date with the lady. My secret is that I try to do afternoon first dates (lunch is cheaper than dinner; if you wanna go the movie route, matinee prices can usually be had; etc).
You don't want to set a trend of paying for everything though, thats for sure. If the girl is into you and she says she wants to pay next time, let her. In a good relationship, it doesn't matter who pays; it's that youre out together thats most important.