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Guys, did you used to think girls were sweet and innocent? What changed your mind?
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word ... i was telling my dude ... i will ask a chick anything ... i don't believe in no reformed chick, i look in the right places, but no matter where ulooking imo like its been said
i remember one chick i grew up w/ was real cool w/ apparently liked me so much she wanted to FUFILL her fantasies w/ me cause she trusted me ...
"I WANT YOU AND ANOTHER DUDE TO TAG ME AND TAPE IT" ... this was right after i met the extended fam ...
.. i guess this was the "nextstep"
thas just one example ... we all got our own experiences, we all know where we try to get girls at... i prefer girls w/ single digits ... and honest ... chicksplay the game well, can lie thru their teeth, etc.... some of us find good ones, some of us don't care, some of us will wife JOs ....
cats don't do they research ... if shorty got a myspace, facebook, blogs -- look it up ... you'll find out so much ... ask those "tough"intimate ?s ... at the end of the day u gonna be hugging up on her and kissing on her and doing w/e ...
so u midas well find out ... don't just ask if she gets tested on the reg... ask has she ever be burnt ... if u feeling her and she say she got burnt 10yrs ago and was honest w/ u ... could u handle... ask if she ever been preg... etc ...
when my homegirl told me that her friends at PITT stay in 3somes (2 dudes) and that you may want to ask a girl her thoughts about that ... i was like wow ...i'm sure most dudes would oh hell no ... but at the same time what if u asked her and she said if i in love w/ my dude i may do him and another girl ...U'd prolly be like
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its crazy out there ... i'm picky as hell ... but i'm realistic ... if i can handle the skeletons and u upfront and honest ... and decent i can try toget to know u better but like black said only trust em as far as u can throw em ... b/c even after all ur research ... u still taking a chance .... word to thedude that w/ the girl for 5 years and she hit up w/ balloons ... a couple weeks later she got another 5 dudes on her list ...
i remember one chick i grew up w/ was real cool w/ apparently liked me so much she wanted to FUFILL her fantasies w/ me cause she trusted me ...
"I WANT YOU AND ANOTHER DUDE TO TAG ME AND TAPE IT" ... this was right after i met the extended fam ...
thas just one example ... we all got our own experiences, we all know where we try to get girls at... i prefer girls w/ single digits ... and honest ... chicksplay the game well, can lie thru their teeth, etc.... some of us find good ones, some of us don't care, some of us will wife JOs ....
cats don't do they research ... if shorty got a myspace, facebook, blogs -- look it up ... you'll find out so much ... ask those "tough"intimate ?s ... at the end of the day u gonna be hugging up on her and kissing on her and doing w/e ...
so u midas well find out ... don't just ask if she gets tested on the reg... ask has she ever be burnt ... if u feeling her and she say she got burnt 10yrs ago and was honest w/ u ... could u handle... ask if she ever been preg... etc ...
when my homegirl told me that her friends at PITT stay in 3somes (2 dudes) and that you may want to ask a girl her thoughts about that ... i was like wow ...i'm sure most dudes would oh hell no ... but at the same time what if u asked her and she said if i in love w/ my dude i may do him and another girl ...U'd prolly be like
its crazy out there ... i'm picky as hell ... but i'm realistic ... if i can handle the skeletons and u upfront and honest ... and decent i can try toget to know u better but like black said only trust em as far as u can throw em ... b/c even after all ur research ... u still taking a chance .... word to thedude that w/ the girl for 5 years and she hit up w/ balloons ... a couple weeks later she got another 5 dudes on her list ...
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That's a new one.
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I am glad i found myself a good girl. But im scared of whats gonna happen when my daughter grows up. Hopefully me an my lady will be able to instill some goodteachings so she will grow up respectible.
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I'd be so disappointed if I had a daughter. No sexist.
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i'd be distraught, scared, terrified, angry, somber, saddened, worried, and a slew of other emotions too
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i got a good one too.. and she has a little girl.. i REALLY hope all the things shes teaching and talkin to her about now last throughtout the years..
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Originally Posted by jawnyquest
i got a good one too.. and she has a little girl.. i REALLY hope all the things shes teaching and talkin to her about now last throughtout the years..
I feel you on that. I just hope she listens to what we teach her as she grows. Still got plenty of time since she is just turning 1 on the 25th. But whenthe time comes...
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QFT man,
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Applaud this man.
Pure accelerated Genius
But what changed my mind? wither it would be a female friend of mine or a GF at the time I sat back and thought that at some point in time, they did somethingso stupid I couldn not even process a response towards it. The pettiness they had, the stupid things they had said, the way they acted whenever they neededsomething, I realize that even though not all women are so cold blooded, each one posseses the potential of breaking you. It doesn't matter if they are afriend or your girl, at some point in time they will do something so stupid that it often changes your perspective on them all.
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the way they acted whenever they needed something
Ex: My ex who I'm cool with was talking to me about being stressed out for finals talking about how her papers are killing her and how she needs anassistant and a writer to help her for her paper....she knows i still like her while she's going on I'm there like sorry I'm busy. Like cuz i like you I'm supposed to drop what i'm doing and write a 3 page paper
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^^^^ See what im saying?
they are manipulative, not all of them like i said, but they all have that potential to be like that and ruthless with it.
they are manipulative, not all of them like i said, but they all have that potential to be like that and ruthless with it.
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Is this because you both feel that you would be incapable of raising a female to respect herself--which really goes to show just how great of a father you are,ultimately...
Or is it because you're afraid of all the slick-talking, swag dripping, superficially urbane young fellas whose only goal, and paramount concern, is to tryand sex every fine lil "thang" they can charm their way around. You know those fellas i'm talking about right-- the type that prefer to turn goodgirls into bad girls 'cause "aint nothing betta than p___ that's still innocent and tight..."
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For me im confident that my daughter will be raised right. Or atleast to the best of my capabilities. Im worried about the dudes. Since i toowas once one and know how dudes think. And nowadays dudes be gettin younger and younger spitten game to females.
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Im worried about the dudes...
My daughter's (when i have one) gonna be siddity and rightfully so....she gonna be like me...i'ma school her on sex early cuz i learned early....
Something about knowing my daughter aint gonna be my little girl one day is a reason why...not to mention females are more high maintenance and emotionallycharged than male children...something about a son being a obnoxious slimeball who plays in mud is cool with me.
My daughter's (when i have one) gonna be siddity and rightfully so....she gonna be like me...i'ma school her on sex early cuz i learned early....
Something about knowing my daughter aint gonna be my little girl one day is a reason why...not to mention females are more high maintenance and emotionallycharged than male children...something about a son being a obnoxious slimeball who plays in mud is cool with me.
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No... i know that i will be a good father...
Im scared because of all the pressure she will be under to have sex at such a young age, likely before she's mentally ready for sex... like i can instillall the morals in the world, be the greatest mentor, teacher & all that... teach her about sex & put her up on game sumtin vicious...
but i know at the end of the day its an uphill battle to teach young girls to wait to have sex...
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It is annoying. EVERY GIRL I talk to sooner or later I bring up to topic of sex because even though I will literallyOriginally Posted by Orangatrang
No, you're right. I was just trying to convey my point that good girls are harder to come by.
At the same time I've come to realize that just because a girl has been with someone or a few (
Btw I realized this really in the 10th grade when dudes told me they (a set of twins and their cousin) ran train on a chick I used to like
Then I thought "DAMN"!
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This.
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Originally Posted by trapmuzik617
that caught my attention then i forgot everything i read in his post
yeh ... then i should go back and change prolly, and all other used shortcuts ... b/c i don't know how to spell ... and u can't understand what itmeans ...
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jawny are u serious?Originally Posted by jawnyquest
i got a good one too.. and she has a little girl.. i REALLY hope all the things shes teaching and talkin to her about now last throughtout the years..
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whats a rainbow party?
yea unfortunately i also learned the hard way when the girl i thought was the one screwed me over. But honestly we have to learn to play the game and wear thatrubba!
I think this was one of the greatest things my uncle told me. What number of guys a girl has told you she has been with. Take that number and multiply it by 2.
also regarding that rape fantasy's they have. Honestly recently ive been meeting so many women who have been raped. Its crazy. Poor women are so f'din the head. Straight up makes them bipolar
yea unfortunately i also learned the hard way when the girl i thought was the one screwed me over. But honestly we have to learn to play the game and wear thatrubba!
I think this was one of the greatest things my uncle told me. What number of guys a girl has told you she has been with. Take that number and multiply it by 2.
also regarding that rape fantasy's they have. Honestly recently ive been meeting so many women who have been raped. Its crazy. Poor women are so f'din the head. Straight up makes them bipolar
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Originally Posted by habib77fm
whats a rainbow party?
yea unfortunately i also learned the hard way when the girl i thought was the one screwed me over. But honestly we have to learn to play the game and wear that rubba!
I think this was one of the greatest things my uncle told me. What number of guys a girl has told you she has been with. Take that number and multiply it by 2.
also regarding that rape fantasy's they have. Honestly recently ive been meeting so many women who have been raped. Its crazy. Poor women are so f'd in the head. Straight up makes them bipolar
A rainbow party is where the girls wear different colored lipsticks and the guys get to see how many colors of the "rainbow" they can get on theirjunk. Luckily, these types of parties are pretty rare and the media has blown them out of proportion
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Pure accelerated Genius
But what changed my mind? wither it would be a female friend of mine or a GF at the time I sat back and thought that at some point in time, they did something so stupid I couldn not even process a response towards it. The pettiness they had, the stupid things they had said, the way they acted whenever they needed something, I realize that even though not all women are so cold blooded, each one posseses the potential of breaking you. It doesn't matter if they are a friend or your girl, at some point in time they will do something so stupid that it often changes your perspective on them all.
These men speak the truth. You have to sit back and observe, and be assertive only when necessary. I learned this freshmen year in highschool. I was in aclass wit one of the baddest girls in my school at the time, and the rest of the class were full of the type of dudes that were only tryna smash in the class. She somehow struck up a convo wit me one day, i guess since i never really said much in the way of tryna get at her, and through the whole semester we becamevery close, to the point where she was feelin me, but couldnt see herself with a freshmen..
Oh and to answer the OP, i saw this when every week through highschool, another girl got pregnant, or got caught doming a dude up, or got a train ran..Itbecame the norm for me..Out of my close circle of 20 or so homegirls back from highschool(graduated 05) only 2 are NOT pregnant, and one of those got pregnanton graduation night and had an abortion so she could go to college...so yeah..girls are a trip..