Guys, did you used to think girls were sweet and innocent? What changed your mind?

[juve9ile18]

Nah for real...it depends on how you define Jumpoff. If you're messing with a girl with out a title..i.e girlfriend or wife...that my man is a Jumpoff. Youcan upgrade her to relationship status but until then shes just a fling. Most of the chicks I dated were jumpoffs for me because I would mess with them beforeanything is set in stone. I like test driving the whip before buying it you feel me? I'll be damned to have a girl who's sex game is wack. That wouldlead to infidelity.

 

[solemate96]

Originally Posted by NomadicSole21

Live and learn fellas, it hits us all at one point.

 

[nawth21]

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

that's because you see almost every girl as a former/potential JO

not to be a sexist pig....but they arent? at least not once? if they arent new, they will be at some point or another.

all it takes is some words and a demeanor they like+honesty and the "right" female will be yours

i see what you guys were talkin about with shorty

but at least she's candid

some of these other chicks have you walkin around Times Square with them and the entire block beat it up already. Including the guy who sells roasted peanuts



nah, well if I was some guys JO he put in some work just for booty - I won't have sex with a guy unless we're in a relationship. Sex isn't allthat in my world, so I can be patient. If he doesn't want a relationship - or it just doesn't work out before we get to that point (ie dating) thennothing lost. I never was into one night stands or friend with benefits type deals either. Doesn't mean I don't have a sexual past though, once youreach a certain age every one does but it doesn't make a chick a jump off or *##@*. I'd be more likely to raise an eyebrow at the 27 year old womanwho only has 1 or 2 sexual partners. Especially if she hadn't been in any long term relationships. but it's whatever, another womans sexual historyis none of my business.

 

[lurkin2long]

Originally Posted by ericberry14

Originally Posted by Juve9ile18

My current girl was a jumpoff at one point so I know.

uhh... i would suggest that you dump that girl...

in his defense..........people can change.

i see what you guys were talkin about with shorty

but at least she's candid

some of these other chicks have you walkin around Times Square with them and the entire block beat it up already. Including the guy who sells roasted peanuts
true, an she does get props for that

threads like this are the reason i hit post count

 

[iblink]

Good girls are out there. But the good ones are usually the bench warmers; girls you'd normally pass up on because they're not "fine" enough.

See, you have to take into account that men want the prettiest girl they can find. Once they've obtained said girl, they proceed to turn her out andshe's likely to allow such derogatory things to pop off because she thinks the dude loves her; usually he doesn't.

So now that all of the "fine" broads have a track sheet longer than yours, you can't just assume that all the good ones are gone; just the goodlooking ones

 

[heliumclinton]

I understand why most of yall be making girl related threads

but to the girl who made that 'if I like him the first night I'll give it up' line I wonder how ya man ninjahood feel about that? or did he meetyou like that too?

 

[downtown43]

i can point to one turning point in my life... all throughout HS, i was wondering if i was ever going to get any cheeks. then i went to senior week in OceanCity after HS graduation, and all the "nice girls" that i had known for the past 4 years were the biggest freaks all of a sudden..

out of nowhere, this one girl i used to talk to in class opened up to me like"i always thought you were really funny and smart" blah blah... within that week i was getting my first piece of !+! haha

 

[lurkin2long]

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

that's because you see almost every girl as a former/potential JO

nah, well if I was some guys JO he put in some work just for booty - I won't have sex with a guy unless we're in a relationship. Sex isn't all that in my world, so I can be patient. If he doesn't want a relationship - or it just doesn't work out before we get to that point (ie dating) then nothing lost. I never was into one night stands or friend with benefits type deals either. Doesn't mean I don't have a sexual past though, once you reach a certain age every one does but it doesn't make a chick a jump off or *##@*. I'd be more likely to raise an eyebrow at the 27 year old woman who only has 1 or 2 sexual partners. Especially if she hadn't been in any long term relationships. but it's whatever, another womans sexual history is none of my business.


you dont count, youre that rare good girl

man 6 years no sexo, no bueno

 

[juve9ile18]

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Originally Posted by ericberry14

Originally Posted by Juve9ile18

My current girl was a jumpoff at one point so I know.

uhh... i would suggest that you dump that girl...

in his defense..........people can change.

i see what you guys were talkin about with shorty

but at least she's candid

some of these other chicks have you walkin around Times Square with them and the entire block beat it up already. Including the guy who sells roasted peanuts

true, an she does get props for that

threads like this are the reason i hit post count

^^ Haha you guys are crazy. Not saying my girl was someone elses JumpOff. I'm saying she was MYjumpoff since I was talking to more then one girl at that time. After thorough research of her past and whatnot lead to me actually sarting a relationship. Ican see where that sentence could be misleading haha.

 

[capricorn1229]

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

I really dont see what's so ridiculous about what shorty said. Every females has prolly felt like that during their life. Ya'll girls prolly felt like that too and that began your relationship.

nah my man.............even if shorties have felt like that one time or another they dont just come out and say it......like that

keeping the double standard in mind, she just came up kinda jumpoffish to all of NT for the most part, im not sayin nothin is wrong with that......im just sayin

If im a single female and I like a guy, guess what if's he nice enuff and im attracted to him, I'll give him some %**

so yea, she gets NT "quote of the month" award
Why are you going on her then? I'm still in shock my damn self she put herself so blatantly on skid street like that but she was real abouthers at least. You don't know everybody's story and why they are the way that they are.

 

[blackmagnus514]

Nawth is SUCH a grandma...like seriously...

 

[bravo]

strip clubs

 

[lurkin2long]

Why are you going on her then? I'm still in shock my damn self she put herself so blatantly on skid street like that but she was real about hers at least. You don't know everybody's story and why they are the way that they are.

nah man, im not goin in

the comment was funny, and she kept it real. im sure in real life she dont go around sayin "you cute and your nice, here go the #^$#& if you wantit"

 

[downtown43]

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

that's because you see almost every girl as a former/potential JO

nah, well if I was some guys JO he put in some work just for booty - I won't have sex with a guy unless we're in a relationship. Sex isn't all that in my world, so I can be patient. If he doesn't want a relationship - or it just doesn't work out before we get to that point (ie dating) then nothing lost. I never was into one night stands or friend with benefits type deals either. Doesn't mean I don't have a sexual past though, once you reach a certain age every one does but it doesn't make a chick a jump off or *##@*. I'd be more likely to raise an eyebrow at the 27 year old woman who only has 1 or 2 sexual partners. Especially if she hadn't been in any long term relationships. but it's whatever, another womans sexual history is none of my business.

you dont count, youre that rare good girl

man 6 years no sexo, no bueno

6 years? sounds like somebody was "lurkin toolong"...

Originally Posted by Juve9ile18

Unless your wifey was a virgin before you met her...9 times out of 10 your girl was someone else jumpoff

nah man, that's BS.

there are still plenty of girls out there who only have sex when they are in committed relationships. not every girl out there was somebody's JO or"**%% buddy."

you can tell who the JOs are by how they carry themselves.

 

[nawth21]

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

Nawth is SUCH a grandma...like seriously...

am not

 

[i drink your milkshake]

Originally Posted by FeeninLikeJodeci

I know for myself that growing up I thought girls were mostly innocent and guys were the ones that are dirty and perverted...This seemed to be true until I started hearing girlfriends or groups of girls talk about everything from the most disgusting porn they had seen to taking facials from different guys.

This was when I was 15. Went from thinking girls like romantic love making and soft core porn to understanding that they like rape fantasies, taking it up the %%$, deepthroat, and some watch more vile stuff than most guys.

Nowadays girls in their late teens and early 20's are hitting double digits, have had threesomes, rainbow parties and even orgies. They watch hardcore !@#* and do hardcore !@#*.

How is a guy supposed to get married or take a girl seriously at 25+ that has likely done some if not all of these things and/or is a feminazi/princess? It's extremely disappointing, I'm not making this thread to be an %#@!$@%, just looking for opinions.

yea...I was shocked too. Hearing from guys the advances or things they say to females and they don'tslap them or leave the vicinity in a split second. Stuff is mind boggling to me....

 

[ericberry14]

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

Nawth is SUCH a grandma...like seriously...

 

[million dollar stacks]

SMH man I give dude props, he even knows his own girl used to be a Jump Off. If that was me. nope in fact HELL NO. N girls try to get mad when u try n do urresearch on they ++%

Im just tryin to make sure damn!

 

[ericberry14]

Originally Posted by MILLION DOLLAR STACKS

SMH man I give dude props, he even knows his own girl used to be a Jump Off. If that was me. nope in fact HELL NO. N girls try to get mad when u try n do ur research on they ++%

Im just tryin to make sure damn!

dude gets props for being able to be with her knowing that every time he kiss her... he tastin the whole football/basketball/tennis/ squash teams jizz...

but hey to each his own...

 

[juve9ile18]

Originally Posted by DOWNTOWN43

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

that's because you see almost every girl as a former/potential JO

nah, well if I was some guys JO he put in some work just for booty - I won't have sex with a guy unless we're in a relationship. Sex isn't all that in my world, so I can be patient. If he doesn't want a relationship - or it just doesn't work out before we get to that point (ie dating) then nothing lost. I never was into one night stands or friend with benefits type deals either. Doesn't mean I don't have a sexual past though, once you reach a certain age every one does but it doesn't make a chick a jump off or *##@*. I'd be more likely to raise an eyebrow at the 27 year old woman who only has 1 or 2 sexual partners. Especially if she hadn't been in any long term relationships. but it's whatever, another womans sexual history is none of my business.

you dont count, youre that rare good girl

man 6 years no sexo, no bueno

6 years? sounds like somebody was "lurkin too long"...

Originally Posted by Juve9ile18

Unless your wifey was a virgin before you met her...9 times out of 10 your girl was someone else jumpoff

nah man, that's BS.

there are still plenty of girls out there who only have sex when they are in committed relationships. not every girl out there was somebody's JO or "**%% buddy."

you can tell who the JOs are by how they carry themselves.







How many do you know? Out of all your female friends that you know...what percentage of them do you KNOW will only have sexual relations in a committedrelationship. I know only a couple...and that's including my sister. I'm friends with a lot of females too...Man if I have a daughter I will be worstthen Irv Gotti on Gotti's Way

 

[lurkin2long]

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

Nawth is SUCH a grandma...like seriously...

am not

so would you say youre Prude?

 

[million dollar stacks]

Originally Posted by ericberry14

Originally Posted by MILLION DOLLAR STACKS

SMH man I give dude props, he even knows his own girl used to be a Jump Off. If that was me. nope in fact HELL NO. N girls try to get mad when u try n do ur research on they ++%

Im just tryin to make sure damn!

dude gets props for being able to be with her knowing that every time he kiss her... he tastin the whole football/basketball/tennis/ squash teams jizz...

but hey to each his own...

Come on bo!

I mean im serious though, hats off to him, and the other cats that know they girl went hard, is still possibly going hardwhile they are together.

 

[antbanks81]

I got cheated on by my 1st my senior year of HS. That didit to me. I said %%%% it and bought the OG black red 14s the next morning. My big cousin talked to methat night and explained thats what women are capable of. Even though I was crazy for her cause she was the first, I'm thankful for the lesson cause itmade me who I am today.

 

[be23forlife]

girls are ruthless...to get the good ones you gotta pass up the JO's

 

[nawth21]

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

Nawth is SUCH a grandma...like seriously...

am not

so would you say youre Prude?

oh no way

I love sex. I'll try anything once, minus poo and bestiality or really weird crap. But, I don't *need* it as in I'd go out andsleep with some random dude just for the sake of getting some.