thizzbaby
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- Dec 13, 2008
ok so this isnt a typical "omg my gf broke up with me post" my girl is going through some hard stuff and i really dont know what to do... i live inLA and im 17 turning 18 in 2 months...
long story:
My girl's mom has been in the navy reserve for about 2 years, she was what people call a "weekend soldier", she worked a high position here atwells fargo, but once a month she went down to san diego to "train" and "workout" with the navy. Anyways about 4 months ago she wasmobilized to san diego, and she left her 3 kids (including my girl) at home. Now heres where it gets complicated, my girl's dad has always been abusive toHER, but never to her 2 siblings. So her sibling have a great relationship with her dad, while my girl does not. There have been days where my girl is so beatup i cant even hug her because shes so sore..
so, just last week, thenavy found out that she (mom) has been leaving the kids home alone while shes in san diego. My girl is 16 turning 17 this month, so of course legally shessupposed to have a guardian, but the only guardian here is her abusive father. The navy has threatened to call social services and take possession of the kidsand give sole custody to the da.d My girl in no way wants to tell anyone about the abuse shes been taking because she feels that her siblings will miss the"good" side of her father too much. At tis very moment, my girl is trying to find a friend to stay with so she wont have to stay in the same house asher dad....
So tell me NT what do i do? what can i tell her? how do i help? ive tried telling her to call the cops when shes getting beat up, but shes just plain scaredto death of this dude.... pm me if necessary...
cliff notes:
my girl is 16 lives in LA with 2 siblings
mom was mobilized by navy to san diego
navy found out shes been home alone, threatened to take custody of kids
my girl's dad physicaly abuses her
navy wants a "guardian" for kids, only option is dad
how can i help?
long story:
My girl's mom has been in the navy reserve for about 2 years, she was what people call a "weekend soldier", she worked a high position here atwells fargo, but once a month she went down to san diego to "train" and "workout" with the navy. Anyways about 4 months ago she wasmobilized to san diego, and she left her 3 kids (including my girl) at home. Now heres where it gets complicated, my girl's dad has always been abusive toHER, but never to her 2 siblings. So her sibling have a great relationship with her dad, while my girl does not. There have been days where my girl is so beatup i cant even hug her because shes so sore..
So tell me NT what do i do? what can i tell her? how do i help? ive tried telling her to call the cops when shes getting beat up, but shes just plain scaredto death of this dude.... pm me if necessary...
cliff notes:
my girl is 16 lives in LA with 2 siblings
mom was mobilized by navy to san diego
navy found out shes been home alone, threatened to take custody of kids
my girl's dad physicaly abuses her
navy wants a "guardian" for kids, only option is dad
how can i help?