Relationships vs. Facebook status

Originally Posted by Screech

Originally Posted by Dame Theory

Originally Posted by derventa

Sup NT? Is there a grace period for this *!!$?  This is my first time being in a relationship during the facebook explosion era.
I plan on keeping my hidden for now as it gives off a sense of mystery to the chick. I know, kinda *%*@!! up, but what gives?

Is this something that should be discussed between the two partners, and how long after? 

This chick I just got with is mad humble about our relationship, and I kinda like it. We don't call each other any lovey dovey names or other bullcrap. We don't send goodnight, nor good morning texts. We just do our own @!+, and just text throughout the day a little. I think she's only told her bestfriend so far.
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Don't take her relaxed attitude for granted fam... you're gonna lose her if you're not active in your relationship if she doesn't actively feel you in her life. Be careful. You've been warned. You think your girl is different, but I can show you how they're all the same. Be on your toes about this behavior. You may love her but she's gotta know it. I can't tell you how to live your relationship and what will work for you, but you've gotta be in control. Think about it homie.

DO NOT put that on Facebook. Never ever do it. Ever. If you're not married, you're single. You may be in a RELATIONSHIP, but if you're not married, you're single. Online statuses and public relationships have ruined more relationships post 2003 than anything. Its just like celebrity couples putting everything out there for show. You're in a relationship with her, not everyone else.
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Originally Posted by Screech

Originally Posted by Dame Theory

Originally Posted by derventa

Sup NT? Is there a grace period for this *!!$?  This is my first time being in a relationship during the facebook explosion era.
I plan on keeping my hidden for now as it gives off a sense of mystery to the chick. I know, kinda *%*@!! up, but what gives?

Is this something that should be discussed between the two partners, and how long after? 

This chick I just got with is mad humble about our relationship, and I kinda like it. We don't call each other any lovey dovey names or other bullcrap. We don't send goodnight, nor good morning texts. We just do our own @!+, and just text throughout the day a little. I think she's only told her bestfriend so far.
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Don't take her relaxed attitude for granted fam... you're gonna lose her if you're not active in your relationship if she doesn't actively feel you in her life. Be careful. You've been warned. You think your girl is different, but I can show you how they're all the same. Be on your toes about this behavior. You may love her but she's gotta know it. I can't tell you how to live your relationship and what will work for you, but you've gotta be in control. Think about it homie.

DO NOT put that on Facebook. Never ever do it. Ever. If you're not married, you're single. You may be in a RELATIONSHIP, but if you're not married, you're single. Online statuses and public relationships have ruined more relationships post 2003 than anything. Its just like celebrity couples putting everything out there for show. You're in a relationship with her, not everyone else.
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Originally Posted by 2LipsLegit

i wait for the chick to do it and then it sends you a message to accept or deny updating your relationship status
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Originally Posted by 2LipsLegit

i wait for the chick to do it and then it sends you a message to accept or deny updating your relationship status
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Originally Posted by Dame Theory

Originally Posted by derventa

Sup NT? Is there a grace period for this *!!$?  This is my first time being in a relationship during the facebook explosion era.
I plan on keeping my hidden for now as it gives off a sense of mystery to the chick. I know, kinda *%*@!! up, but what gives?

Is this something that should be discussed between the two partners, and how long after? 

This chick I just got with is mad humble about our relationship, and I kinda like it. We don't call each other any lovey dovey names or other bullcrap. We don't send goodnight, nor good morning texts. We just do our own @!+, and just text throughout the day a little. I think she's only told her bestfriend so far.
Click to expand...
Don't take her relaxed attitude for granted fam... you're gonna lose her if you're not active in your relationship if she doesn't actively feel you in her life. Be careful. You've been warned. You think your girl is different, but I can show you how they're all the same. Be on your toes about this behavior. You may love her but she's gotta know it. I can't tell you how to live your relationship and what will work for you, but you've gotta be in control. Think about it homie.

DO NOT put that on Facebook. Never ever do it. Ever. If you're not married, you're single. You may be in a RELATIONSHIP, but if you're not married, you're single. Online statuses and public relationships have ruined more relationships post 2003 than anything. Its just like celebrity couples putting everything out there for show. You're in a relationship with her, not everyone else.
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that's what I "tell" myself....

he's not really active on FB (has had the same pic up for ages) But what bothers me is that it still says 'single'.  And it's not like he totally neglects his page, because every now and again he'll put up pictures from vacays, and he changes his status and comments here and there (mainly from him phone)  I took mine off so it doesn't say anything. (not single, or in a relationship, etc,.)   And honestly, if he just took it off to not say anything, I'd go with that.  I keep wondering if I should bring it up or not.
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I know it's official because I've met fam, friends, and his fam refers to me as "his girlfriend."  He's not the type to be e-hollerin' at chicks, but I guess I can't front---it irks/bothers me
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DARN YOU FACEBOOK!!!!
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Originally Posted by Dame Theory

Originally Posted by derventa

Sup NT? Is there a grace period for this *!!$?  This is my first time being in a relationship during the facebook explosion era.
I plan on keeping my hidden for now as it gives off a sense of mystery to the chick. I know, kinda *%*@!! up, but what gives?

Is this something that should be discussed between the two partners, and how long after? 

This chick I just got with is mad humble about our relationship, and I kinda like it. We don't call each other any lovey dovey names or other bullcrap. We don't send goodnight, nor good morning texts. We just do our own @!+, and just text throughout the day a little. I think she's only told her bestfriend so far.
Click to expand...
Don't take her relaxed attitude for granted fam... you're gonna lose her if you're not active in your relationship if she doesn't actively feel you in her life. Be careful. You've been warned. You think your girl is different, but I can show you how they're all the same. Be on your toes about this behavior. You may love her but she's gotta know it. I can't tell you how to live your relationship and what will work for you, but you've gotta be in control. Think about it homie.

DO NOT put that on Facebook. Never ever do it. Ever. If you're not married, you're single. You may be in a RELATIONSHIP, but if you're not married, you're single. Online statuses and public relationships have ruined more relationships post 2003 than anything. Its just like celebrity couples putting everything out there for show. You're in a relationship with her, not everyone else.
Click to expand...


that's what I "tell" myself....

he's not really active on FB (has had the same pic up for ages) But what bothers me is that it still says 'single'.  And it's not like he totally neglects his page, because every now and again he'll put up pictures from vacays, and he changes his status and comments here and there (mainly from him phone)  I took mine off so it doesn't say anything. (not single, or in a relationship, etc,.)   And honestly, if he just took it off to not say anything, I'd go with that.  I keep wondering if I should bring it up or not.
nerd.gif


I know it's official because I've met fam, friends, and his fam refers to me as "his girlfriend."  He's not the type to be e-hollerin' at chicks, but I guess I can't front---it irks/bothers me
30t6p3b.gif


DARN YOU FACEBOOK!!!!
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Yeah, I'd wait for her to do it if I ever was going to. When I got married my wife sent me the invite to change my status to "married to ....". Haha. At that point I had to accept it.
 
Yeah, I'd wait for her to do it if I ever was going to. When I got married my wife sent me the invite to change my status to "married to ....". Haha. At that point I had to accept it.
 
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