Serious Topic - Havi

[best hands in the game]

Originally Posted by CWrite78

THB, u don't have kids

question to the OP, or anybody really..

why do you guys hashtag on NT? i understand the purpose on twitter, but i don't get why ppl do it on here. is it just second nature?

hashtags are very popular with african americans who frequent twitter. i assume alot of these NTers that use hashtags on NT, facebook, twitter and other websites do it because its "cool" or because its woven into their dna

 

[maserati harm]

Originally Posted by CampbellSoup

Just a few questions for those who have been through this experience or who are currently in this situation -
What would you advise to any other single parent?

Don't Do It .. ESP at a young age .. %*@@ will change your life completely  .. ( bad or good )

What's your relationship like with the father/mother of your child now that you are not with them?

It's decent at best .. there are days when I wanna choke her out for being a %%%*+ ..or she's just being evil and spiteful ... but thats not an often occurrence .. theres really no beef or BM drama .. I'm very lucky ... I could be in "the system"

Has or hasn't it affected your children or child?

Nah, No effect .. I'm in my Son's Life .. he knows who daddy is .. he's used to it .. So it's normal to him

And lastly, what's the toughest thing for YOU with having a child out of wedlock, or has it been easy?

No It NOT easy .. alot of things changed for me when I had my child  ..Money got tighter ..Wasn't able to get fresh anymore ..Wasn't able to go out and party .. Missed out on alot of things .. The toughest part of it is that I really didn't have a real say in the matter I love my son, I LOVE MY SON .. but Lord knows I wasn't ready for a kid ( neither was she ) and I damn sure didn't want a kid with her .. I'm honest resent her for it ( IDGAF If you feel I'm right or wrong .. thats just how I feel ) theres other aspects .. but I don't feel ike saying %*@@ else

 

[maserati harm]

Originally Posted by CampbellSoup

Just a few questions for those who have been through this experience or who are currently in this situation -
What would you advise to any other single parent?

Don't Do It .. ESP at a young age .. %*@@ will change your life completely  .. ( bad or good )

What's your relationship like with the father/mother of your child now that you are not with them?

It's decent at best .. there are days when I wanna choke her out for being a %%%*+ ..or she's just being evil and spiteful ... but thats not an often occurrence .. theres really no beef or BM drama .. I'm very lucky ... I could be in "the system"

Has or hasn't it affected your children or child?

Nah, No effect .. I'm in my Son's Life .. he knows who daddy is .. he's used to it .. So it's normal to him

And lastly, what's the toughest thing for YOU with having a child out of wedlock, or has it been easy?

No It NOT easy .. alot of things changed for me when I had my child  ..Money got tighter ..Wasn't able to get fresh anymore ..Wasn't able to go out and party .. Missed out on alot of things .. The toughest part of it is that I really didn't have a real say in the matter I love my son, I LOVE MY SON .. but Lord knows I wasn't ready for a kid ( neither was she ) and I damn sure didn't want a kid with her .. I'm honest resent her for it ( IDGAF If you feel I'm right or wrong .. thats just how I feel ) theres other aspects .. but I don't feel ike saying %*@@ else

 

[cwrite78]

Originally Posted by CampbellSoup

Originally Posted by CWrite78

THB, u don't have kids



question to the OP, or anybody really..



why do you guys hashtag on NT? i understand the purpose on twitter, but i don't get why ppl do it on here. is it just second nature?

Sorry, I guess it's habitual now just 'casue of Twitter. My fingers automatically seem to do it.....

yeah that's what i figured. thx for the response.

 

[cwrite78]

Originally Posted by CampbellSoup

Originally Posted by CWrite78

THB, u don't have kids



question to the OP, or anybody really..



why do you guys hashtag on NT? i understand the purpose on twitter, but i don't get why ppl do it on here. is it just second nature?

Sorry, I guess it's habitual now just 'casue of Twitter. My fingers automatically seem to do it.....

yeah that's what i figured. thx for the response.

 

[dipsetgeneral]

Hell no.

I'm 21 now, and don't plan on havin' children till' mid - late 30's.


Too many opportunities will be comin' my way from now till' then, and I will not miss them for a damn baby.

 

[dipsetgeneral]

Hell no.

I'm 21 now, and don't plan on havin' children till' mid - late 30's.


Too many opportunities will be comin' my way from now till' then, and I will not miss them for a damn baby.

 

[antonlavey]

Wedlock or otherwise if you're gonna bring a life into this world make sure you're financially ready. Having children if you think about it is one of the selfish act a human being can do.

 

[antonlavey]

Wedlock or otherwise if you're gonna bring a life into this world make sure you're financially ready. Having children if you think about it is one of the selfish act a human being can do.

 

[campbellsoup]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Wedlock or otherwise if you're gonna bring a life into this world make sure you're financially ready. Having children if you think about it is one of the selfish act a human being can do.

How is is selfish to have a child....? First I've heard that.

 

[campbellsoup]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Wedlock or otherwise if you're gonna bring a life into this world make sure you're financially ready. Having children if you think about it is one of the selfish act a human being can do.

How is is selfish to have a child....? First I've heard that.

 

[2lipslegit]

ask agent, his kids are siblings and cousins...

 

[2lipslegit]

ask agent, his kids are siblings and cousins...