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Why are you still even with her?
There is no more trust in this relationship. Issues like this instance youre posting about are just going to keep popping up. Its over homie.
So... Did my girl cheat on me?
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There is no more trust in this relationship. Issues like this instance youre posting about are just going to keep popping up. Its over homie.
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Sucks for you.
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don't be a pushover dude..
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fellas, if your girl let a man get at her,
and you hit up the man then you're playing backwards,
it happens to the best, you are not alone,
her booty and her breast are nothing you can own.
and you hit up the man then you're playing backwards,
it happens to the best, you are not alone,
her booty and her breast are nothing you can own.
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I just skimmed through the OP's post... and yungmatt, Of course I don't believe everything my chick tells me.
Don't listen to all these 'Mac's on NT.. If your relationship is on the line, and you want answers.. You need to talk to that dude that she was messing around with.
I mean if you think its THAT big of a deal, why not ask dude about the situation? There's a possibility he might tell you what went down, if anything.
Don't listen to all these 'Mac's on NT.. If your relationship is on the line, and you want answers.. You need to talk to that dude that she was messing around with.
I mean if you think its THAT big of a deal, why not ask dude about the situation? There's a possibility he might tell you what went down, if anything.
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People are foul as hell. "Accidentally" messed around with someone? FOUL.
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People with healthy relationships...Originally Posted by proper english
who the hell actually abides by that?
Why would you question your own chick on everything she says or does? If you don't trust a B, you aren't ready for relationships, little guy.
Relationships are based on trust.
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Originally Posted by SdotRusherz
I just skimmed through the OP's post... and yungmatt, Of course I don't believe everything my chick tells me.
Don't listen to all these 'Mac's on NT.. If your relationship is on the line, and you want answers.. You need to talk to that dude that she was messing around with.
I mean if you think its THAT big of a deal, why not ask dude about the situation? There's a possibility he might tell you what went down, if anything.
Thank God
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Cut her ---|>
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Id hit up dude and not tell him who you are and ask if hes messed with your female. If he has just cut her loose and move on. Dont even bother telling her what youve heard from said dude. Even if youve got alot of history she was willing to throw it away for some random dude so you should be prepared to do the same. I know it might hurt and ive been through it but time will heal anything. Just stay occupied in the mean time. FYI if it was me I have horrible issues with females and I woulda dropprd her already and moved on.
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dead her...
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i mean if you do ask him all he's gonna say is that he did...
if i fooled around with your girl and you asked me about it... i would keep it funky
she already admitted to it, she just cant muster up the courage to actually say she polished his nob
if i fooled around with your girl and you asked me about it... i would keep it funky
she already admitted to it, she just cant muster up the courage to actually say she polished his nob
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My bad I'm done with her now you can have her back.
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"you a fool if you think girls don't cheat" __Mase
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Drop her.
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*dead*Originally Posted by Sighfur
dead her...
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OP you could pretend to be someone else just trying to see if she will "go".
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Ok son, we get it. This guy watched How To Be A Player one too many times.Originally Posted by yungmatt
Originally Posted by SdotRusherz
I just skimmed through the OP's post... and yungmatt, Of course I don't believe everything my chick tells me.
Don't listen to all these 'Mac's on NT.. If your relationship is on the line, and you want answers.. You need to talk to that dude that she was messing around with.
I mean if you think its THAT big of a deal, why not ask dude about the situation? There's a possibility he might tell you what went down, if anything.
And@ actually approaching a dude and asking are you boning my shorty??... I swear I dont care if Im married, my pride would never let me do some lame %!@$ like that (even though it would never be a thought).
So you would lose a chick you've been in a long term relationship with, because of an assumption?
That's foolish as hell...
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Excellent recognition, sir.
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come on B..Originally Posted by SdotRusherz
People with healthy relationships...Originally Posted by proper english
who the hell actually abides by that?
Why would you question your own chick on everything she says or does?
i don't want to call you naive or anything.. but everyone lies.. and it's this "trust" excuse is the 1st thing they use to get out of situations like this (OPs).
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Why wouldn't the guy give you answers if you asked him respectfully but on some straight forward %##$? Element of surprise already to even ask the question and when you do that face to face that means you want answers I would suppose. If she didn't cheat you got your answer and if she did drop her. He may lie but you can usually tell when someone is lying to you or is insincere when you come face to face with them.
I will say this though...snooping around does rub people(both men and women) the wrong way because of the lack of trust. With her family hounding her and you seeing that message you could be jumping to your own conclusions to drop her before she drops yoiu. I mean how would you feel if the situation was reversed?
I will say this though...snooping around does rub people(both men and women) the wrong way because of the lack of trust. With her family hounding her and you seeing that message you could be jumping to your own conclusions to drop her before she drops yoiu. I mean how would you feel if the situation was reversed?
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that's a face to face conversation, couldn't call another dude on a phone or email with a question like that
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It's not a big deal that they messed around before you it's the fact that she tried to minimize it by saying it was an accident. Maybe she was just saying hi maybe not but you should def be concerned. Why were you on her facebook tho?
