TAR - Thread About Relationships vol. Calling TAY Graduates

Whole bunch of close friends and siblings went to Chicago. We were at cloud gate where the giant bean looking thingy is and all lined up to take a pic. When she was posing for the pic I was down in position behind her and she was caught off guard as hell. About 60 strangers around recording on their phones too **** was cool.
U ain’t gonna post the video??? 8o
 
Wifey treated me to a kid free weekend last week for my birthday, didn't do much outside of movies and sleeping in but it was tremendously appreciated
This morning she "surprised" me with a bunch of clothes to start my birthday off right. Gonna have to make sure I take her out so I can wear my new stuff
 
Wifey treated me to a kid free weekend last week for my birthday, didn't do much outside of movies and sleeping in but it was tremendously appreciated
This morning she "surprised" me with a bunch of clothes to start my birthday off right. Gonna have to make sure I take her out so I can wear my new stuff
That's what up, was this for Father's Day?

Anyone else here see some Father's Day love?
 
Just moved in with my G
Hang the jersey in the rafters lads
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That's what up, was this for Father's Day?

Anyone else here see some Father's Day love?

Nah that was for my bday, luckily enough my birthday is always the week before Father's Day
For Father's Day she got me some lotion and body wash via my daughters and my son got me some Nike slides
 
I'm a housecat for real for real...

Lady went to Bible study came back with the beef patties, chopped it up with my granny (and granny don't like nobody), got cool with my lil bro, gave up the neck twice talking bout she wanna get better for me...if this is what relationships are like I don't wanna run the streets ever again.
 
Anyone else not get along at all with their girls family? Like is it even possible for a relationship like this to work, or am I just wasting my time?
 
Anyone else not get along at all with their girls family? Like is it even possible for a relationship like this to work, or am I just wasting my time?
Depends on her relationship with her family. If she’s close with them then you’re wasting your time. Been there. Even if you don’t make it an ultimatum, she’ll probably feel like she has to choose between them and you if you’re avoiding get togethers that involve them since you don’t mesh with them.
 
Anyone else not get along at all with their girls family? Like is it even possible for a relationship like this to work, or am I just wasting my time?
Takes time. Bro in law and I almost went head up 15 yrs ago. Now we tight and cool as fuh.
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Anyone else not get along at all with their girls family? Like is it even possible for a relationship like this to work, or am I just wasting my time?
What's the situation bro? How long has this been going on, how long yall been dating, etc?
 
I thought I subbed this thread:smh:

Anyways when we at the crib chillin, my girl always ask me “why am I not talking to her?” I brush it off like always but the other day, I replied “I just don’t have anything to say, it’s nothing against u. I’m not mad/upset but I don’t wanna speak if I don’t have something to say.” I think she took it some type of way *shrugs* I’m beginning to think she don’t like silence between us. Most times she randomly starts singing out the blue and it’s pretty ******* annoying. I get it her voice is dope but my gosh it’s coming to a point I just wanna yell “shut the **** up!” :lol:
 
My wife used to say that, it's like they have a reason in their heads why we don't talk to em which is usually they think that we are drifting away from them and they get really self conscious and worried and need constant/periodic confirmation that the way we feel about em hasn't changed
 
I thought I subbed this thread:smh:

Anyways when we at the crib chillin, my girl always ask me “why am I not talking to her?” I brush it off like always but the other day, I replied “I just don’t have anything to say, it’s nothing against u. I’m not mad/upset but I don’t wanna speak if I don’t have something to say.” I think she took it some type of way *shrugs* I’m beginning to think she don’t like silence between us. Most times she randomly starts singing out the blue and it’s pretty ****ing annoying. I get it her voice is dope but my gosh it’s coming to a point I just wanna yell “shut the **** up!” :lol:
Sometimes silence is better than BS
 
I thought I subbed this thread:smh:

Anyways when we at the crib chillin, my girl always ask me “why am I not talking to her?” I brush it off like always but the other day, I replied “I just don’t have anything to say, it’s nothing against u. I’m not mad/upset but I don’t wanna speak if I don’t have something to say.” I think she took it some type of way *shrugs* I’m beginning to think she don’t like silence between us. Most times she randomly starts singing out the blue and it’s pretty ****ing annoying. I get it her voice is dope but my gosh it’s coming to a point I just wanna yell “shut the **** up!” :lol:
how long yall been together
usually women will recognize they have guy who likes it quiet
they will still talk and annoy u
but they at least recognize ur not a talker
 
how long yall been together
usually women will recognize they have guy who likes it quiet
they will still talk and annoy u
but they at least recognize ur not a talker
Been with her for a little over a year

We have our conversations. But she be talking just to talk and it’s mostly bs. I don’t wanna engage in that. I don’t wanna talk just to talk. Don’t get me wrong I love to talk but I also don’t mind silence.
 
Been with her for a little over a year

We have our conversations. But she be talking just to talk and it’s mostly bs. I don’t wanna engage in that. I don’t wanna talk just to talk. Don’t get me wrong I love to talk but I also don’t mind silence.
have sex with her
that usually gets them to leave u alone for a while
 
Been with her for a little over a year

We have our conversations. But she be talking just to talk and it’s mostly bs. I don’t wanna engage in that. I don’t wanna talk just to talk. Don’t get me wrong I love to talk but I also don’t mind silence.
Man...my girl has been doing something similar, too. Part of me thinks it's me giving off a certain vibe that she's uncomfortable with and so she tries to fill the void? Not sure though. I think it may have something to do with feeling insecure in the relationship...like, you're just a quiet dude, but they take it as something's off and so they overcompensate.

Maybe try taking her out on a date-date, which will probably reassure her and also give her that opportunity to vent all the useless s*** she talks about. Hopefully after that, when she starts talking again, you can guide her gently by saying you kinda want to do whatever it is you're doing in silence. If she trips you can point to what a great time you had during your date the other night, and do the "it's really just me, I like quiet, I'm sorry" sorta thing.

Idk tho man, I'm tryna survive just like you out here :lol::frown:
 
We have our conversations. But she be talking just to talk and it’s mostly bs. I don’t wanna engage in that. I don’t wanna talk just to talk. Don’t get me wrong I love to talk but I also don’t mind silence.

My ex was like that. **** was mad annoying and she'd just ramble. She wasn't somebody who appreciated silence at all.
 
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