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[htownshoefiend]

i took a L today

really liked this chick too 

 

i need to focus on myself for a while

FBGM

 

[301216baller]

 
i took a L today

really liked this chick too 

 

i need to focus on myself for a while

FBGM

What happened?

Ever since that situation I posted last week Ive been lightweight depressed lol..I told my boy about it and he finds it HILARIOUS!!!..he's been calling me Mr. Ed, asking me did I take my Cialis, when I pick up his calls he acts like a rep for Cialis lmao..**** HIM

Another thing I HATE how the chick Im smashing always drop the convo during mid text..we barely talk anyway probably 2-3 times a week..for example she asked when the next time were gonna spend time together I didn't answer the question..and said something else she hasnt text me back and that was 3 hours ago...to me it sounds like she might be smashin someone else too

 

[アミーゴ]

What happened?


Ever since that situation I posted last week Ive been lightweight depressed lol..I told my boy about it and he finds it HILARIOUS!!!..he's been calling me Mr. Ed, asking me did I take my Cialis, when I pick up his calls he acts like a rep for Cialis lmao..**** HIM

Another thing I HATE how the chick Im smashing always drop the convo during mid text..we barely talk anyway probably 2-3 times a week..for example she asked when the next time were gonna spend time together I didn't answer the question..and said something else she hasnt text me back and that was 3 hours ago...to me it sounds like she might be smashin someone else too

U gotta play the game better than her then...

Also, ALWAYS think they are smashing other dudes. Just like u have other girls...

 

[301216baller]

True....I just feel that's wack on her behalf...besides I see her once a week/every other week and thats by my choice..imo I could can smash anytime I want...Im not going to lie I do like her..im definitely going to spend more time with her these last few weeks before I graduate in May

 

[htownshoefiend]

 
What happened?

ion eem wanna talk about it 

 somewhat depressed, listening to me against the world

life is crazy right now and it's really getting to me

need to get my mind off of her at least

 

[mugen81]

i took a L today

really liked this chick too |I  

i need to focus on myself for a while

FBGM

I know it my sting but never take any L personally(even after a relationship)..
Losses are stepping stones to creating the man you want to become. When I took losses in the past, I would hang my head and ask "Why did she dump me??
"I'm a nice guy, why does she want the *******"..Etc
Then one of my old heads and my mom told me something(s) that clicked,"Hurt People, Hurt People", or " If she says no, she is doing you a favor"..
I took that **** and ran with it until my ex who dropped a spirit bomb on a *****,lol..
Anyway what I am saying(this goes for the experienced and new jacks), is it's their lost.
I started telling myself"FDB, she wasn't ready for this hammer anyway"..
You gotta love yourself and boost your own confidence and know you are the ****..
But with every "No", another opportunity presents itself and you learn what works and what doesn't work...
"A True loss is when you give up, become bitter and beat yourself up."
Now that I am married and the Old Head amongst my peers, I am grateful for every "No" and rejection that I have received in my life. It built my character, game and above all knowledge..
I honestly think if I heard "Yes" all the time, It would have created a weird "Kanye" complex,lol..
Like Curtis Mayfield sung
"Move on Up"
And also the Great Charlie Wilson
"Gotta get up early in the Morning to find me another Lover"...
Cheers

 

[301216baller]

 
ion eem wanna talk about it 

 somewhat depressed, listening to me against the world

damn it must be pretty serious lol..keep your head up fam

 

[htownshoefiend]

I know it my sting but never take any L personally(even after a relationship)..
Losses are stepping stones to creating the man you want to become. When I took losses in the past, I would hang my head and ask "Why did she dump me??
"I'm a nice guy, why does she want the *******"..Etc
Then one of my old heads and my mom told me something(s) that clicked,"Hurt People, Hurt People", or " If she says no, she is doing you a favor"..
I took that **** and ran with it until my ex who dropped a spirit bomb on a *****,lol..
Anyway what I am saying(this goes for the experienced and new jacks), is it's their lost.
I started telling myself"FDB, she wasn't ready for this hammer anyway"..
You gotta love yourself and boost your own confidence and know you are the ****..
But with every "No", another opportunity presents itself and you learn what works and what doesn't work...
"A True loss is when you give up, become bitter and beat yourself up."
Now that I am married and the Old Head amongst my peers, I am grateful for every "No" and rejection that I have received in my life. It built my character, game and above all knowledge..
I honestly think if I heard "Yes" all the time, It would have created a weird "Kanye" complex,lol..
Like Curtis Mayfield sung
"Move on Up"
And also the Great Charlie Wilson
"Gotta get up early in the Morning to find me another Lover"...
Cheers

 
damn it must be pretty serious lol..keep your head up fam

thanks for the support fam, will try

 

[charlie parker]

Realizing I'm terrible at acquiring yambs in this new age of instagram, tumblr and fb.... I have an education, a job and ambition but girls are looking for dopeboys or hipsters I guess.

No clue what to do, gotta go back and regroup.  Feeling like an NCAA star lost in his rookie season...

Throwing my hands up at this point....

 

 

[アミーゴ]

Realizing I'm terrible at acquiring yambs in this new age of instagram, tumblr and fb.... I have an education, a job and ambition but girls are looking for dopeboys or hipsters I guess.

No clue what to do, gotta go back and regroup.  Feeling like an NCAA star lost in the L...

Throwing my hands up at this point.... |I

I've met MAYBE 3-5 girls off facebook and none off the rest.

I've met probably 50ish in real life out and about.

No excuses, play like a champion.

 

[Top Boy]

When I was in HS (08-12) FB was the damn GOAT.

Those Facebook 'games' had the whole team drowning in poon.

 

[301216baller]

 
Realizing I'm terrible at acquiring yambs in this new age of instagram, tumblr and fb.... I have an education, a job and ambition but girls are looking for dopeboys or hipsters I guess.

No clue what to do, gotta go back and regroup.  Feeling like an NCAA star lost in his rookie season...

Throwing my hands up at this point....

 

cant blame social media for lack of yambs...pof, tinder,meet me..etc actually make it easier...I use the exact same pick up line for girls online and its works for me about 75-80% of the time

 

[アミーゴ]

cant blame social media for lack of yambs...pof, tinder,meet me..etc actually make it easier...I use the exact same pick up line for girls online and its works for me about 75-80% of the time

I don't do any online dating and I constantly have a full squad. All about personality, approach etc...

Those apps are super easy to use, if u have any problems meeting new girls just use those... Copy and paste same thing to every girl lawlz.

My boys are always asking for lines to use on those, if yall need any!

 

[awwsome]

i took a L today

really liked this chick too |I  

i need to focus on myself for a while

FBGM

Don't get bitter, just get better my man. Don't just ignore your pain and be like "**** that *****", let yourself feel it 100%, take what lessons you can, then let it go.

Realizing I'm terrible at acquiring yambs in this new age of instagram, tumblr and fb.... I have an education, a job and ambition but girls are looking for dopeboys or hipsters I guess.

No clue what to do, gotta go back and regroup.  Feeling like an NCAA star lost in his rookie season...

Throwing my hands up at this point.... |I  

Don't believe this **** man, getting women has been the same forever and will continue to be the same. Confidence, self awareness and sexual energy.

It ain't about being a dopeboy/hipster/anything, it's about being the best version of yourself and finding a woman that aligns with that. You gotta drop that defeatist outlook or you going to keep getting what you been getting.

 

[tdogg2k]

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my dude with the A+++++++++++ executuion of trolling the troll lmao

 

[mugen81]

Excuses never got anybody, anywhere...
You are mingling with the wrong set of women if that's all those particular individuals want..
I really think today's culture has distorted and desensitized us from "Fact" and "Fiction"...
Social Media has truly killed the art of conversation and flirting and people are so tied to their phones that they don't even try to develop that "Real" life mouth piece...
You will never succeed in "self" bashing or conceding to bird ideals. Building your character and knowing what you want and leading the life you desire(through hobbies and events)produces the women you want and are looking for...
This all goes back to what I preach in all my post...
Your Mentality of this world dictates everything...
Stop being a worry wort, Eyeore and get out there and have fun..
Don't let others success stories dictate your life. Tryin to told you, don't wait until something serious happens to LIVE LIFE...
There are no cheat codes to yambs,dating,relationships. You have to go through it to become better...
No amount of advice will teach you like LIFE will..
Enjoy it, live it, breathe it, take your knocks and rise like the Phoenix..

 

[アミーゴ]

Now, it's a different story if ur best friends girl (who loves u) won't hook u up with her friends because she knows ur tricks and ur team... and that u will just run through them.

 

[RayCashhhh]

Me and this girl keep glancing at each other the past couple of times I've seen her. Now, we both come to the library at the same time and I feel a lil temptation to go talk to her. What's a good way to strike up a conversation with her since I assume she's studying too?

 

[elcatfisho]

Me and this girl keep glancing at each other the past couple of times I've seen her. Now, we both come to the library at the same time and I feel a lil temptation to go talk to her. What's a good way to strike up a conversation with her since I assume she's studying too?

What are you studying?

 

[yeezusdisciple]

Ask her what shes studying

Then ask her to get some food with u after

 

[RayCashhhh]

What are you studying?

Life sciences. She's in viewing distance but idk what she's studying

 

[suberzat1]

Also, ALWAYS think they are smashing other dudes. Just like u have other girls...

I always think like this

 

[suberzat1]

Me and this girl keep glancing at each other the past couple of times I've seen her. Now, we both come to the library at the same time and I feel a lil temptation to go talk to her. What's a good way to strike up a conversation with her since I assume she's studying too?

No son ask her what she is studying

 

[youngdoc]

Realizing I'm terrible at acquiring yambs in this new age of instagram, tumblr and fb.... I have an education, a job and ambition but girls are looking for dopeboys or hipsters I guess.

No clue what to do, gotta go back and regroup.  Feeling like an NCAA star lost in his rookie season...

Throwing my hands up at this point.... |I  

Don't drop excuses.

I've smashed around 25 or 30 girls since I started residency in July 2012 and that's with living at home from July 2012 to July 2013. Maybe 2 or 3 from online.

Holler at girls at places outside of clubs/bars. Get yourself into legit social circles.Friends and associates have thrown me numerous alleys.

 

[suberzat1]

yea I second @youngdoc  

You have to get out your comfort zone. You will always see the same people and chicks at the same places you go to. Not sure if you in school but go to after campus hours functions. Breezies are always looking to get smash or meet new people on campus.