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the server would automatically asks us even before we get to order. although everything is pre-planned in a group. like the gifts, the budget, the split. anything that is outside the pre-planned menu is your own choice and bill. although I believe everyone is in unison that even if we split the bill whether as a group or individually, no one acts like a selfish douche but rather willing to share. we do avoid bringing in strangers as much as possible and so far, the +1s have been behaving appropriately.Do you say/do this before or after everyone ate?