I'm gonna try and make this story short as possible.
My gf went away to her country to visit her family and she was planning to stay for a little over a month. Before she left, she told me she will find a way to call me. Cool, i drop her off at the airport and I go to work. The next 30 days, she has only sent me 5 e-mails (3 of them with only 1-2 sentences). All she told me was she's doing great and she will tell me what's going on when she comes back. By day 31, my friends and coworkers all told me that she is wrong and effed up. She may be cheating on me....so I get really angry as I thought about my gf more. I send her e-mails asking her to tell me why she hasn't called and why it was so hard to e-mail me. No reply. So I begin to write angry e-mails telling her to "effin call me"....with a total of about 3 angry e-mails.
She finally calls yesterday (day 37) and I was obviously upset at her. She was talking casually like nothing was wrong and I ask her why she it took her so long to call. She said she finally found a phone card, her phone service is off and she didnt have a computer and unlike America, there is no wi-fi everywhere. She also explained to me before that her country blocked g-mail/google/facebook. I asked her when was the last time she saw my e-mails. She said 4 days ago, but she was so upset over the stuff that I wrote her, she didn't respond back to me. So I go off at her again and she was telling me to stop complaining and shes been chilling with her grandparents, dad, cousin, and her cousin's bf. She told me she was sorry, but she was acting like i shouldn't be mad. When she told me to "stop acting like a girl", I was furious inside, but I kept my anger....
So was I wrong in this situation????
My gf went away to her country to visit her family and she was planning to stay for a little over a month. Before she left, she told me she will find a way to call me. Cool, i drop her off at the airport and I go to work. The next 30 days, she has only sent me 5 e-mails (3 of them with only 1-2 sentences). All she told me was she's doing great and she will tell me what's going on when she comes back. By day 31, my friends and coworkers all told me that she is wrong and effed up. She may be cheating on me....so I get really angry as I thought about my gf more. I send her e-mails asking her to tell me why she hasn't called and why it was so hard to e-mail me. No reply. So I begin to write angry e-mails telling her to "effin call me"....with a total of about 3 angry e-mails.
She finally calls yesterday (day 37) and I was obviously upset at her. She was talking casually like nothing was wrong and I ask her why she it took her so long to call. She said she finally found a phone card, her phone service is off and she didnt have a computer and unlike America, there is no wi-fi everywhere. She also explained to me before that her country blocked g-mail/google/facebook. I asked her when was the last time she saw my e-mails. She said 4 days ago, but she was so upset over the stuff that I wrote her, she didn't respond back to me. So I go off at her again and she was telling me to stop complaining and shes been chilling with her grandparents, dad, cousin, and her cousin's bf. She told me she was sorry, but she was acting like i shouldn't be mad. When she told me to "stop acting like a girl", I was furious inside, but I kept my anger....
So was I wrong in this situation????