How many is too many??

Originally Posted by 23ska909red02

ProduccionFrescos:
yungmatt:
RKO2004:
A guy/girl sexual acts are equal in my eyes.
You dont REALLY believe that? Do you?
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How is it different? A girl tells you she domed up a couple dudes yesterday, and a guy tells you he went down on two girls
yesterday. What's the difference?


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Originally Posted by yungmatt

this is the way society raised me...With that double standard. I couldnt think another way even if I tried.
 
Originally Posted by 23ska909red02

ProduccionFrescos:
yungmatt:
RKO2004:
A guy/girl sexual acts are equal in my eyes.
You dont REALLY believe that? Do you?
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[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I'm sayin[/color]
How is it different? A girl tells you she domed up a couple dudes yesterday, and a guy tells you he went down on two girls yesterday. What's the difference?

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Originally Posted by Mr Anleu

because the way i see it there was always the first which is usually the high school sweetheart.
then the second is usually the one to get over the first or sometimes to get back at the first
and the THIRD is usually another guy they want to "marry"


edited.... damn that is actually true
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well when it comes to me..
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ProduccionFrescos:
Originally Posted by 23ska909red02

ProduccionFrescos:
yungmatt:
RKO2004:
A guy/girl sexual acts are equal in my eyes.
You dont REALLY believe that? Do you?
roll.gif
[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I'm sayin[/color]
How is it different? A girl tells you she domed up a couple dudes yesterday, and a guy tells you he went down on two girls yesterday. What's the difference?

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Unfortunately:[/color]
yungmatt:
this is the way society raised me...With that double standard. I couldnt think another way even if I tried.

I didn't ask how you were raised or what society taught you, though. I asked... how is it different? "It just is" isn't ananswer. Both the guy and the girl had their faces on two other folks' genitals. What's the difference? That's two possibilities for either one ofthem to get herpes all over their face.
 
i'd have some questions after number 30.

i'm a $#%, so if a female has been around more than me, there's a problem.
 
Originally Posted by 23ska909red02

ProduccionFrescos:
Originally Posted by 23ska909red02

ProduccionFrescos:
yungmatt:
RKO2004:
A guy/girl sexual acts are equal in my eyes.
You dont REALLY believe that? Do you?
roll.gif
[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I'm sayin[/color]
How is it different? A girl tells you she domed up a couple dudes yesterday, and a guy tells you he went down on two girls yesterday. What's the difference?

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Unfortunately:[/color]
yungmatt:
this is the way society raised me...With that double standard. I couldnt think another way even if I tried.

I didn't ask how you were raised or what society taught you, though. I asked... how is it different? "It just is" isn't an answer. Both the guy and the girl had their faces on two other folks' genitals. What's the difference? That's two possibilities for either one of them to get herpes all over their face.

true, but its society's double standard, no real difference
 
Originally Posted by 23ska909red02

Whatever a number a man gives you, half it; he's gassing himself.
So if a dude says 1, that means he really slept with a ******?
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Tell me 3 or less and I'll be a happy man. But I know that that's not happening in 2009.
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at society.
 
FIRST B0RN:
23ska909red02:
Whatever a number a man gives you, half it; he's gassing himself.
So if a dude says 1, that means he really slept with a ******?
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For a girl, 1 = 2 (at least). For a guy, 1 = 0.
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- A girl tells you 'I've only slept with one guy, just the one bf I had for three years, and then he broke my heart, that dirty a-hole.'
- What she really means: 'I was with a dude my senior year of hs for a few months, and I thought we were soulmates, and we did it a few times. Then I wentoff to college and met this guy I was with for a few years, and he proposed to me, and we were going to get married and everything. Then I found out he cheatedon me, we broke up, and his best friend tried to holla as soon as we were broke up. I was on the rebound and drunk so I slept with him, and now I'm sittingin front of you on this nice date, telling you I've only spet with one guy, the guy I thought I would marry from college."

- A guy tells you 'Yeah, I'm not that experienced, actually. I mean, I've gotten domed up a couple times, you know, messed around with differentgirls in high school and college and what not... but I've only actually had sex with one girl.'
- What he really means: 'Sexual experience? Oh... ummm... I got head my freshman year of college. I think when I was drunk one time, I made it to 3rd basewith a girl, but I can hardly remember. That's about it.
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if you are cognizant of society's double standards, in no way should you be susceptible to them. If you are aware of what society demonizes or rationalizesyou should not be able to use that as an excuse.
 
A lot of you need to stop putting the P on the pedestal... and realize most women will have more partners than you or have done some sexual acts in her lifethat you can not accept. Deal with it man up and be with her for who she is and not what she was...I mean if that is what you are looking for.
 
Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Mytmouse76 is correct. Why ask?
because what if the girl you think is a good girl & hasnt had very much sex,, what if she was the town %%$#% back in the day. what if you findout that she had frequent trains run on her back in the day. that isnt something you would wana kno beforehand
 
Originally Posted by eNPHAN

Originally Posted by dunks87

Originally Posted by eNPHAN

Originally Posted by dunks87

Originally Posted by Mycoldyourdone

thats probably 5 boyfriends lol


lol they skip the after the club nights when theyre single or dp from a broke relationship haha


QFT.
never having the "how many sex partners have you had" conversation FTW!
although i have no reason to lie or nothing to hide. It's called the PAST for a reason. i don't think the number of sex partners someone has had has a direct correlation with the type of person they truly are, but then again sometimes it does...
man, y'all girls need to get outta here with that.

your character is based on your past actions...therefore your past DOES matter.

pedophiles can say "i mean, i touched little kids in my PAST, but it's my PAST for a reason!"

don't try to come up with these bs ideologies to make you girls feel good about giving up the box to so many men....

if you don't feel like you was bopping it up, then why you gotta claim "the past is the past"

or act like its taboo or touchy to talk about?

if you wasn't getting it in like that, why you so hesitant to discuss it?

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a guy has a lot of partners=he's "Experienced" a girl has a lot of partners="we're loose" or some garden tools.

basically.

and if that wasn't the case why you so pro-leave the past in the past/it doesnt matter/my past actions don't determine my character?

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alls i'm saying is, if you aint embarassed by your past, why hide it?

if you aint a $!+, and you didnt get down like a $!+, then why the fear?

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i think alot of women are lying to themselves.....

"oh, im not a $!+...im a classy lady. oh you wanna know how many dudes i been with? THATS THE PAST, AND FRANKLY, IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS"

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p.s. don't take this discussion personally, i don't even know you.

lol im not. i'm not even referring to myself nor am i trying to make excuses for females, all im saying is i don't understand how guys would think wecan keep our numbers low, if every girl you've ever "scored" with, as your number went up so has theres. double standard is still very muchalive.
i have no problem explaining my past and i'm very open about it if necessary, with the guy i'm talking to or with.
but by saying a girl has a big number she must be a tool is like saying if a guy was a "player" in the past they will never settle down and befaithful. that isn't a fair judgement. but whatever it is what it is.
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I have heard large and small numbers from women and I tend to believe them either way because most of them are proud
of it and have no inkling to want to lie about it. Dudes is a different story although I always speak truthfully when I am
asked about it.

How much is too much? Thats something that you have to decide for yourself, whatever you comfortable with. 5 dudes @
21 sounds fine with me but it may not be for someone else. I think double digits is a bit much for woman under 25 but
that's just me.
 
Originally Posted by ericberry14

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Mytmouse76 is correct. Why ask?
because what if the girl you think is a good girl & hasnt had very much sex,, what if she was the town %%$#% back in the day. what if you find out that she had frequent trains run on her back in the day. that isnt something you would wana kno beforehand

EXACTLY.

Why do it if you don't want to talk about it? Keep them legs close and those guns in holsters simple as that.
 
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