Scenario: It's 3am and your chick gets a text from an old flame...

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Ok so I know you all have heard of this scenario.

It's past 12am (doesn't matter what time past this point) and your with your girl or wifey. Your MAIN chick the one you actually respect not the manythousands of dimes the average NTer can pull with ease
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. She gets a textfrom a dude she has known for some years now, and they just happened to have had a "thing" together (insertion). And you know how dudes can act, theysend that one text trying to test the waters like, "Hey whats up? Haven't heard from you in a while, you still up?". You know what ol boy istrying to get it at here. What do you say? OR what if your girl is hanging out with her ex like everything is cool and trying to be friends with the dude? Wordto that one NTer who broke up with his chick cause she was "at the the skate rink" with her ex
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I asked my girl this question and I told her that it's kinda weird/slightly disrespectful talking to old flames and hanging out with them when you are in arelationship (specially during booty call hours). Just simply off the fact that dudes are cut throat and will DEFINITELY try and smash out on your lady justbecause she has a new boyfriend. Naturally my girl doesn't think it's wrong to be "friends" with EXes. She hit me with the, "Those dudesare lame to me now, nothing would ever happen I'm happy where I'm at now. I dont think its that bad to hang out and be friends if I'm hanging outwith my other friends and what not."
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Yeah... right, until oneday we have a fight and she needs to "talk" to someone and have a shoulder to cry on. She said she would be fine if I talked to my ex. Which is alie....she flipped out when the very cute chick from my class FOLLOWED me to Panera for lunch after class. So I know for a fact she would be heated if Istarted texting old chicks at 2 in the morning.

What about you all? I know most of all you suave cats on here got your pimp hand way strong.

-The Juice
 
Haha, this happened to me once but I was the one doing the texting. Dude calls back like "Who is this? What do you want?"
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they can't let go and want only one thing, if your girl like/love you she'll be up front with you and be real if not she'll play it on the low,strictly a trust situation
 
they can't let go and want only one thing, if your girl like/love you she'll be up front with you and be real if not she'll play it on the low,strictly a trust situation
 
There really is no reason for him trying to contact at those hours. Was he shot ? Was he leaking blood to the point of death and his blood type was 0- and yourgirl is the only person they can get to donate blood, cause even then wth. inappropriate in almost any case. it seems like you should have a conversation onboundaries. she must know its wrong, but may need you to assist in affirming it.
 
This is disrespectful, especially if your girl responds. My girl and I came to the conclusion that we can't talk or hang out with our ex's. It'snot an insecurity thing but a question of "why?" It's putting yourself in a position for something to happen granted it might not be your fault,i.e girl just plants a kiss on you without warning.
 
Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Haha, this happened to me once but I was the one doing the texting. Dude calls back like "Who is this? What do you want?"
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That would be the perfect time to play "I luv your girl" over the phone for the homie.

Honestly though, IMO if your relationship with your girl is real, she'll be the one who handles it. If you handle it this one time, God knows how manyother ex's she can be doing it with on the down low.
 
I heard that being jealous and overprotective helps.

Also, call up the dude and thug the **** out of him. Chicks dig that.
 
Originally Posted by AllDay AllNight

I heard that being jealous and overprotective helps.

Also, call up the dude and thug the **** out of him. Chicks dig that.
SMH at this pinoy.
 
Originally Posted by wj4

Originally Posted by AllDay AllNight

I heard that being jealous and overprotective helps.

Also, call up the dude and thug the **** out of him. Chicks dig that.
SMH at this pinoy.


Whatup dude. I ain't doing jack tomorrow, you wanna holler at some beezies at CSUN?
 
Just tell her aint it cool, if she doesnt understand then u gotta set boundries in your relationship or else nothing will hold.
 
Originally Posted by AllDay AllNight

Originally Posted by wj4

Originally Posted by AllDay AllNight

I heard that being jealous and overprotective helps.

Also, call up the dude and thug the **** out of him. Chicks dig that.
SMH at this pinoy.


Whatup dude. I ain't doing jack tomorrow, you wanna holler at some beezies at CSUN?
We on break son, but hit me up or something. I'll be free after 12PM.
 
Originally Posted by wj4

Originally Posted by AllDay AllNight

Originally Posted by wj4

Originally Posted by AllDay AllNight

I heard that being jealous and overprotective helps.

Also, call up the dude and thug the **** out of him. Chicks dig that.
SMH at this pinoy.


Whatup dude. I ain't doing jack tomorrow, you wanna holler at some beezies at CSUN?
We on break son, but hit me up or something. I'll be free after 12PM.

quit flirtin and use the PM function.
 
i kno if that happened to my girl. she had better not text him back or nothin. in fact she should probably tell him that he shouldnt be texting her at thishour.
 
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