Females of NT, do you mind being approached in a non-social setting?

most dudes aren't trying "making magic out of thin air"
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most times the first thought on your mind is sex and if anything more comes from it than that only time will tell and we know that

she's doing a bit much on spitting something fanstastic cuz that i don't agree with but she's right on its pretty much the same approach across the board...so maybe for whatever reason shorty doesn't feel like giving you her number or she just wasn't feeling you...even when he's attractive his approach can change your mind in a split second...
 
Co-sign with a lot of the advice given to males.
But seriously a lot of women these days have this "preconceived self-entitled fantasy" of some dude whisking them off their feet and saying the right things, at the right time, yadda yadda. In all seriousness, the game is so messed up to where you don't know what to say at times.

You say "How you doing?"

She thinks "Corny. The last 10 dudes said this to me."

You say something about her dress, smile, or posture

She thinks "Man obviously he just wants to hit it since he's giving me compliments on my looks."

It's like a no-win situation. So instead of "simping" or even being a proper gentleman... one has to resort to the next best (or worst depending how you perceive it) thing. Becoming an a-hole. And then, we have relationship problems. Girls complaining why is he doing all these headgames. Yup, the vicious circle of dating in this day and age. When all it is... is really a numbers game. You just keep talking to females, be yourself and see what you can get.
 
Co-sign with a lot of the advice given to males.
But seriously a lot of women these days have this "preconceived self-entitled fantasy" of some dude whisking them off their feet and saying the right things, at the right time, yadda yadda. In all seriousness, the game is so messed up to where you don't know what to say at times.

You say "How you doing?"

She thinks "Corny. The last 10 dudes said this to me."

You say something about her dress, smile, or posture

She thinks "Man obviously he just wants to hit it since he's giving me compliments on my looks."

It's like a no-win situation. So instead of "simping" or even being a proper gentleman... one has to resort to the next best (or worst depending how you perceive it) thing. Becoming an a-hole. And then, we have relationship problems. Girls complaining why is he doing all these headgames. Yup, the vicious circle of dating in this day and age. When all it is... is really a numbers game. You just keep talking to females, be yourself and see what you can get.
 
Co-sign with a lot of the advice given to males.
But seriously a lot of women these days have this "preconceived self-entitled fantasy" of some dude whisking them off their feet and saying the right things, at the right time, yadda yadda. In all seriousness, the game is so messed up to where you don't know what to say at times.

You say "How you doing?"

She thinks "Corny. The last 10 dudes said this to me."

You say something about her dress, smile, or posture

She thinks "Man obviously he just wants to hit it since he's giving me compliments on my looks."

It's like a no-win situation. So instead of "simping" or even being a proper gentleman... one has to resort to the next best (or worst depending how you perceive it) thing. Becoming an a-hole. And then, we have relationship problems. Girls complaining why is he doing all these headgames. Yup, the vicious circle of dating in this day and age. When all it is... is really a numbers game. You just keep talking to females, be yourself and see what you can get.
 
Co-sign with a lot of the advice given to males.
But seriously a lot of women these days have this "preconceived self-entitled fantasy" of some dude whisking them off their feet and saying the right things, at the right time, yadda yadda. In all seriousness, the game is so messed up to where you don't know what to say at times.

You say "How you doing?"

She thinks "Corny. The last 10 dudes said this to me."

You say something about her dress, smile, or posture

She thinks "Man obviously he just wants to hit it since he's giving me compliments on my looks."

It's like a no-win situation. So instead of "simping" or even being a proper gentleman... one has to resort to the next best (or worst depending how you perceive it) thing. Becoming an a-hole. And then, we have relationship problems. Girls complaining why is he doing all these headgames. Yup, the vicious circle of dating in this day and age. When all it is... is really a numbers game. You just keep talking to females, be yourself and see what you can get.
 
Co-sign with a lot of the advice given to males.
But seriously a lot of women these days have this "preconceived self-entitled fantasy" of some dude whisking them off their feet and saying the right things, at the right time, yadda yadda. In all seriousness, the game is so messed up to where you don't know what to say at times.

You say "How you doing?"

She thinks "Corny. The last 10 dudes said this to me."

You say something about her dress, smile, or posture

She thinks "Man obviously he just wants to hit it since he's giving me compliments on my looks."

It's like a no-win situation. So instead of "simping" or even being a proper gentleman... one has to resort to the next best (or worst depending how you perceive it) thing. Becoming an a-hole. And then, we have relationship problems. Girls complaining why is he doing all these headgames. Yup, the vicious circle of dating in this day and age. When all it is... is really a numbers game. You just keep talking to females, be yourself and see what you can get.
 
Co-sign with a lot of the advice given to males.
But seriously a lot of women these days have this "preconceived self-entitled fantasy" of some dude whisking them off their feet and saying the right things, at the right time, yadda yadda. In all seriousness, the game is so messed up to where you don't know what to say at times.

You say "How you doing?"

She thinks "Corny. The last 10 dudes said this to me."

You say something about her dress, smile, or posture

She thinks "Man obviously he just wants to hit it since he's giving me compliments on my looks."

It's like a no-win situation. So instead of "simping" or even being a proper gentleman... one has to resort to the next best (or worst depending how you perceive it) thing. Becoming an a-hole. And then, we have relationship problems. Girls complaining why is he doing all these headgames. Yup, the vicious circle of dating in this day and age. When all it is... is really a numbers game. You just keep talking to females, be yourself and see what you can get.
 
Co-sign with a lot of the advice given to males.
But seriously a lot of women these days have this "preconceived self-entitled fantasy" of some dude whisking them off their feet and saying the right things, at the right time, yadda yadda. In all seriousness, the game is so messed up to where you don't know what to say at times.

You say "How you doing?"

She thinks "Corny. The last 10 dudes said this to me."

You say something about her dress, smile, or posture

She thinks "Man obviously he just wants to hit it since he's giving me compliments on my looks."

It's like a no-win situation. So instead of "simping" or even being a proper gentleman... one has to resort to the next best (or worst depending how you perceive it) thing. Becoming an a-hole. And then, we have relationship problems. Girls complaining why is he doing all these headgames. Yup, the vicious circle of dating in this day and age. When all it is... is really a numbers game. You just keep talking to females, be yourself and see what you can get.
 
Co-sign with a lot of the advice given to males.
But seriously a lot of women these days have this "preconceived self-entitled fantasy" of some dude whisking them off their feet and saying the right things, at the right time, yadda yadda. In all seriousness, the game is so messed up to where you don't know what to say at times.

You say "How you doing?"

She thinks "Corny. The last 10 dudes said this to me."

You say something about her dress, smile, or posture

She thinks "Man obviously he just wants to hit it since he's giving me compliments on my looks."

It's like a no-win situation. So instead of "simping" or even being a proper gentleman... one has to resort to the next best (or worst depending how you perceive it) thing. Becoming an a-hole. And then, we have relationship problems. Girls complaining why is he doing all these headgames. Yup, the vicious circle of dating in this day and age. When all it is... is really a numbers game. You just keep talking to females, be yourself and see what you can get.
 
Originally Posted by FlyJr22

Man I'm 23 and live in Cali and definitely don't get at no hoodrats or nothin, I try to stick to females with some class or some kind of sophistication. But if you're not in a social setting or your car doesn't speak for you (some kind of foreign whip) you're not gonna pull a girl who you completely don't know and try to approach. I try to stick to the one's who at least give me some kind of hint like a wink, smile or catch them looking a few times. Other than that I don't care how bad a female is or how much she's my type if she don't throw a hint I'm not about to humiliate myself in the middle of a college quad or somethin. Something has to trigger the initial conversation that both parties are interested and the conversation has to be casual you can't make it immediate that your intentions are to get her number. I swear these so called "social networking websites" are making people a lot more anti-social when it comes to the real world. Because I am in no means scared to approach a female randomly but every time I do these girls give me the craziest look, like "why are you approaching me? Do I know you? umm before you even ask me....No" all in one facial expression
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true so true
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Originally Posted by FlyJr22

Man I'm 23 and live in Cali and definitely don't get at no hoodrats or nothin, I try to stick to females with some class or some kind of sophistication. But if you're not in a social setting or your car doesn't speak for you (some kind of foreign whip) you're not gonna pull a girl who you completely don't know and try to approach. I try to stick to the one's who at least give me some kind of hint like a wink, smile or catch them looking a few times. Other than that I don't care how bad a female is or how much she's my type if she don't throw a hint I'm not about to humiliate myself in the middle of a college quad or somethin. Something has to trigger the initial conversation that both parties are interested and the conversation has to be casual you can't make it immediate that your intentions are to get her number. I swear these so called "social networking websites" are making people a lot more anti-social when it comes to the real world. Because I am in no means scared to approach a female randomly but every time I do these girls give me the craziest look, like "why are you approaching me? Do I know you? umm before you even ask me....No" all in one facial expression
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true so true
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If a girl on the bus (or any public place) glances at you every now and then, would you guys consider it the cue to initiate a convo with her? And how would go about initiating this convo? 
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If a girl on the bus (or any public place) glances at you every now and then, would you guys consider it the cue to initiate a convo with her? And how would go about initiating this convo? 
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Originally Posted by Fog Raw

If a girl on the bus (or any public place) glances at you every now and then, would you guys consider it the cue to initiate a convo with her? And how would go about initiating this convo? 
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that's a sign no doubt, just go over there and say "wassup, what's your name?"

then again you could get the "i have a boyfriend" line even though she keeps glancing at you.....females #%+!#!*% too much.

it's like why were you even glancing my way in the first place? and then again she could tell you she has one and still give you her number....there's no definite answer.
 
Originally Posted by Fog Raw

If a girl on the bus (or any public place) glances at you every now and then, would you guys consider it the cue to initiate a convo with her? And how would go about initiating this convo? 
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that's a sign no doubt, just go over there and say "wassup, what's your name?"

then again you could get the "i have a boyfriend" line even though she keeps glancing at you.....females #%+!#!*% too much.

it's like why were you even glancing my way in the first place? and then again she could tell you she has one and still give you her number....there's no definite answer.
 
Every chick wants to be swept off their feet by Prince Charming and hear lines that come out of big-budget romantic comedies or something


What are you talking about? I guess I can only speak for myself, but I don't want someone slinging lines at me to catch my attention. I feel like I am way too old for that. I could see myself being charmed by those lines if I were 15 or 16, but I am 24 now, and a simple, 'Hi, my name is Marcus or whatever, what's yours?', is all I need. Simple, mature, no bs. I've been approached by not so attractive men, and if we click, I will call, or I'll pick up if they call, and we'll see if there's a connection. If you come to me just look straight dirty, of course I'm not going to be checking for you, just like you men wouldn't check for a dirty looking broad. When I was single, I didn't mind people approaching me at the gym, while I was walking, at the store, etc., as long as they were polite and respectful.

But if you approach me decently dressed and politely, I don't care what you have on. Experience has taught me that there is way more to a good man than looks or spitting great game.
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Every chick wants to be swept off their feet by Prince Charming and hear lines that come out of big-budget romantic comedies or something


What are you talking about? I guess I can only speak for myself, but I don't want someone slinging lines at me to catch my attention. I feel like I am way too old for that. I could see myself being charmed by those lines if I were 15 or 16, but I am 24 now, and a simple, 'Hi, my name is Marcus or whatever, what's yours?', is all I need. Simple, mature, no bs. I've been approached by not so attractive men, and if we click, I will call, or I'll pick up if they call, and we'll see if there's a connection. If you come to me just look straight dirty, of course I'm not going to be checking for you, just like you men wouldn't check for a dirty looking broad. When I was single, I didn't mind people approaching me at the gym, while I was walking, at the store, etc., as long as they were polite and respectful.

But if you approach me decently dressed and politely, I don't care what you have on. Experience has taught me that there is way more to a good man than looks or spitting great game.
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Originally Posted by TheBachellor

Do you prefer "knowing" a dude before you take the next step in to trying to see if they're dating material? 
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Pretty much.

I'm not the type to just give my # to the next dude who "pssst"'s @ me or who doesn't at least give a genuine effort to say something other than the generic compliment. Sure it's nice to hear, but if the first words out of your mouth are geared towards a girl's looks, we'll automatically assume you're just after the drawls. You're better off sparking conversation, even if it is random. Asking a girl for the time or directions to somewhere you already know is always a good way to start, then take it from there.
 
Originally Posted by TheBachellor

Do you prefer "knowing" a dude before you take the next step in to trying to see if they're dating material? 
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Pretty much.

I'm not the type to just give my # to the next dude who "pssst"'s @ me or who doesn't at least give a genuine effort to say something other than the generic compliment. Sure it's nice to hear, but if the first words out of your mouth are geared towards a girl's looks, we'll automatically assume you're just after the drawls. You're better off sparking conversation, even if it is random. Asking a girl for the time or directions to somewhere you already know is always a good way to start, then take it from there.
 
Originally Posted by starzinoureyes

Originally Posted by TheBachellor

Do you prefer "knowing" a dude before you take the next step in to trying to see if they're dating material? 
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Asking a girl for the time or directions to somewhere you already know is always a good way to start, then take it from there.
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Excuse me, Im kind of lost right now. Can you tell me the quickest way to your heart?



  
 
Originally Posted by starzinoureyes

Originally Posted by TheBachellor

Do you prefer "knowing" a dude before you take the next step in to trying to see if they're dating material? 
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Asking a girl for the time or directions to somewhere you already know is always a good way to start, then take it from there.
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Excuse me, Im kind of lost right now. Can you tell me the quickest way to your heart?



  
 
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