Life sucks, whatever...**** it

As probably the most ridiculed, hopeless romantic, heartbroken NTer......

My advice is to give up and move on. 

I'm sorry but its true.

I've clung on to my ex for far too long, and even now and struggling to bounce back. The quicker you move on the better.
 
Let it go. Someone else probably smashed, she's seen there are other fish in the sea. You should wise up and move on.
 
All these feelings you have, there are girls that will make you
feel that way x2. If she had a relationship with you before and
not interested in one now, dont force it. Dont go backwards,
go make a bright future.
 
if your D game was on point she'll call you back, other than that, give her space, let things cool down a bit and focus on you for the time being,

get your priorities straight and think about what exactly you want from your relationship with her because it sounds like she was only doing what you asked of her..
 
Ummm... Maybe just express your true feelings?

Ask her out on a dinner and movie and tell her everything you posted.

If she declines then you knows it over, if she accepts... Well problem solved! Do you son! DO YOU.
 
so what exactly did she call u out on that u didnt want to hear? if u dont mind answering.

infidelities? ya sounds like u messed up. sorry man, it happens.

the key to remember is that big picture wise, there are no L's here for u. u can learn from this and grow and apply this knowledge to ur future relationships.

for now, give her space, exercise, and as u change and she SEES the (authentic) change, then and only then, would it b wise to pursue a rekindling.

get her something nice for vday and a note saying ur sorry/ready to grow from this. then let her know ur going to be working on self and will give her space. on vday dont expect birds to be singing and panties to be dropping. dont even think about her sexually, in private or in person. concentrate on character. urs and hers.

good luck man.
 
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so what exactly did she call u out on that u didnt want to hear? if u dont mind answering.

infidelities? ya sounds like u messed up. sorry man, it happens.

the key to remember is that big picture wise, there are no L's here for u. u can learn from this and grow and apply this knowledge to ur future relationships.

for now, give her space, exercise, and as u change and she SEES the (authentic) change, then and only then, would it b wise to pursue a rekindling.

get her something nice for vday and a note saying ur sorry/ready to grow from this. then let her know ur going to be working on self and will give her space. on vday dont expect birds to be singing and panties to be dropping. dont even think about her sexually, in private or in person. concentrate on character. urs and hers.

good luck man.
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:smokin True knowledge has been spoken

None of this "Oh you cheated, its all good, you're young, you suppose to get around, you shouldn't settle down yet, its not your fault"

And then when a girl cheats, its "Ahhh you can't trust these h***, goddamns s**** I tell ya!!!!! Stupid lying b****" :rofl:
 
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Tell her

Not to thread jack but is anyone else having problems with NT? Pics aren't loading
 
break ups suck bro, but one thing I have found is you cant change some one for you. And if you understood how abundant the universe was you would never want/need/ask some one to change to make you happy. The thoughts you hold in your head manifest the things in your life. You can have any girl out their and if you stop trying to change this girls feelings, and focus on other girls and being happy and getting your bread, dope things and cute/smart girls (or w/e your into) will seem to find you. If your ex changes her mind and feels for you again you can cross that bridge when you arrive. Just 2 cents from a nobody 

Do big things man. Know the world is full of opportunity 
 
Question: How old are you?

Also, you do know that she will never trust you again. And, honestly, you are going to mess up again.

Just save yourself a headache...move on, bro.  There's someone better out there for you.  Take it as a lesson learned.
 
Celtix is right. You have to give her space if you want things to have a chance. I messed up along my 7 year relationship and began to make big changes but last summer she just got upset about some ridiculous stuff and stop talking to me. I was supposed move down to Florida where she has a god job and her own place but that went out the window. I try getting in contact with her for a week and nothing so I stopped and started focusing on myself. Many nights I felt like ish, other times going out and living the single life with bi**** ease that pain. Fast forward 6 month later and she gets in contact with me on Christmas day and a month later I decide to come visit(yes I'm typing this from her couch).

If she wants to be with you she'll get in contact with, you can only try so much until you start being annoying and don't more damage
Than good.
Go out and start living your life, just don't be that guy who puts it all out, be sorta low key about it.
Good luck bro I know your pain.
 
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Lol normally i am on the "move on its over" bandwagon with the rest of NT.

But i know this feel OP. And I cant swallow my ego and and just tell her i miss her and want her back. Tell her how you feel. Let her know you messed up and realize she is perfect for you and you want her back.

Then tell me how it goes....so if she shoots you down...i don't have to do it :lol:

And if you are under 23 years old or so....don't listen to me. Just move on it that case.
 
How long had it been since you guys last saw each other before the most recent time....2 months?.......I doubt she let anybody new smash that fast.....at least I hope not OP......If you feel you are a lot more mature and won't make the same mistakes you made the first time then step to her correct.....but be prepared for her not to feel the same way....and if she doesn't then move on with your head held high and you will not live with any regrets.
 
Quite honestly I was the reason. 

I wouldn't want to deal with a relationship, but we'd get back together because I wanted her around. I know I love her but I didn't want the responsibility, but I would never tell her that tho. I would just be tellin her not to waste her time. 

S*** sucks because she's the one person I  can always count on, but I know how she is, she's not gonna put up with  me if I don't get it together, or at least that's what she told me! 
 
you'll figure it out....
if its meant to be it'll happen when it happens
just do you
 
qtnettles said:
How long had it been since you guys last saw each other before the most recent time....2 months?.......I doubt she let anybody new smash that fast.....at least I hope not OP......If you feel you are a lot more mature and won't make the same mistakes you made the first time then step to her correct.....but be prepared for her not to feel the same way....and if she doesn't then move on with your head held high and you will not live with any regrets.
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I dont think she's smashed anybody, well as far as I know. 

I know hella dudes that been trying to talk to her now, like...wtf? I know some of em too. 

But she's not that chick! 
 
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