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Originally Posted by TheBachellor
Originally Posted by mytmouse76
i didn't know giving your number out on the street made you a ho...i've never heard anyone say that...
but of course most people won't talk about who they DID give their number too...they don't even now him yet or have anything invested in him so there's nothing to talk about...
i don't know any girl who is really bothered by it but of course you gotta be selective so if she didn't like his jeans or shoes she's not gonna give him the time of day...you cna't hand it over to eveyone who asks...
I'm just curious, how many times have you done this? I would think you're in your early 20's, but I highly doubt you've given your number out in these types of situations more than 10 times. So is it just that most of these dudes are unattractive?
I want to believe you, but I think its more the mindset that you (females) don't want to be another girl that some dude "bagged". Like somehow it psychologically is better if he's spent more time with you before he asks for it, because then you can say "Well at least I didn't give it up easy like those other females he probably talked to".
Its similar to a lot of females' mindset on sex. Like making dude wait an exorbitant amount of time makes you "not easy".
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how are you gonna tell me how many times i've given my number out in any situation? i can't give an exact number but its more than 10 times...of course i've met guys through other people but i've also met strangers too...like i said it happens all the time but you can't give your number out to everyone who asks...you can say no for whatever reason you choose...it could be she doesn't want to be bothered at the time...he's unattractive...he has on a blue shirt and she hates blue...and i don't know any girl who doesn't want to be bagged...thats usaually how it goes...guy bags girl and they go from there...
you really sound like you don't know what youre talking about...i'm telling you how it is and you're telling me what you think females think...
of course there are those that dont like to be approached by strangers...if anything i'd have to guess its even