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In my opinion. If the man is serious about the woman, the man pays for absolutely everything for at least the first 6 months. if not longer.. I feel like it's the man's job to assure the woman that he can maintain a certain level of reliability. As well as establish leadership and gain respect. I feel this is important if you plan on wearing the pants in the relationship. Establish dominance if you will(money,power,respect).. Allow her to see that you're all in. And that you've invested not only time, but money.. Now at this point she should be comfortable enough to know that you are serious about her, and that you are able to give her and maintain a sense of security on your end.. Now after this time period of 6 months is over and you've put in that work physically, financially and emotionally. it's about time to see what she's talking about as far as her financially reliability goes. Is she capable of having your back on a rainy day or even matching you step for step.. Throughout this entire time you guys have been dating she should have already displayed the want to pick up bills and pay for things while you guys are out and about. Although you've never let her.. She should have great recognition of how you never let her pay for anything and she should be waiting for her chance to take you out and give back what you've given to her.. That's when you finally let her take you out.. At that point you should have no problem splinting everything 50/50 from there on out. That's exactly how it went with me and my wife and it's the best decision I ever made(she has so much more money than me). Our daughter is 11 and I wish some dirty dog would try to make my babygirl pay for a dang thing when she gets older. just my humble opinion and personal experience..
We just built different man
Thats actually some sociopathic logic to be honest.