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i was in one worked out good until she moved back home after about 4 months she broke up with me. i did it for a year and a half. id do it allover again if i had the chance to.
How to deal with a girlfriend back home, while I'm away at College
eastcoastpapi
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dont break up with her.. keep her on the side thanksgiving/xmas break is coming up... thats only if shes
tho.. and smash other shortys in college
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I've been talking to her, and I know if we do break up, we will both be misreable, especially her. She's about an hour away, and she's quitting oneof her jobs, so she should be coming up at least two weekends per month and im gonna come down at least once. Do you think we could make it work, if all thatgoes as planned?
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When I was that age I'd probably just cheat on her...now I'd probably try and nicely break up with her but still try to hang out when I was home onbreaks...
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how far are you from school? more than 2 hours that will get old quick...she's gonna wanna come up there and you're gonna wanna go out...that means youtwo will have only 1 weekend to yourselves...god forbid you don't wanna come on your visitation weekend
if you're gonna do it you're gonna need a looooooooooooooot of trust and patience...
i wish you the best of luck but odds really are against you two...
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Were 1 hour away.
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I think it all comes down to how much YOU want it to work out...if you care that much, make the effort to see her more often, but again, its up to you.
Oh yeah, pics?
Oh yeah, pics?
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Take it from a man that's been in that position before, if you care about her, break up w/ her. Nothin good will come of this seriously. If I could goback....
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Clingy girlfriend huh? Unlucky.
The funny thing is, I'm considering this with a guy, except we're 4 hours away from each other and when he's not studying, he's up in the NorthIsland... And we've still got 2 more years of study to go. Smh sucks to be me.
The funny thing is, I'm considering this with a guy, except we're 4 hours away from each other and when he's not studying, he's up in the NorthIsland... And we've still got 2 more years of study to go. Smh sucks to be me.
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1 hour away? are you kidding me. That isn't considered long distance to me at all, considering my girl lived 6 hours away
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you could see that girl everyday if you had time...tell her to man up...
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man thts gonna be tough. if u love this chik, then ure going to have to make lots of sacrifices e.g. seeing her more, calling her often, establishing moretrust and loyalty, etc. It's up to you and her to decide if it's really worth all tht trouble.
Majorbread
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like everyone else already said
cut from the roster
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You're lame for actin like thats hella far or somthin. Ya'll gon see each other every weekend anyway. She'll only be gettin ran through during thework week though. Consider yourself lucky
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1 hour is long distance? There are people who live farther from their jobs
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Break up with her before you go. Its best for both parties involved. I'm looking on the outside at a situation just like this. My dude is blowing the backout of a mutual friend who happens to be a first year student. She tells her boyfriend that she loves him and can't wait to come home but she's gettinghers on the side.
She'll only be gettin ran through during the work week though. Consider yourself lucky
One hour away and she's doing this already? Wow. Its going to be a long 4 years for you.
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Co-sign. In one currently and everything is fine.Originally Posted by P MAC ONE
It can work
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Originally Posted by Goldman Stacks
1 hour is long distance? There are people who live farther from their jobs
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1 hour away is nothing. Def possible. Now if it were 5+ hrs away thats a different story
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An hour to go see her isn't that bad, but if you don't feel like making the drive back, that can be a problem.
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Originally Posted by Bruce Waynee
Co-sign.Originally Posted by P MAC ONE
It can work
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I'm in sort of the same situation, been with my girl for a little over a year, and I'm at school an 45mins-1 hour away.
I go home every weekend, gotta help my fam out anyways. I'm a simp though
so it's me feeling the brunt of this college thing.
Give it some time, you'll get used to it. Best believe we're in better situations than people who are hundreds of miles apart.
I go home every weekend, gotta help my fam out anyways. I'm a simp though
Give it some time, you'll get used to it. Best believe we're in better situations than people who are hundreds of miles apart.
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The vast majority of these relationships don't last. Some do. Depends on how hard both of you are willing to work to stay together.
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I can work but i wont.....takes two and 1 always fails
