Oh yes they Do matter!
Who is more qualified to start a family? Who should be more valued in regard to teaching the methods of success, in an oppressed society? Who is more qualified to LEAD a family?
Success isn't westernized, oppression and the prevention of said success is what is indeed a westernized concept.
A discussion on who or what is indeed high value, would be incredibly interesting between Black women of this ilk, and one Kevin Samuels.
I dunno Fam.
My lived experience tells me its the content of ones character that matters, not the content of their bank account.
My definition of success aint all about commas and zeroes.
Its nice to have things I cant deny that...but some of us aren't willing to pay the cost / take what comes with it.
Lizzo is by all accounts a "success" if that's the case but I don't think anyone would argue that she is "more qualified to start a family? Who should be more valued in regard to teaching the methods of success, in an oppressed society? Who is more qualified to LEAD a family"
Aint no black person (man or woman) getting to that level of success in this country without giving something up in return.