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I'm sure there's more to it, health conditions, depression etc. but from the surface info provided, it is a bit nuts. As someone who has gained 40 lbs in a relatively short period, you're not even the same person. It's a reasonable ask. Over the course of aging sure, but in a short time a bit of concern is warranted.