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, I am so sorry for your loss. Cancer is awful. I can’t think of anything easier to hate.
I’d like to talk about the power of NT for a second. I lost my wife, the mother to our four young children, to cancer 2 years ago. I was in misery. For awhile there, it was hard to laugh at anything or to even see the equity in making others laugh. It didn’t feel right to find joy in anything, let alone a message board. Then one night, for whatever reason, I thought of something on NT that made me laugh. I went back and read that thread and couldn’t stop laughing. Then I went on to read other old threads. It felt like I was not only rejoining NT, but also life in general.
When I actually posted about my loss, the outpouring was wonderful. This place has a way of making you feel love from strangers. I don’t post as much anymore because life is busy, but I adore this community. It’s as comforting as a glass of bourbon or hug. I’m eternally grateful for NT.