im in that current situation... be tiring me out and spending money and she not my girl... but i just met her and want to see where it goes...
im in that current situation... be tiring me out and spending money and she not my girl... but i just met her and want to see where it goes...
If YNS, that sucks. but if YAS, then not so bad. If YAS, it's pretty much a relationship test drive. If you still don't like it, then she's probably ready to be dismissed.Originally Posted by JayzOnMyToes
im in that current situation... be tiring me out and spending money and she not my girl... but i just met her and want to see where it goes...
If YNS, that sucks. but if YAS, then not so bad. If YAS, it's pretty much a relationship test drive. If you still don't like it, then she's probably ready to be dismissed.Originally Posted by JayzOnMyToes
im in that current situation... be tiring me out and spending money and she not my girl... but i just met her and want to see where it goes...
Originally Posted by ZeroGravity23
Originally Posted by ZeroGravity23
I read the whole thing.Originally Posted by buggz05
Word. I'll give it a shot.
IMO, being single takes more of a commitment than being in a relationship. I say you have to play the game by certain rules in order to maximize your energy. Remember not only do you need to balance the girls, but more importantly you need to balance the rest of your life, so your energy is sacred. Too many people in this world just throw themselves head first into singledom and v-jayjay. Anyways I stick to these rules:
Know Your Goal
First Step, know what your trying to achieve by being single. Acknowledge, develop a course of action, proceed. For instance, I want a fun time. Somebody who won't bog me down. Something I can look back at and not regret.
Numbers of 3
Keep your team to a max of three girls, and if possible try to keep a balance of three girls. To me this is a nice balance as it keeps your focus from concentrating on just one. Universally the number 3 is sort of a threshold of balance. The Universe just works in threes. And they don't even have to be consistent scorers. They just need to be able to eachother a break every now and then. Allows you to save your energy by not dispensing it too much at one time.
Maturity
Knowledge is Power. Knowledge comes with maturity. Less knowledge equals less power which means more energy that needs to be coming from your end. I stay within a 2 year age range, but will make an exception if the chick's brain can front the energy, or if I feel like an older chick still isn't quite mature...
CHICKS THAT ACTUALLY MATCH YOUR PERSONALITY AND LIFE
I really feel like I shouldn't have to explain this but should atleast say something. No, seriously. When you start cancelling out chicks, that's when you know your headed in the right direction. I mean honestly, this 1 rule can solve everything. No chasing, just pure meshing ability. It doesn't matter what you do the chick, you know it'll be cool.
Always realize there is someone else.
The chances of you meeting another chick/guy are infinite, regardless of who you or they are.
Edit: Forgot a rule. Have more important things in your life than women.
Love yourself first before any one else. Have more interest in other things that will benefit you first.
Ok. So, maybe your not gettin it like you could be. That just makes things more elite IMO. I have reasons for committing to staying single. Relationships always seem to take away alot of my energy. I want to use my energy while I am young to maximize it's potential. I want to make money and:
chicks = (time)(money) : (time)(money)= (money)^2 : (money) ^2 = evil.
Someday, I will probably find a reason to say that a relationship is > single. But I assure you I will figure that out in the same universally meticulous way that I view being single. Until then, I plan on being single until I'm in my late 30's. I seen people have kids and be married by the time their 20...
I read the whole thing.Originally Posted by buggz05
Word. I'll give it a shot.
IMO, being single takes more of a commitment than being in a relationship. I say you have to play the game by certain rules in order to maximize your energy. Remember not only do you need to balance the girls, but more importantly you need to balance the rest of your life, so your energy is sacred. Too many people in this world just throw themselves head first into singledom and v-jayjay. Anyways I stick to these rules:
Know Your Goal
First Step, know what your trying to achieve by being single. Acknowledge, develop a course of action, proceed. For instance, I want a fun time. Somebody who won't bog me down. Something I can look back at and not regret.
Numbers of 3
Keep your team to a max of three girls, and if possible try to keep a balance of three girls. To me this is a nice balance as it keeps your focus from concentrating on just one. Universally the number 3 is sort of a threshold of balance. The Universe just works in threes. And they don't even have to be consistent scorers. They just need to be able to eachother a break every now and then. Allows you to save your energy by not dispensing it too much at one time.
Maturity
Knowledge is Power. Knowledge comes with maturity. Less knowledge equals less power which means more energy that needs to be coming from your end. I stay within a 2 year age range, but will make an exception if the chick's brain can front the energy, or if I feel like an older chick still isn't quite mature...
CHICKS THAT ACTUALLY MATCH YOUR PERSONALITY AND LIFE
I really feel like I shouldn't have to explain this but should atleast say something. No, seriously. When you start cancelling out chicks, that's when you know your headed in the right direction. I mean honestly, this 1 rule can solve everything. No chasing, just pure meshing ability. It doesn't matter what you do the chick, you know it'll be cool.
Always realize there is someone else.
The chances of you meeting another chick/guy are infinite, regardless of who you or they are.
Edit: Forgot a rule. Have more important things in your life than women.
Love yourself first before any one else. Have more interest in other things that will benefit you first.
Ok. So, maybe your not gettin it like you could be. That just makes things more elite IMO. I have reasons for committing to staying single. Relationships always seem to take away alot of my energy. I want to use my energy while I am young to maximize it's potential. I want to make money and:
chicks = (time)(money) : (time)(money)= (money)^2 : (money) ^2 = evil.
Someday, I will probably find a reason to say that a relationship is > single. But I assure you I will figure that out in the same universally meticulous way that I view being single. Until then, I plan on being single until I'm in my late 30's. I seen people have kids and be married by the time their 20...
This man speaks the truth. That post + SN
This man speaks the truth. That post + SN
