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Originally Posted by 951guero
It seems like you mature about the situation. If you honestly believe that it can work out do it, dont listen to anyone else except for yourself
Agree 100%.Originally Posted by Fro B Giant
But if it was me and I wasn't married and someone cheated on me I would be less inclined to stick around
In your situation you cheated on your girl twice in the same week, I don't care if you were drunk or not. I wouldn't ever get back with someone who did that to me
Don't put yourself in situations where you could be alone with an attractive person of the opposite sex if you can help it.
Good advice man, you basically summed up everything everyone was saying. I figured I had to do that, but I was trying to see what people'sopinions are here. Honestly...I am happy a lot of people gave their input..both positive and negative. I know I won't cheat again guaranteed...with my exgirl or new one if I decide to jump back in a relationship. green_rhinos response really hit me deep...which is true. I'm cutting of all communication withher, if she comes back then that means she willing to give me another chance. If she doesn't, I wish the best for her. It was hard not seeing her thoughwith all the holidays that passed and is coming up, plus my bday is next week. So I know I will have some type of contact with her. At the moment though,I'm gonna focus on me right now...cause me being around her all the time is very selfish. I'll be vexed if I see her with another dude, but honestly Ifeel I am the best person for her. I made my bed, so I have to lay on it...but I learned a lot about myself and actually grew from this. I'm more open nowand speak my mind...before I use to hold things in. Time does heal all wounds..I wish I could press fast forward in my life now. But I have a lot of thingscoming up that I need to be focused on. My ex was my major support system both physically and emotionally...I just need to find something else to motivate me.Originally Posted by Henri2310
Its not necessarily what you want or if you want to be with her. Its obvious that you would do whatever it took to be with her but its not always about you. You seem selfish as you had to vent your own frustrations by cheating on her, admitted in selfishly going through with a smuschmortion, and then don't want to let her go because you're afraid of losing her. Sounds a lot about yourself. You have to give her space and let her figure things out. There is no way she can respect you and trust you again if you are always pushing her and always around. It would probably just hurt her more. Give it time. As lame as it sounds, time heals all wounds. If after time she can trust you again then things will work out for the best in the end.