Would you marry a girl if her credit was bad?

That's cool man, which ever way works out best for the 2 of u I guess. The way we rocking fits perfect. I know I been a scumbag and did alot of scummy things in the past but since this fresh start we had everything been 100. Financially, we have a plan and now it's all about execution. Our focus is getting her thru school right now and that will get us to that next level and can start the next step to our plan.
 
 
 
Anti how are u even gonna know if her credit is bad if y'all not gonna disclose finances or personal info with each other? And I'm doing it off the strength of me being a real *****. She held me down years ago at a time when I didn't have ****, lowkey took care of me. Now that I'm in a situation where I make far more than her, it's time to put her in position and climb to where we trynna go together. We work as a team, some people do the yours and mines thing. Work better for us this way.
Your girl sounds like a true partner. Note that this is very rare.
Was gonna say the same thing. Sounds like they have something good there. I've been completely broke before and had my girl at the time hold me down for a few months. Best believe I got her back. When I had money again took her on a lavish two week vacation and she was still splitting the expense with me because she had the money. I believe in helping your partner in monetary terms if you have the means and you are lucky enough to have a close and trusting relationship.
Very nice, would you say she's real and gutter?
 
Def real. She always held me down, even has a tattoo she got for me. But yeah she was gutter as well and that caused some problems. Had to bail her out of jail and send her some money to take care of some things she shouldn't have done a few times. She had a lot of issues. That is a different story though.
 
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Sometimes i'm not sure if Anti is trollin ya'll, or really out here sounding like a scorned cornball brother.
 
Sometimes i'm not sure if Anti is trollin ya'll, or really out here sounding like a scorned cornball brother.
Think that's just him , he corporate all the way down to love life and kids ...that comment bout a 3rd party review got me tho :lol: , what decent broad gon stand for that bs ?
 
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Impartial third party will review each parties finances and come back with an opinion. That's how I will know.
Why go to such lengths instead of just being open about eachother's finances? I know exactly how much most of my close friends earn per month and in some cases even how much is in their bank account.
The thought of not allowing my partner to look into my finances just seems ridiculous to me.
 
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Sometimes i'm not sure if Anti is trollin ya'll, or really out here sounding like a scorned cornball brother.
Think that's just him , he corporate all the way down to love life and kids ...that comment bout a 3rd party review got me tho :lol: , what decent broad gon stand for that bs ?
What do you think a prenup consists of fam? This isn't some foreign concept.
 
Impartial third party will review each parties finances and come back with an opinion. That's how I will know.
Why go to such lengths instead of just being open about eachother's finances? I know exactly how much most of my close friends earn per month and in some cases even how much is in their bank account.
The thought of not allowing my partner to look into my finances just seems ridiculous to me.
My family knows all these things too. It's not like I'm just not telling anyone at all. Just people who deserve to know.
 
The mother of your child, who you'll supposedly be stuck living and paying bills with for the rest of your life, doesn't deserve to know how much money you make and/or have 
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The mother of your child, who you'll supposedly be stuck living and paying bills with for the rest of your life, doesn't deserve to know how much money you make and/or have :lol:
We'd only be paying bills together for things we jointly own IE house/things for the kids.

So as long as I front my end of those bills why does she need to know?
 
My family knows all these things too. It's not like I'm just not telling anyone at all. Just people who deserve to know.
My friends know more about my financials than my family tbh. :lol:
Most people of my generation are open about money here. It's not treated as a taboo subject, at least not in my experience.
I know all of my closest friends' exact monthly earnings, they also know mine of course. In many cases I even know the salaries of acquaintances, such as coworkers or former classmates I'm not particularly close with.
I don't see any reason to hide it from someone. Whenever you get a new job here you'll inevitably get asked about your salary shortly after so I'm not gonna dodge the question or lie about it.
 
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Anti if you get life insurance who will be the beneficiary? And who'll be your health care surrogate? 
 
So antilopes, you wouldn't pay your wife's phone bill? Lol
Man what? It's her phone bill. She can hop on a family plan and pay her share, which would make more sense economically but I'm not paying for her. This isn't a charity.


Anti if you get life insurance who will be the beneficiary? And who'll be your health care surrogate? 
The same people it is now, my mother and my twin. They're also the benes on my investment accounts. There's no reason for any of that to change, they know what my wishes are. My dad isn't on it because it's redundant, my parents get half, my siblings get half. If I have a kid they get worked in of course and the allocation will change drastically. But that's it.
 
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