Dating Advice: When is it acceptable for your girl to give out her number?

Thanks op

Handled it perfectly. I feared you would have forgave her or something since nt likes to do that

But you handled it like a boss :pimp:
 
No offense OP, but judging by your dog park story, nothing she did has anything to do with her damaged passed. I know you have good intentions and talking about how you felt and breaking it off was the right thing IMO.

If anything you were the one that wasn't ready for a relationship though, hell you said so yourself. She took you to work events, she invited you to wedding, and called you her boyfriend. Sounds to me like she has let go of her past, but you had a problem with her getting a guys number at the dog park for a dog date. 

Anyway, I'm not a relationship expert or anything, so do you and good luck.
 
Sounds like she loves you, just has no idea how to properly conduct herself in a relationship. I dunno, I see that as salvageable if she was really a wifey option at all in your eyes, on other end it's kinda good you didn't catch feels, trust and abandonment issues plus that other baggage are tough to overcome, she'd drag your emotions everywhere. I'd actually chalk her apology up as a plus, folks with those issues typically throw logic out and justify their selfishness. Means she's actively trying to grow.
 
Dude told her that she lost her starting spot and was getting relegated to the bench until she fixes her off the court issues. :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

:lol:

I'm lowkey disgusted at op and the fact that this is being look at as good advice. You caved into nt pressure.

Bruh said i know you got problems so ima help you and your problems by adding on to your list of problems. Thanks for the yambs tho :lol:
 
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Dude told her that she lost her starting spot and was getting relegated to the bench until she fixes her off the court issues.
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Op you're kind of a scumbag :lol:

Bruh said listen you're not over your past so I'm going to help you deal with these issues by leaving you.


And OP do us all a favor and stop lying to yourself. You don't wanna be in a serious relationship with any woman. Which is cool, do your thing smash as many chicks as you would like. But please don't use excuses such as a doggy play date ego bruise to fulfil your desire to serial fornicate. It's not just her it's you too bro. Again, I'm not knocking you this is just an observation. Trust me I've been there.
 
So I basically used that as a way to take a break from this, and say you need to heal your wounds and find closure with the pain you are dealing with first before you start a new relationship with me or anyone else for that matter.
you need to look in the mirror b. She's not the one with issues here that need to be fixed, it's you for your lying, manipulative, cunning ways. Take a look at who you are and what you're incapable of doing before you project your own insecurities on other people.
 
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NT is great.

If he took her back all of you same SN's would be calling him a simp and that all four of them are over at playboi's house getting doggy styled as we speak.
 
This thread is proof that making an NT thread for girl advice is a terrible idea

But yea the chick had no malicious intent b, and apologized to you. Actions had nothing to do with being damaged, some chicks just don't know how to act b, but as in her case they're willing to be molded.
 
Op you're kind of a scumbag :lol:

Bruh said listen you're not over your past so I'm going to help you deal with these issues by leaving you.


And OP do us all a favor and stop lying to yourself. You don't wanna be in a serious relationship with any woman. Which is cool, do your thing smash as many chicks as you would like. But please don't use excuses such as a doggy play date ego bruise to fulfil your desire to serial fornicate. It's not just her it's you too bro. Again, I'm not knocking you this is just an observation. Trust me I've been there.

Second post here might be da MVP

Also, telling a girl who's emotionally attached to you that you're not breaking it off but she can still be your jumpoff can easily be argued as taking advantage of someone
 
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Second post here might be da MVP

Also, telling a girl who's emotionally attached to you that you're not breaking it off but she can still be your jumpoff can easily be argued as taking advantage of someone


[emoji]9994[/emoji][emoji]127998[/emoji] straight facts....

Just call it what it is... Just stringing along chicks...
 
I got no sympathy any more for these issues. He's a scumbag and she's an attention seeker. This is our modern day Romeo and Juliet
 
NT is great.

If he took her back all of you same SN's would be calling him a simp and that all four of them are over at playboi's house getting doggy styled as we speak.
Nah, the ignant folk on NT would. The people who would say that were already saying it. Any level headed, non trolling person wouldn't have a problem with it. Problem with NT, there are too many people who say **** for reps and not even mean a thing they say. Bruh pretty much made excuses to call it off when in reality he didn't want to be in a relationship.
 
Lmao at the turn this thread has taken. First everybody was saying he did the right thing. Now everybody saying he's a scumbag etc. It was all good just a page ago.
 
Yeah I hear you, but it's been 5 months now and I'm thinking it's either take it to the next level of commitment (claim her) or dead it. It's that time where I have to commit or not commit. 

Fam you had chicks from out of town staying with you....how you gonna get upset about her giving out her number to another dog owner.....if you feel disrespected just imagine how she felt...lmao would you have been ok if she had dudes staying over her place while ya dated?...I don't think so....she outplayed you bruh.
 
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