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Originally Posted by gambit215
If you dont get a threesome outta this than delete your account..................SERIOUSLY!!!!!!
A threesome with another dude?...Keep reaching.
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Originally Posted by gambit215
If you dont get a threesome outta this than delete your account..................SERIOUSLY!!!!!!
Originally Posted by sloanboy
how am i close minded for not dating chicks with kidsOriginally Posted by AdobeCS4
I swear some people are so sheltered and close-mindedOriginally Posted by undefinedinc
1. i didnt know he had a kid so i guess its cool
2. but if you dont have kids i understand just smashing but wifing up?
you gotta deal with the pops all the time
you have to take care of a kid that is not even yours
have yall smashed a chick with a kid and one without there is a difference
way too much baggage and
not to mention you have to worry about her going back to the babys dad
did you know if you marry a chick and grow a relationship between the kid and you and the chick divorce she can file child support against you
and im sure most of you cant understand that but it is real talk if you wife up a chick with a kid and dont have a kid your saying that you are a single mother quality dude and AND THAT MAKES YOU A LAME........
yea i said it
Only person bringing up dudes and threesomes is YOU, do you want to "reach" for something?Originally Posted by ksteezy
Originally Posted by gambit215
If you dont get a threesome outta this than delete your account..................SERIOUSLY!!!!!!
A threesome with another dude?...Keep reaching.
Originally Posted by marmourjr
Why are people asking for pics? It's the man wife...I wonder about you people sometimes. (lol)
Youngies I swear.
Just getting ready to type all of this up. This is 100% true.Originally Posted by ksteezy
Originally Posted by sloanboy
how am i close minded for not dating chicks with kidsOriginally Posted by AdobeCS4
I swear some people are so sheltered and close-minded
1. i didnt know he had a kid so i guess its cool
2. but if you dont have kids i understand just smashing but wifing up?
you gotta deal with the pops all the time
you have to take care of a kid that is not even yours
have yall smashed a chick with a kid and one without there is a difference
way too much baggage and
not to mention you have to worry about her going back to the babys dad
did you know if you marry a chick and grow a relationship between the kid and you and the chick divorce she can file child support against you
and im sure most of you cant understand that but it is real talk if you wife up a chick with a kid and dont have a kid your saying that you are a single mother quality dude and AND THAT MAKES YOU A LAME........
yea i said it
Is your choice if you don't want to, but to call another guyba lame for dating a girl that has a kid, makes you sound like someone who hasn't lived much...People make mistakes, just because a woman has a child doesn't make her any less than the next chick who doesn't, most women with children are far more mature, independent and better in the kitchen and upkeep of a home, than one who hasn't had any kids, there is pros and cons, as long as she is respectful and so is the baby's father, I see no problem with everyone getting along, being secured in a relationship over comes everything...when you get older and have experienced dealing more with women first hand, you might understand.
Originally Posted by gambit215
Only person bringing up dudes and threesomes is YOU, do you want to "reach" for something?Originally Posted by ksteezy
Originally Posted by gambit215
If you dont get a threesome outta this than delete your account..................SERIOUSLY!!!!!!
A threesome with another dude?...Keep reaching.
Originally Posted by sage909
She told me she will do whatever it takes to prove to me that she wants to be with me.
Originally Posted by BayBuryYa
#1) I can't believe it took until page 3 for someone to demand pics.
Originally Posted by Classy Freshman
You will NEVER be able to get back what you once had. Let it go
(this is coming from a seperated and about to be divorced man who was in a similar situation)
damn what a sticky situation......Originally Posted by sage909
she thought it would be better for her and her daughter but the thing is her BD hasnt done ##$! for her since ive met her. ive taken care of her daughter like it was my own. and to top it off my son is BARLEY getting over not seeing her daughter and her. im trying to think of him. but im telling myself we married each other for a reason. and than i dont want her to be coming in n out of my sons life ya kno ?
Originally Posted by sloanboy
how am i close minded for not dating chicks with kidsOriginally Posted by AdobeCS4
I swear some people are so sheltered and close-mindedOriginally Posted by undefinedinc
1. i didnt know he had a kid so i guess its cool
2. but if you dont have kids i understand just smashing but wifing up?
you gotta deal with the pops all the time
you have to take care of a kid that is not even yours
have yall smashed a chick with a kid and one without there is a difference
way too much baggage and
not to mention you have to worry about her going back to the babys dad
did you know if you marry a chick and grow a relationship between the kid and you and the chick divorce she can file child support against you
and im sure most of you cant understand that but it is real talk if you wife up a chick with a kid and dont have a kid your saying that you are a single mother quality dude and AND THAT MAKES YOU A LAME........
yea i said it
Originally Posted by ksteezy
How does your wife, leave you to work things out with someone else, that doesn't make ANY sense....were you guys literally married or is just what you call it?
Originally Posted by ksteezy
Is your choice if you don't want to, but to call another guyba lame for dating a girl that has a kid, makes you sound like someone who hasn't lived much...People make mistakes, just because a woman has a child doesn't make her any less than the next chick who doesn't, most women with children are far more mature, independent and better in the kitchen and upkeep of a home, than one who hasn't had any kids, there is pros and cons, as long as she is respectful and so is the baby's father, I see no problem with everyone getting along, being secured in a relationship over comes everything...when you get older and have experienced dealing more with women first hand, you might understand.
Originally Posted by 8tothe24
And what are you going to do NEXT TIME she wants to go back to her baby's daddy?
She left you to go play house/lover with a dead-beat. He was SMASHING HER the entire time and when PLAY TIME WAS OVER she came running back to the responsible person that took care of her AND HER CHILD.
You are setting yourself up for another let down, fights and drama that you AND YOUR SON don't need. She is greedy for wanting you back and you are greedy for not thinking about your son first and foremost.
NO MAN IN THERE RIGHT MIND WOULD EVER TAKE THAT KIND OF FEMALE BACK... So...
You are either
1) a simp and need to grow a backbone and take care of your son
2) trolling
3) a man and do whats right, don't play her games... meet with her and tell here she is no longer trustworth and needs to take a hike... and TAKE CARE of your son above all others
There are plenty of fish in the sea and you don't need another mans jumpoff holding you back.
Edit: Your reason is that "you married her for a reason." Well, a lot of people get married for the WRONG reasons. And that is the reason divorce is so high now-a-days. Sorry to say, but it sounds like you married her for the wrong reasons.
/end serious rant
Originally Posted by scshift
Originally Posted by ksteezy
Is your choice if you don't want to, but to call another guyba lame for dating a girl that has a kid, makes you sound like someone who hasn't lived much...People make mistakes, just because a woman has a child doesn't make her any less than the next chick who doesn't, most women with children are far more mature, independent and better in the kitchen and upkeep of a home, than one who hasn't had any kids, there is pros and cons, as long as she is respectful and so is the baby's father, I see no problem with everyone getting along, being secured in a relationship over comes everything...when you get older and have experienced dealing more with women first hand, you might understand.
How does having a kid at a young age equate to making a mistake?
I kind of feel bad for the kids with younger parents cause there's always going to be that stigma that well, the mom was loose and ran around the block so the little kid was never meant to be there... sure, some might be mistakes but some can be choices as well. Not using protection and a failed attempt at pulling out isn't a mistake. It's 100% the parents' fault. They played the game and lost.
But still, when you said that a woman with a child made a mistake, you kind of proved yourself wrong in the argument. You implied that the girl did something wrong and messed up, and that is a fair enough reason for a guy to not want to wife her.