Whats with females not wanting to share their husbands last name, though?

[frostythepoptart]

its 2009. my chick better be out working if she can, and still come home and throw down the steak.

and its no sweat If i need to help throw down a meal once in a while too. My moms taught me how to cook and look after myself and I love my food

taking up the last name is a sign of respect. it's sort of giving up a piece of yourself for your man.

if your not willing to be represented as part of my family whats the point.

 

[elocin023]

Originally Posted by cocolicious

Originally Posted by J Dilla Himself

Originally Posted by cocolicious

Originally Posted by J Dilla Himself

Originally Posted by cocolicious

I don't see why someone has to change their last name, what's wrong with keeping it.

it makes me feel as if she doesnt want to be apart of my family and why not lessen the confusion. I want my house to say "The G**** Family"..and i agree with everything Nikestarjay typed

Well then I hope you find a nice girl who takes your last name and has no problem becoming your slave.

idk where you got the slave part from.

Women have to stay home cook and clean for their husband.

right...

 

[itsamazingg]

Originally Posted by milestailsprowe

Its a traditional thing but hey just make sure to get a Prenub if shes on that indepent stuff.

Where can I find this thing you call a "prenub" .... though?

 

[falcon4567]

Also why is this question being phrased as "share"? You're not sharing anything, the woman's last name is being replaced and subsumed by herhusband's not brought on additionally.

 

[mytmouse76]

Originally Posted by frostythepoptart

its 2009. my chick better be out working if she can, and still come home and throw down the steak.

and its no sweat If i need to help throw down a meal once in a while too. My moms taught me how to cook and look after myself and I love my food

taking up the last name is a sign of respect. it's sort of giving up a piece of yourself for your man.

if your not willing to be represented as part of my family whats the point.

so what are you giving up to her?

 

[ninjahood]

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

Originally Posted by frostythepoptart

its 2009. my chick better be out working if she can, and still come home and throw down the steak.

and its no sweat If i need to help throw down a meal once in a while too. My moms taught me how to cook and look after myself and I love my food

taking up the last name is a sign of respect. it's sort of giving up a piece of yourself for your man.

if your not willing to be represented as part of my family whats the point.

so what are you giving up to her?

da ring, kids, a house, hell........da rampant fake independant diva trend these days is atrocious

 

[nyota de la star]

Why do dudes always think they're the only ones paying for a house?

 

[elocin023]

 

[webnerd06]

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Why do dudes always think they're the only ones paying for a house?

 

[julian wright]

Originally Posted by ninjahood

da rampant fake independant diva trend these days is atrocious

It really is



































though

 

[thunderchunk69]

Originally Posted by webnerd06

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Why do dudes always think they're the only ones paying for a house?

Team Hoodrat

ol section 8 housing hoodrat... grandma raising your kid's typescumbucket.
she said house... not an asbestos filled vestibule into hell

 

[j23diego]

They probably just have pride on their last name

 

[general johnson]

Originally Posted by cocolicious

What's the big deal with tradition? Just because something was done a certain way for many years means it has to stay that way forever?

Tradition wouldn't be a big deal if women weren't selective about when it's ok to break it.

If a woman doesn't want to take a man's last name, that's cool with me, just don't expect the following traditions
-a ring
-a wedding
-me to be faithful
-me to not slap the *%+% outta ya when you get disrespectful

 

[nyota de la star]

Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69

Originally Posted by webnerd06

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Why do dudes always think they're the only ones paying for a house?

Team Hoodrat

ol section 8 housing hoodrat... grandma raising your kid's type scumbucket.
she said house... not an asbestos filled vestibule into hell

whoa dog. You don't even know me to be making assumptions about where/how I live

Hoodrat is a fun word to embrace.

 

[thebachellor]

Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69

Originally Posted by webnerd06

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Why do dudes always think they're the only ones paying for a house?

Team Hoodrat

ol section 8 housing hoodrat... grandma raising your kid's type scumbucket.
she said house... not an asbestos filled vestibule into hell

*Looks at her sig*

*Quoting this under the assumption that since it's in her sig, its not an insult.

.

 

[nyota de la star]

^

 

[itz rolli]

Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69

Originally Posted by webnerd06

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Why do dudes always think they're the only ones paying for a house?

Team Hoodrat

ol section 8 housing hoodrat... grandma raising your kid's type scumbucket.
she said house... not an asbestos filled vestibule into hell

being that she was kinda replying to ninjahood, your description kinda fits.

 

[thunderchunk69]

lol, I was goin hard at the "team hoodrat" in webnerd's sig, not realizing Nyota de la star had it as well,

 

[sn00pee]

I'd take my wife's last name if he name was

enough

 

[nyota de la star]

Originally Posted by Nike Star Jay

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

whoa dog. You don't even know me to be making assumptions about where/how I live

Hoodrat is a fun word to embrace.

Seriously though, think about. The connotations of the word are pretty laughable... which makes embracing the word pretty funny
and deliciously rebelling

 

[j dilla himself]

That Team Hoodrat thing is corny, though

 

[rocksfan25]

I'd prefer that she uses my name, it'd be worse though if she tried to give my kid a hyphenated name (or her last name

)

 

[bcf06]

Seeing as some woman don't want to take tradition and take their husbands last name there shouldn't be rings either because that is also part oftradition.

 

[jpthe3]

Originally Posted by J Dilla Himself

That Team Hoodrat thing is corny, though

yup lookin like those kids around your corner just found out what hoodrat meant lol

 

[cocolicious]

Originally Posted by General Johnson

Originally Posted by cocolicious

What's the big deal with tradition? Just because something was done a certain way for many years means it has to stay that way forever?

Tradition wouldn't be a big deal if women weren't selective about when it's ok to break it.

If a woman doesn't want to take a man's last name, that's cool with me, just don't expect the following traditions
-a ring
-a wedding
-me to be faithful
-me to not slap the *%+% outta ya when you get disrespectful

I can buy my own ring, I don't want a wedding & as far as the other stuff that's about respect not tradition.