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Womenfolk of NT: what is the best way that you have been approached by a dude?
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Originally Posted by shoefreakbaby
baby girl you're 0/2 in this thread
just stop sharing
Dunks we have to go out again. Let me know when you're back in the area.
I thought this thread was about the best way you've been approached, not the best way someone got you.
Im a weird person no one is getting my number that I dont know or know of, that would be impossible, the thought scares me.
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Originally Posted by Mr Marcus
Originally Posted by INS
Well this one time this dude walked up to me but we had mutual friends. So i see him and i am like damn i havent seen you in ages. Dude begins to talk about how we should link up some time. Im like yeah you know I love watching sports and drinking. So dude cuts the convo up with damn you are a good looking dude, I replied yeah thanks man i know. Then he asked if i was gay, I was like no i am not i have a girlfriend. So dude begins to spit game like yo if you need a teacher i can show you the ropes.. He was like but yo let me get your number and i couldn't say no so i gave him my number.
u sweet..u gave your number to a ***%%* knowingly after he tried hitting on you....wtdta
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Originally Posted by Peep Game
noooooooOriginally Posted by SpeakUp23
Originally Posted by INS
Well this one time this dude walked up to me but we had mutual friends. So i see him and i am like damn i havent seen you in ages. Dude begins to talk about how we should link up some time. Im like yeah you know I love watching sports and drinking. So dude cuts the convo up with damn you are a good looking dude, I replied yeah thanks man i know. Then he asked if i was gay, I was like no i am not i have a girlfriend. So dude begins to spit game like yo if you need a teacher i can show you the ropes.. He was like but yo let me get your number and i couldn't say no so i gave him my number.
SON!
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Not quite true. I'm unatractive and do you know how many women I've had sex with?? 3.
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Did he ask you for your number and you declined, or did he just go right for your friend after he broke the ice? If its the latter thenOriginally Posted by shoefreakbaby
Originally Posted by cap1229
He negged you to get the groups attention.Originally Posted by shoefreakbaby
just remembered another one.
I have a ghetto name
I was at school and my friend was screaming out my name, this guy heard it and called me.
I looked he said "what kind of name is that" I mugged and went to my friends.
He came and sat down and was like "we cant name are kids ghetto names like that"
I was rollin he went on and on about houses, how I had to work and he didnt care if I made more,
amount of kids he wanted, the guy was funny jokes broke the tension.
I didnt give him my number, but one of the girls I was with did.
Yup and it worked for him, it was smart. He didn't isolate.
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Originally Posted by cap1229
It's funny because it's true.You can't be ugly saying slick %$!# out your mouth.
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Originally Posted by Fantastic4our
Originally Posted by WaitWut
AYO LEMME HOLLA AT THEM BUTT CHEEKS MA
70% of the time it works every time
naw but usually introduce yourself and be flirty (doesnt work if you are ugly)
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Originally Posted by shoefreakbaby
baby girl you're 0/2 in this thread
just stop sharing
Dunks we have to go out again. Let me know when you're back in the area.
I thought this thread was about the best way you've been approached, not the best way someone got you.
Im a weird person no one is getting my number that I dont know or know of, that would be impossible, the thought scares me.
AND I THANK YOU!...you actually stayed on topic.
See, even though them other one were hating, that what you were supposed to do...
I just wish you could have had a more successful experience....if you have any, share them.
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I'll drop my two cents.
Like most people said, it's about approaching with confidence. If you start a nice conversation and you're funny and personable, you're set up way better for a number than if you drop a corny line or don't say anything at all. Let's say you start talking to a girl, you find a vein of similar interest and you chat it up for a while. Check your phone or watch and tell the girl that you have to go, it was a very nice conversation, and maybe you should keep in touch. My homegirl (she's bad) actually told me to say the "keep in touch" bit, because I had no problem talking to girls, but I felt like just asking for a phone number was too cliche and a bit invasive. The best thing about saying "keep in touch" means that it doesn't necessarily mean a #. If the girl likes you, she'll probably give you her number. If she thinks you're friendly, or maybe she likes you but is a bit prudent, then she can just give you her Facebook or something. If she's not feeling you at all, she'll probably give you her 3rd grade email account, or nothing at all. This way, she doesn't feel pressured to give her number to a stranger, even if she's kinda feeling you, and then it's not as "big" of a question for you to ask. With my girl I could tell the feelings were mutual (we had a class together), so I outright asked for her number, but I still think "maybe we should keep in touch" is one of the best closers to end a good conversation.
Like most people said, it's about approaching with confidence. If you start a nice conversation and you're funny and personable, you're set up way better for a number than if you drop a corny line or don't say anything at all. Let's say you start talking to a girl, you find a vein of similar interest and you chat it up for a while. Check your phone or watch and tell the girl that you have to go, it was a very nice conversation, and maybe you should keep in touch. My homegirl (she's bad) actually told me to say the "keep in touch" bit, because I had no problem talking to girls, but I felt like just asking for a phone number was too cliche and a bit invasive. The best thing about saying "keep in touch" means that it doesn't necessarily mean a #. If the girl likes you, she'll probably give you her number. If she thinks you're friendly, or maybe she likes you but is a bit prudent, then she can just give you her Facebook or something. If she's not feeling you at all, she'll probably give you her 3rd grade email account, or nothing at all. This way, she doesn't feel pressured to give her number to a stranger, even if she's kinda feeling you, and then it's not as "big" of a question for you to ask. With my girl I could tell the feelings were mutual (we had a class together), so I outright asked for her number, but I still think "maybe we should keep in touch" is one of the best closers to end a good conversation.
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Originally Posted by Keif Sweat
Did he ask you for your number and you declined, or did he just go right for your friend after he broke the ice? If its the latter thenOriginally Posted by shoefreakbaby
Originally Posted by cap1229
He negged you to get the groups attention.
Yup and it worked for him, it was smart. He didn't isolate.
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People DON'T know what negging is?
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Very simple, I think this would be very useful.
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Fixed
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Ahh I see. Props to dude for having thick skin. Thats another thing too...you can't be scared of rejection and still be able to approach females on the reg. I'll never forget one time I tried to bag this girl who was a friend of a friend, I start talking and mid sentence shorty hits me with something along the lines of "ewww" so I kept it movingOriginally Posted by shoefreakbaby
Originally Posted by Keif Sweat
Did he ask you for your number and you declined, or did he just go right for your friend after he broke the ice? If its the latter thenOriginally Posted by shoefreakbaby
Yup and it worked for him, it was smart. He didn't isolate.The first one.
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I for one actually agree wit SP about sticking wit the topic at hand, and applaud
Shoefreakbaby, even tho she's pretty much unbaggable. She shared EVENTS.
I just want my original question answered.
Im just tryna get at more females in the streets and even being polite &
cordial with the "Excuse me miss, do u have a minute?" doesn't always work
Shoefreakbaby, even tho she's pretty much unbaggable. She shared EVENTS.
I just want my original question answered.
Spoiler [+]
cordial with the "Excuse me miss, do u have a minute?" doesn't always work
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OP, You'd get much better tips from asking your ugly friends who bag chicks frequently.
Edit: . Nothing "always works". You gotta get rid of that mindset homie
Edit: . Nothing "always works". You gotta get rid of that mindset homie
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Originally Posted by Keif Sweat
Ahh I see. Props to dude for having thick skin. Thats another thing too...you can't be scared of rejection and still be able to approach females on the reg. I'll never forget one time I tried to bag this girl who was a friend of a friend, I start talking and mid sentence shorty hits me with something along the lines of "ewww" so I kept it movingOriginally Posted by shoefreakbaby
Originally Posted by Keif Sweat
Did he ask you for your number and you declined, or did he just go right for your friend after he broke the ice? If its the latter thenThe first one.I see her a couple weeks later at a party and she's being all chatty with me so eventually I asked her why she acted the way she did. She said I was really cute but her man had just deaded her that day and she wasn't tryna talk to any guys at all. You never really know why a girl turns you down, just gotta charge it to the game and keep it movin.
Yeah that kid was confident, Im pretty shy but the fact that he kept me(us) laughing it forced conversation.
I guess he didnt mind making a fool of himself, you could tell he was not faking.
I dont believe, who says eww
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one thing i learned about this is game is that you are ALWAYS in GO position. dont let a mental what if battle stop you. JUST GO WITH THE FLOW. at the club i usually just match a chick's energy level and rock with it. at the bookstore, SAME PLAN just SLOW it down..no rush normal small talk than bang score the number. usually seem more genunine that way.
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Originally Posted by cap1229
It's funny because it's true.You can't be ugly saying slick %$!# out your mouth.
THERE IS SOOOO MUCH TRUTH IN THIS.... ive been laughing at this post everytime i see it quoted. but also i know for a fact chicks dig a Witty Cat
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Originally Posted by shoefreakbaby
Originally Posted by cap1229
He negged you to get the groups attention.Originally Posted by shoefreakbaby
just remembered another one.
I have a ghetto name
I was at school and my friend was screaming out my name, this guy heard it and called me.
I looked he said "what kind of name is that" I mugged and went to my friends.
He came and sat down and was like "we cant name are kids ghetto names like that"
I was rollin he went on and on about houses, how I had to work and he didnt care if I made more,
amount of kids he wanted, the guy was funny jokes broke the tension.
I didnt give him my number, but one of the girls I was with did.
Yup and it worked for him, it was smart. He didn't isolate.
THATS WHERE THE WINGMAN COME IN. the odds arent in his favor so naturally sodium levels will be higher. need a crew to isolate or its all eyes on you like a stand-up act.
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Maybe it wasn't ewww but something along those lines that kinda threw me off likeOriginally Posted by shoefreakbaby
Originally Posted by Keif Sweat
Ahh I see. Props to dude for having thick skin. Thats another thing too...you can't be scared of rejection and still be able to approach females on the reg. I'll never forget one time I tried to bag this girl who was a friend of a friend, I start talking and mid sentence shorty hits me with something along the lines of "ewww" so I kept it movingOriginally Posted by shoefreakbaby
The first one.I see her a couple weeks later at a party and she's being all chatty with me so eventually I asked her why she acted the way she did. She said I was really cute but her man had just deaded her that day and she wasn't tryna talk to any guys at all. You never really know why a girl turns you down, just gotta charge it to the game and keep it movin.
Yeah that kid was confident, Im pretty shy but the fact that he kept me(us) laughing it forced conversation.
I guess he didnt mind making a fool of himself, you could tell he was not faking.
I dont believe, who says eww
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That goes to show you never based your confidence on others, you was feeling bad and it had nothing to do with you it was all her.Originally Posted by Keif Sweat
Maybe it wasn't ewww but something along those lines that kinda threw me off likeOriginally Posted by shoefreakbaby
Yeah that kid was confident, Im pretty shy but the fact that he kept me(us) laughing it forced conversation.
I guess he didnt mind making a fool of himself, you could tell he was not faking.
I dont believe, who says ewwa super hard curve type *!%#it makes sense cuz I was on one and prolly came on too strong but I'd still never had a chick turn me down like that. it kinda shook my confidence for a lil bit
Assume that if you get rejected again "something must be wrong with her , she must be blind"
