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Yes there is you hornball .....
You just have to be respectful of one another's situation.
[/Your Girl having Male friends\]
You just have to be respectful of one another's situation.
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Man Funny thing me an my girl were talking about this topic last night, she feels like she doesn't have friends outside of work and she hates it.
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It'll only go south if you show your cards
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I wasn't feeling the whole having male friends thing, but I matured. I don't mind it. Trust is the key term here.
Although I don't put it past anyone, but if she's going to cheat, she's going to cheat. You can't stop her.
Although I don't put it past anyone, but if she's going to cheat, she's going to cheat. You can't stop her.
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yall be so insecure lmao...yall ok?...are you losing sleep at night fam?
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I agree with the notion that a cheater will cheat for the most part, however, if you are around something more (i.e. your girl around guys) that increases thechances of something popping off.
In the end, we should be secure enough to let her do what she wants as long as she doesn't cheat, a woman that cheat is a woman that doesn't deservethe skeet.
In the end, we should be secure enough to let her do what she wants as long as she doesn't cheat, a woman that cheat is a woman that doesn't deservethe skeet.
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hell naw i dont play that $+#$ my girl know wassup. i put it like this you wanna keep the peace between us than dont bring other dudes in the picture, friend,coworker, i dont give a *!%% i will destroy a playas life for %!!+%$$ up my peace.
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ya its chill just as long as you know whats going on
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hell nah about the movie and dinner #$%@!
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That's crazy my male friends are his friends.. i don't see anything wrong with him having girls as friends only if they know that I'm hisgirlfriend, he ain't got nothing to hide, and I'm invited!
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Too many bad experiences. If you have male friends you wont be my GF. And if a guy knows that my woman has a man and acts like they dont care...
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If she is going to cheat, she is going to cheat.
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its not a good look
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She has VERY few, but I'm comfortable in what we have,s o I wouldn't be worried if she hung out with one.. knowing damn well what all I've done
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i stay strapped and remind them that if i see them around i will make it happen
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just make sure you know all her guy friends... keep her on lock down and be ready to snap at any moment with them dudes...sometimes you gotta pull her back toreality. make it known shes yours and befriend the guys, be a man.
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My girl is ok with me having lady friends, so i'm cool with her having male friends.
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Bump, I have something to add
Would you "allow" your woman to go to church with another male? Even if she claims that dude is harmless? He is straight though. Trying to convince someone that there is no such thing as harmless unless the dude is gay. He wouldn't waste his time with you unless he had SOME interest in you. She just can't get it through her head that a man won't waste his time being platonic friends with a woman unless he is hoping something will happen one day.
Would you "allow" your woman to go to church with another male? Even if she claims that dude is harmless? He is straight though. Trying to convince someone that there is no such thing as harmless unless the dude is gay. He wouldn't waste his time with you unless he had SOME interest in you. She just can't get it through her head that a man won't waste his time being platonic friends with a woman unless he is hoping something will happen one day.
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Exactly.
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Chuuch...
If your chick dont respect you enough to drop them "guy friends" then you might wanna keep her at a distance.
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I understand that you shouldn't be insecure, so you shouldn't be worried if she has some male friends. But, at the same time, even if you know she is 100% loyal, why does she permit some of these guys to stay in her life?
It depends on the type of relationship. Yes, every guy has some desire to smash any girl. But there are different levels. There are the girls who you are friends with but not on the level of putting in any effort. You don't do stuff alone, etc. Then there are girls who you do put some effort in with, i.e. hang out alone, simp, etc. Finally there is the really rare case of a girl who you do hang out alone with, for example, but you have no intention of smashing, i.e. you're fine with being friends. It's not that you would reject smashing but you don't need to.
To me, if the guy's relationship falls into the 1st or 3rd category, then it's fine. But the 2nd category is not. The problem in all this is that it's hard to distinguish categories 2 and 3, and it makes no difference to the girl which category she's in. She benefits either way.
Anyway, in the end, it's lose-lose. Either you just say nothing and are powerless... Or if you say something you come off as weak.
It depends on the type of relationship. Yes, every guy has some desire to smash any girl. But there are different levels. There are the girls who you are friends with but not on the level of putting in any effort. You don't do stuff alone, etc. Then there are girls who you do put some effort in with, i.e. hang out alone, simp, etc. Finally there is the really rare case of a girl who you do hang out alone with, for example, but you have no intention of smashing, i.e. you're fine with being friends. It's not that you would reject smashing but you don't need to.
To me, if the guy's relationship falls into the 1st or 3rd category, then it's fine. But the 2nd category is not. The problem in all this is that it's hard to distinguish categories 2 and 3, and it makes no difference to the girl which category she's in. She benefits either way.
Anyway, in the end, it's lose-lose. Either you just say nothing and are powerless... Or if you say something you come off as weak.