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[/Your Girl having Male friends\]
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im cool with it for the most part (im not the type to tell her who she cant and cant chill with).. but i swear some of these friendzoned bums stay trying their hardest..
im like
most of the time.
im like
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agreed
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I wouldnt like that either man
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[h3]People who get jealous shouldn't date good looking people. real talk
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a dude who can, JUST BECAUSE
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You play with fire enough, you're gonna get burned.
Therefore, you don't allow her to play with fire as much as you possibly can.
YES, if she wants to cheat, she probably will. But remember, we're all human; Just because her intentions are good within the relationship, doesn't mean she's immune to screwing up.
SO... limit her opportunities for screw-ups and, in my opinion, your situation is that much less volatile.
Therefore, you don't allow her to play with fire as much as you possibly can.
YES, if she wants to cheat, she probably will. But remember, we're all human; Just because her intentions are good within the relationship, doesn't mean she's immune to screwing up.
SO... limit her opportunities for screw-ups and, in my opinion, your situation is that much less volatile.
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depends on how "friendly" they are....I wouldn't be comfortable with my girl actually chillin with a dude.
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having male friends is ok only if it's guy friends at work. F that chill out side of work unless its a group thing .
I have girl's as friends tho but i don't try to smash or anything. depends on the guy i guess
I have girl's as friends tho but i don't try to smash or anything. depends on the guy i guess
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is this a serious question?
. no $++! she can have male friends, gay friends, white friends, black friends, green friends who the @$%! cares. there is something called trust, and if you and your girl dont have it then you lost
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this is a very good response.
i just got 1 thing to say: confidence and trust.
you trust your girl and your confident of your relationship, your solid.
a relationship is nothing without trust.
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Basically. I used to be real insecure about that but now I'm like "*@%# it" she gon do what she wanna do regardless, she's smart enough to not fall for any game and what not so I don't care anymore. She don't really mind me havin female friends who I text alot. Now as far as me goin out w/ em to dinner and %!!#, would never do it out of respect, she like my lil sister anyway.
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but who isnt jealous tho? everyone is too some extent
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People who get jealous shouldn't date good looking people????
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Ain't happenin
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I don't think that's cool.
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What I don't get is why people automatically say, "If you trust your girl then there shouldn't be an issue." Well that isn't the issue. The issue is your girl being in a 1-on-1 encounter with a male that you KNOW has some sort of interest in her from a sexual standpoint. Unless the dude is 100% gay, I can't see how there is no interest there at all. Plus if he WANTS to do something, how can she STOP him. Yea she can put him in his place or speak up, but say if the dude's hands start to move to places it has no business being, what can she do to STOP that? Nothing. So to prevent that situation from even happening, I would want my woman going anywhere 1-on-1 with another male.
Has nothing to do with trust. And a lot of times, these women are so naive and blind when it comes to the intentions of these male friends. They can't be this stupid
Has nothing to do with trust. And a lot of times, these women are so naive and blind when it comes to the intentions of these male friends. They can't be this stupid
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Socialize with other sexes (not your sig. other) makes people happy and not bored? Didn't know that.Originally Posted by akuratl02
Ya'll will unfortunately get bored of smothering eachother realfast .... People need to be able to socialize with both sexes ..
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if it ever went that far, to the point where hes layin' hands on her. Then you can pull out.
But if you're just taking an educated guess that this male is trying to get inside her pants. Why not just be oblivious to the situation. Personally, seeing is believing.
Its not like shes this #1 overall draft pick in the NFL where you invest millions in that prospect.
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--Male friends? As in plural? Girls are naive.
--One male friend has smashed before. One is smashing as we speak and another will smash in the future.
--Real talk.
--One male friend has smashed before. One is smashing as we speak and another will smash in the future.
--Real talk.
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cant stand that
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