NT: My Pops is about to make a huge mistake. Advice please

[silverswoosh]

Originally Posted by jibbycanoe

and if it doesn't work out for him don't say "I told you so."

But, that's the fun part....

 

[ekrev]

if your dad's happy...let him be.

if later down the road this marriage doesnt work out, lesson learned and keep it moving.

 

[frenchblue23]

I think your dad feels comfortable with her, he might be afraid of going fishing, and being rejected then being alone.

If she makes him happy.

 

[katiejade4]

Originally Posted by P MAC ONE

Originally Posted by KatieJade4

I'm mad that you think just cuz she's a woman that she needs to know how to cook and clean LOLLL...

Thats effed up.

I didn't say that.

I tried to clear up why I said that up above.

Oh sorry, I stopped reading everything after I saw that

 

[af1pops12]

Originally Posted by prokid404

Let your dad make his own mistakes. That's the only way he'll learn

 

[pharelfor3]

Tell your dad to dump that broad.

 

[p mac one]

Originally Posted by jibbycanoe

Originally Posted by P MAC ONE

I want my Dad to find a woman/get married. Just not this woman.

so this is about you and not your dad. what makes you right and him wrong? sounds like you aren't anywhere close to as wise as you are claiming to be
anyhow, here is your advise, mind your own +*@*@*% business and try to be happy for the old man. and if it doesn't work out for him then be there for him and don't say "I told you so."

How is this about me?

If he goes through with this of course I'll be hoping for the best. That said, I haven't seen or heard of many experiences where a couple tries at arelationship over and over again but finds success after multiple failures.

So say he marries her, then 3 years in decides it was a bad idea? California's divorce laws are going to %%!# him, and he's going to be approachingretirement age with her entitled to half of things that he's worked hard his entire life for.

 

[solematic j21]

No matter what you tell him hes not gonna change his mind, this seems like a choice he wants to make. Leave it as that.

 

[importking]

FAM,

ive learned that its best to stay out of my parents personal relationship problems, it is what it is.

your father is 60 years old, let him do what he wants.

 

[memphisboi55]

Pics?

 

[dnycemodel]

Originally Posted by P MAC ONE

She can't cook, can't clean, none of that stuff.

 

[katiejade4]

Originally Posted by IMPORTKING

FAM,

ive learned that its best to stay out of my parents personal relationship problems, it is what it is.

your father is 60 years old, let him do what he wants.

^^^ agreed

My dad is constantly telling me that he doesnt think he'll live to see that age of 60. So be thankful you've got your dad. As long as this woman isnttaking him away from you, then let him do whatever it is that he wants. Everyone's gotta live their own lives.

 

[kickinit102]

Originally Posted by P MAC ONE

Since she passed I've made it clear to him that he's going to end up like her if he doesn't quit.

Everyone is going to end up like her regardless of how you live your life.

 

[jrdnsrnss]

Let him do what he wants, if he wants to make the same mistake again, let him.

 

[lazy b]

P, just make sure that he makes her sign a prenuptial agreement before they tie the knot if it goes that far.

 

[i make my own path]

Originally Posted by JoseBronx

Originally Posted by P MAC ONE

She can't cook, can't clean, none of that stuff.

NO

Man i dont care what none of yall say bout this
i agree... come a certain age ALL WOMEN should know how to cook, clean, & be able to do all those domestic things

Yes male chauvanist

i also think that ALL MEN should know how to do those same things

 

[neighb0rh00d]

Show your dad this thread.

 

[18th letter]

Catch her in the act, videotape it, and put it on the hub

 

[oh you mad]

Originally Posted by I Make My Own Path

Originally Posted by JoseBronx

P MAC ONE wrote:

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She can't cook, can't clean, none of that stuff.

NO

Man i dont care what none of yall say bout this
i agree... come a certain age ALL WOMEN should know how to cook, clean, & be able to do all those domestic things

Yes male chauvanist

i also think that ALL MEN should know how to do those same things

 

[quik1987]

He just trying to smash again

 

[general johnson]

Get one of your friends to gas her up, smash and videotape it.

Show your pops the video.

 

[limitedretroog]

Originally Posted by KatieJade4

I'm mad that you think just cuz she's a woman that she needs to know how to cook and clean LOLLL...

Thats effed up.

You can't expect him to do EVERYTHING.

 

[neighb0rh00d]

oh yea, OP,

R.I.P. to your mother. If i remember correctly she passed away

 

[shortydoowopp]

like already stated he's probably scared of dying alone...you're getting older and will move out and then what?

just let him be...even if it is a mistake thats for him to find out...

 

[stunthard]

Originally Posted by jrp44

Kill her is your only chance


Good Luck