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That's unfortunate but I feel what you going through man, I left a lot of homies in 2008.
What should I do about one of my main dude/my ace/my best friends...
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dead him....that was hella grimey.
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something must be said or done.. can't be a b**** about it n say nothin..
thats real F'd up..
everyone has bets n s*** go wrong.. but damn.. just tried to sneak 500 out from under you with no explanation.. anti-
thats real F'd up..
everyone has bets n s*** go wrong.. but damn.. just tried to sneak 500 out from under you with no explanation.. anti-
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Originally Posted by RIPyzyz
My guy and his "girl" are going on a trip to CA saturday. He bought some kinda vouchers for him and his girl in which he didnt have the money to pay for both(or so I think). he claimed that he wasnt paying for his chick ticket, that if she couldnt come up with the bread Yesterday he asked me to use my check card to pay for the rest of his plane ticket. He said it was 240 and he gave 200 to me(he said he'll give me the 40 tomorrow). I verified with him that is was "only his ticket."
I wake up this morning to see if he did the transaction, he did and it was a 495 dollar purchase.All I had was like 350 in my account(being broke FTL). I try to call him and I get the pick up x hang up deal. Still aint talk to him today even though dude dont normally got no problem answering/calling me. Its whatever though because I called reported it stolen, WILL get credited back tommorrow, so the money is not the problem.
****Important sidenote****this bustdown he messing with got him living wayyy outside his means to the point he borrowing from person A just to pay back person B. Missing rent and all that @#%#.
So anyways how do i handle this. Stop messing with him after 13 years??Did he know what he was doing??
thats foul....best friend or not he would have to see me one on one....you was doing him a favor giving him 40 bucks then he gonna charge his girl ticket too
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confront him bout it...see what he says...if u don't like what he sayin....dead it.
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what i don't understand is why LifeLessons is quoting the op's original post
and yeah, cut dude off. least he could've done was let you know he was charging more than originally stated
and yeah, cut dude off. least he could've done was let you know he was charging more than originally stated
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no heads up and avoidance afterwards...no good...get you money back and smack him with the 5bills
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How many times have we seen this scenario on NT? Just because you've known him for so long doesn't mean you're obligated to be his friend. And ifhe's going to USE you, he's NOT your friend. And also, you're paying for your friend's girlfriends ticket? GROW A PAIR.
It's a female tendency...keeping an abusive relationship for the satisfaction of simply being a relationship. Do yourself a favor and cut this person outof your life.
It's a female tendency...keeping an abusive relationship for the satisfaction of simply being a relationship. Do yourself a favor and cut this person outof your life.
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that wouldve prob been the end of our friendship
its not about the money but the fact hes intentionally avoiding you(if youre 100% sure hes doin it intentionally). + Plus if he does this for a chick i cangurantee hell do somethin like this again for the same reason.
its not about the money but the fact hes intentionally avoiding you(if youre 100% sure hes doin it intentionally). + Plus if he does this for a chick i cangurantee hell do somethin like this again for the same reason.
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lose the lame....conniving friends ftl
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hold up. did the bank just get scammed outta 500$ .....................................
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tmukg21
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time to drop one from your roster for a while, waive 'em and resign later
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use one of his grimey tactics to get revenge
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if he was your ace, he wouldn't have done that to you, fam.
get your money back. tell him how you feel and if dude brushes it off, find another ace.
get your money back. tell him how you feel and if dude brushes it off, find another ace.
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you got a problem you lil gump....?
acting like it took up so much space
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if thats your boy...slug it out then go for drinks.
and let him know F that broad cause she a flipper and a stripper and im not sure but she might be a clipper ya dig?
and let him know F that broad cause she a flipper and a stripper and im not sure but she might be a clipper ya dig?
tmukg21
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now that you mention it.......
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If you're getting your money back by reporting that your card was stolen- COOL.
But just for principal, call in and cancel your boys return tix. Explain that the tix were paid for with your stolen card.
I bet you get a call from the airport.
But just for principal, call in and cancel your boys return tix. Explain that the tix were paid for with your stolen card.
I bet you get a call from the airport.
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Originally Posted by tmukg21
now that you mention it.......
Yea that sounds about right. I would talk 2 my "boy" see if he plan on payin you back, maybe it was last minute and he was plannin on payin you themoney. IDK but of he was your boy for 13 years like you said I dont think he would try to get you like that. If anything get that money from him and stoptalkin to him cuz thats grimey as hell
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bruh aint your homie bout to get caught up in stealing a credit card now? you don't think when you reported it stolen they arent gonna check about thosetickets?
dude might get his lesson without you having to say %#+#..
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^ thats what i was thinking.. you gonna have to explain it to your cc company/the police that you authorized him to use the card but not for the full amount
quik1987
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I agree, making sure he don't fly back outta your pocket will be funny
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I agree though, if you want to continue being friends with this dude you
gotta beat the *%!@ outta him, to let him know that even though he is your
boy and you got mad love for him, that kind of *%!@ will not be tolerated.
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