Why did you and your ex break up?

we took a "break", while on this status she got knocked up by some other cat...she wanted to get back with me in da meantime, but i refused unless she took it out, her moms made her keep it.....4 years down da toilet.

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She was promiscuous.
Too Clingy
a habitual liar
Annoying
Untrustworthy
lack intelligence
My ex was downright not right for me. We shared nothing in common but she was cute and that was it.
 
Had a misunderstanding about a concert that led to both of us being to stubborn to apologize.
 
Originally Posted by ninjahood

we took a "break", while on this status she got knocked up by some other cat...she wanted to get back with me in da meantime, but i refused unless she took it out, her moms made her keep it.....4 years down da toilet.

#feelsbadman

"..we should take a break.."
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Although it still means its over/done, I realized when my ex told me this she was only trying to let me down as light as possible.. 
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She thought i was always too negative and i wasnt doing anything to improve and said i was selfish and was bringing her down . she kinda let all this snowball and at the end she was just fed up and wouldnt even give me a chance to imporve . Felt like i was in the wrong the whole relationship #kanyeshurg hurts because i have never meet another woman like her . Im def still trying to get my woman back , so we are kinda on a break
 
We were together 5 years. We broke up at the end of June when she went on vacation with family friends. Said she had feelings for another guy (family friend they were with). I was going to propose tomorrow (Sept 6) on my birthday. Basically spent 6 years of my life giving this chick everything and it ended that way.
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Going to stay forever alone.
 
Originally Posted by Los Angeles Fresh

Communication issues.
Religion.
Parents loved me though.
Diff world views after all.
cheated on her several times though she knows of one.
2 years of my life wasted.
All this. And she wouldn't give me head. 7 times in 2 years? 
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wasn't into the whole relationship thing, but I let the guard down to date a girl I'd been interested in since freshman year of hs (this was senior year). she kissed some guy, and her justification was "she was blackout drunk." Stupidly took her back for 2 months, and it never was the same. Different perspective towards women now. Feels real bad, man.
 
Flew to London to see her only to find out she messing around with some white dude right in front of me.  Didn't bring a camera or anything, just went only for her.  It was my first time leaving the country too.  Worst 4 days of my life, buttt things happen for a reason and I am a much more stronger person now because of that.
 
Originally Posted by mondaynightraw

Originally Posted by SpeakUp23

Shouldnt have made/read the replies in this thread 
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Trust issues x10 now
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What reasons has she given you?

She's cute, btw 
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 Nice pickup 
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Thanks bro
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And idk man, last night was just a HUGE mess. I wont get into details but there was just a lot of lack of communication and understanding. But we fixed it and everything is better than ever now
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. I definitely overreacted saying I wanted to break up and #*%@.
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IDK what I would do if I lost her
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She said I acted like I didnt care about her, I said she was right.

This was in HS, senior year. Only girlfriend I ever had, forever single
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Originally Posted by SoleWoman

He didn't listen [color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]to me B**ch and whine all day[/color]
Found someone who did  [color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]a simp who would[/color]

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Originally Posted by KingSuperbIV

Originally Posted by SoleWoman

He didn't listen [color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]to me B**ch and whine all day[/color]
Found someone who did  [color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]a simp who would[/color]

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Lol I feel you but to bad it wasn't that cut and dry.
 
Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by kilojules64

I started letting little things make me way more angry than they should have :/
It was definitely my fault.
You mind speaking on this a little more?

I don't know how to explain this without making myself seem like a huge b*&^@
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For a while in our relationship I had gained some weight, so I had no desire to have sex. He got frustrated because he loved my body and wanted to do it anyway. I still had no drive.
I lose the weight, and we start having sex again after a couple of months and it just wasn't how it used to be. We both got pretty irritable at this point in the relationship.

Then I kind of stop wanting to be in a relationship altogether. I loved him though, couldn't see myself without him so I refused to break up with him even though my friends said I should. I just couldn't control my anger the way you do when you love someone anymore, I shopped showing restraint and picking and choosing my battles. Everything was an argument, until finally i pushed him right into another girl's lap.
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Of course both of us realized we actually did want to be together and make it work way too late, too much had happened, and now we don't speak at all.

Been single ever since #foreveralone
 
Originally Posted by JRAdagreat72

Originally Posted by Los Angeles Fresh

Communication issues.
Religion.
Parents loved me though.
Diff world views after all.
cheated on her several times though she knows of one.
2 years of my life wasted.
All this. And she wouldn't give me head. 7 times in 2 years? 
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Was she one of those, "Head is a privilege" type females. What was her logic. How often did you all talk about it.

Damn that is sad. I have dealt with folks like that.
 
Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by JRAdagreat72

Originally Posted by Los Angeles Fresh

Communication issues.
Religion.
Parents loved me though.
Diff world views after all.
cheated on her several times though she knows of one.
2 years of my life wasted.
All this. And she wouldn't give me head. 7 times in 2 years? 
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Was she one of those, "Head is a privilege" type females. What was her logic. How often did you all talk about it.

Damn that is sad. I have dealt with folks like that.
Yep exactly what im going through now. Head is a privilege type stuff.  I explained to her dont treat it like that. Whenever she wont give me none I always throw your going to make me get it from somebody else. She said well why dont you leave me now, i said i dont want to leave you i just want some Head.

So to this day I get my head by different females.  Volume #Craiglist escorts....
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So now i told her im not having sex until she comes off that head.. been 1 1/2 months so far, if it goes any longer we gonna have to have a breakup talk. Been together 9 years
 
Originally Posted by KingSuperbIV

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by JRAdagreat72

All this. And she wouldn't give me head. 7 times in 2 years? 
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Was she one of those, "Head is a privilege" type females. What was her logic. How often did you all talk about it.

Damn that is sad. I have dealt with folks like that.
Yep exactly what im going through now. Head is a privilege type stuff.  I explained to her dont treat it like that. Whenever she wont give me none I always throw your going to make me get it from somebody else. She said well why dont you leave me now, i said i dont want to leave you i just want some Head.

So to this day I get my head by different females.  Volume #Craiglist escorts....
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So now i told her im not having sex until she comes off that head.. been 1 1/2 months so far, if it goes any longer we gonna have to have a breakup talk. Been together 9 years


Head is a privilege
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???? Man, head should be like breathing --- second nature and you don't even think about it.
 
Been with my chick 1.5 now and I'm still really wondering if she is the one...

We got alot of +$% to get over I don't get how dudes make it longterm
 
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