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Tougher or Different?being a father imo is waaaay tougher than being a mother
That is a hell of a claim to make when comparing two unlike things.
Don't speak these words outside of Niketalk walls man.
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Tougher or Different?being a father imo is waaaay tougher than being a mother
noYour natural biology also gives you the ability to think before you make a decision, lust and love or any emotion are only as powerful as you allow them to be.
Yea, that is just a different role the man usually takes on.now im sure yall significant others can handle things on their own
i know mine can
but when **** gets tough
they look to u
and as "the man"
its on u to toughen up
and get things done
without showing signs of weakness or emotion
But this is a simple issue, unless you don't care about your future enough to make it into a complex issueWhat a well thought out answer. People are brutally honest and can't have a change of mind. Stop trying to make this a simple issue ....
So you married the love of your life had two beautiful kids that are in junior HS and your wife tells you she's having a third. You're a little stress because money is tight and another child is going to severely hinder your future financial plans. However, because she's the love of your life and because although is going to be tight you can manage you're happy and dont mention anything. Then, during a routine check up doctors warn you that the child is going to have down syndrome. Now, that expense is not only going to be higher than expected is going to hinder your current kids, and you guys present and future living conditions. You do not want to have the kid but she wants to and both of you guys are extremely set on this issue. Why cant a responsible father have a say so and not only jeopardize his life but his kids life?Same way they tell young bucks not to point a gun at anything/anyone they wouldn't want to kill is the same way you should view your sexual partners.
yes i doI feel you
But don't you turn to your wife for consolation when you're having your own moments of doubt or weakness?
Disagree, you can condition yourself to react to traumatic stimuli in a controlled manner.no
why do u think folks get so mad they black out
and go on a rampage
folks come home see their significant other in bed
with someone else and just go crazy
all they see is red
theres been times i was mad as hell
and im my mind
i know i should calm down
but im so mad i couldnt help it
or even watching a movie
u know its fake and not real
but still get scared or cry or make u mad
those are things u cant help
and its just natural
nah cause i dont have bm drama at allThat’s cause u have more than one bm.
soooo u have to condition urself now????Disagree, you can condition yourself to react to traumatic stimuli in a controlled manner.
Because you are not physically holding the child. It's really simple, as DCAllAfrican said, "it's one of the natural laws". Until we start having children made in artificial wombs, the final say so in an unborn child's life will always be up to the person carrying the child.So you married the love of your life had two beautiful kids that are in junior HS and your wife tells you she's having a third. You're a little stress because money is tight and another child is going to severely hinder your future financial plans. However, because she's the love of your life and because although is going to be tight you can manage you're happy and dont mention anything. Then, during a routine check up doctors warn you that the child is going to have down syndrome. Now, that expense is not only going to be higher than expected is going to hinder your current kids, and you guys present and future living conditions. You do not want to have the kid but she wants to and both of you guys are extremely set on this issue. Why cant a responsible father have a say so and not only jeopardize his life but his kids life?
It goes beyond your statement ...
like what????Just like there are things women have to do that we aren't being asked to do.
So things are just different man
BC + condom + pull out if you're really that scared of this scenario happening.So you married the love of your life had two beautiful kids that are in junior HS and your wife tells you she's having a third. You're a little stress because money is tight and another child is going to severely hinder your future financial plans. However, because she's the love of your life and because although is going to be tight you can manage you're happy and dont mention anything. Then, during a routine check up doctors warn you that the child is going to have down syndrome. Now, that expense is not only going to be higher than expected is going to hinder your current kids, and you guys present and future living conditions. You do not want to have the kid but she wants to and both of you guys are extremely set on this issue. Why cant a responsible father have a say so and not only jeopardize his life but his kids life?
It goes beyond your statement ...
I'm not, you stated that it's natural to feel emotions and I countered by saying that it's also natural for a human to be able to rationally overcome those same emotions. It's like you don't understand your own argument.soooo u have to condition urself now????
ur changing the argument
This isn't how my relationship works, so I can't really related.like what????
besides birthing the baby
if the childs father is there
its on him to make sure his fam straight
and SHOULD be
So the issue is simple ...But this is a simple issue, unless you don't care about your future enough to make it into a complex issue
nahwomen get the benefit of doubt maybe.
maybe eggs are more fragile than sperm despite technology.
ur not there for ur kid???This isn't how my relationship works, so I can't really related.
You keep acting like you have no choice. If you don't want the risk, don't go smashing.So the issue is simple ...
Regardless of circumstances...
If you **** a female, shut the **** up you have no right if she conceives?
Does that even sound logical to you?????
SMH ...
whether she's a random, a girl friend, fiancee wife???
u forgot the partSo the issue is simple ...
Regardless of circumstances...
If you **** a female, shut the **** up you have no right if she conceives?
Does that even sound logical to you?????
SMH ...
whether she's a random, a girl friend, fiancee wife???
Well I have control over whether or not she will even have the option to conceive so yeah...So the issue is simple ...
Regardless of circumstances...
If you **** a female, shut the **** up you have no right if she conceives?
Does that even sound logical to you?????
SMH ...
Why are you projecting, "Making sure the family is straight" as being a father exclusive responsibility/role?like what????
besides birthing the baby
if the childs father is there
its on him to make sure his fam straight
and SHOULD be
I apologize, what I said wasn't clear. What I meant was me and my girl pretty much split the responsibilities evenly. Also, I don't have kids.ur not there for ur kid???
This isn't how my relationship works, so I can't really related.
ur not there for ur kid???