Why did you and your ex break up?

Originally Posted by KingSuperbIV

Yep exactly what im going through now. Head is a privilege type stuff.  I explained to her dont treat it like that. Whenever she wont give me none I always throw your going to make me get it from somebody else. She said well why dont you leave me now, i said i dont want to leave you i just want some Head.

So to this day I get my head by different females.  Volume #Craiglist escorts....
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So now i told her im not having sex until she comes off that head.. been 1 1/2 months so far, if it goes any longer we gonna have to have a breakup talk. Been together 9 years
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How much is that Craigslist head going for?

You all might as well call it quits man. The writing is on the wall.
 
Couldn't give as much devotion as she did me.
Couldn't say the word "love" to her.
Graduating college together and figuring out life/work life was just too fast for us to catch up with.
She didn't do anything wrong, I just never felt it with her. =\

We were together for 1.5 years though it should have been a lot less than that...it dragged (._.)
Felt bad for breaking her heart but it needed to be done. We're still friends but I try to keep a distance; and I turned down break-up sex to make sure no feelings can be reignited. She was mad at first but is now over it.
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Been single for 4 months now and it feels good man, No Marvin's Room.
 
Wasn't appreciative of the changes i've made as a person for her
She's an introvert, I'm an extrovert (not that those 2 differences matter)
I try to involve her in my social life, but clashes due to her being family oriented, prioritises her family which is fine.
Every time she say's no I can't do this, no I can't be there, I can't go with you etc. Its always fine with me, never a big issue. But when it's the other way around she's pretty hard on me most of the time
She's selfish, naive, insecure
Fight about petty stuff, been repetitive last 3 months before I broke it off (I gave her warning too, if arguments are based of silly shhh we gotta re-evaluate our relationship)
Communication issues, perhaps a little trust issue as well?
She thinks she's just an obligation to me. Which is not fair to say
I'm her first serious boyfriend (is that even something to consider?)
We've been together close to 3 years no (sept 8 is our 3 year anniv)
Stuck in limbo atm at what to do, love the girl to death. When we are good we are GENUINELY great and happy.
But she's really pushed me off the cliff. Broke up early august, boiling point came when she said that all my hard work and dedication to work weekdays and weekends and earn money for our us/europe trip were "lame $*! excuses" her exact words. Couldn't handle putting up with that %%+* no longer
Feels badman at times, Feelsgoodman other days too.

I realize I gotta make big changes to accomodate her to make things work out, which at times I feel like I'm ready to do. But I just hope this time off since weve broken up she can look at the mirror and owe up to her shortcomings. Nobody's perfect and all that. But at the moment, she too angry to see it. She blames everything on me.

I don't know what to do, so show me the light NT. Any advice would be appreciated.
 
Originally Posted by sneakaprince

Been with my chick 1.5 now and I'm still really wondering if she is the one...

We got alot of +$% to get over I don't get how dudes make it longterm
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Dude let me tell you know. There is no such thing to "she is the one" ..LOL

No girl is the one. Always remember that, all you can do is make her the one through proper training, instruction and teachings
 
Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by KingSuperbIV

Yep exactly what im going through now. Head is a privilege type stuff.  I explained to her dont treat it like that. Whenever she wont give me none I always throw your going to make me get it from somebody else. She said well why dont you leave me now, i said i dont want to leave you i just want some Head.

So to this day I get my head by different females.  Volume #Craiglist escorts....
laugh.gif
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So now i told her im not having sex until she comes off that head.. been 1 1/2 months so far, if it goes any longer we gonna have to have a breakup talk. Been together 9 years
Click to expand...
How much is that Craigslist head going for?

You all might as well call it quits man. The writing is on the wall.
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It got so bad one time we had to draw numbers to see who will give the head
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( and I won)because i told her I wasnt doing it since she never do it and she said same thing even tho she was wrong. Actually it was kind of fun diffrent and intresting doing that. I got headed for like a hour straight.

She is a rasheed wallace fan. Told her in his voice.." The Paper dont lie"  LOL boy was she mad because I owned her
 
She told me to confront some of my anger issues, I wouldn't hit her or anything, but I would snap without raising my voice, and that scared her. Oh well. Thanks to her high yellow %+!, I found me a white woman who appreciates me. Been happy ever since.
 
Originally Posted by dubg34

Wasn't appreciative of the changes i've made as a person for her
She's an introvert, I'm an extrovert (not that those 2 differences matter)
I try to involve her in my social life, but clashes due to her being family oriented, prioritises her family which is fine.
Every time she say's no I can't do this, no I can't be there, I can't go with you etc. Its always fine with me, never a big issue. But when it's the other way around she's pretty hard on me most of the time
She's selfish, naive, insecure
Fight about petty stuff, been repetitive last 3 months before I broke it off (I gave her warning too, if arguments are based of silly shhh we gotta re-evaluate our relationship)
Communication issues, perhaps a little trust issue as well?
She thinks she's just an obligation to me. Which is not fair to say
I'm her first serious boyfriend (is that even something to consider?)
We've been together close to 3 years no (sept 8 is our 3 year anniv)
Stuck in limbo atm at what to do, love the girl to death. When we are good we are GENUINELY great and happy.
But she's really pushed me off the cliff. Broke up early august, boiling point came when she said that all my hard work and dedication to work and earn money to make her happy were "lame $*! excuses" her exact words. Couldn't handle putting up with that %%+* no longer
Feels badman at times, Feelsgoodman other days too.

I realize I gotta make big changes to accomodate her to make things work out, which at times I feel like I'm ready to do. But I just hope this time off since weve broken up she can look at the mirror and owe up to her shortcomings. Nobody's perfect and all that. But at the moment, she too angry to see it. She blames everything on me.

I don't know what to do, so show me the light NT. Any advice would be appreciated.
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read my post a page or so back. Never ever make a girl your pritority. never tell her Im doing this for us crap. never ever accommodate bro atleast do let her think that and never ever let her know u doing this and that tofor her good and to make her happy..

Too many of you cats is making your women #1 priority ahead of your self.

She doesnt respect you know based off what you have been telling her and treating her. Girls hate simps who will do whatever for them and make them #1 priority.. and they lose respect quick and move on to next man
 
Originally Posted by KingSuperbIV

It got so bad one time we had to draw numbers to see who will give the head
sick.gif
because i told her I wasnt doing it since she never do it and she said same thing even tho she was wrong.
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Forreal man? So who won. The "winner" probably half-assed it anyway. That is sad but funny.

I know she didn't catch it when she did give you head. I know that is asking her for too much.
 
Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by KingSuperbIV

It got so bad one time we had to draw numbers to see who will give the head
sick.gif
because i told her I wasnt doing it since she never do it and she said same thing even tho she was wrong.
Click to expand...
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Forreal man? So who won. The "winner" probably half-assed it anyway. That is sad but funny.

I know she didn't catch it when she did give you head. I know that is asking her for too much.
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I won of course..
 
I'm married now.. But the girl before my wife was kinda crazy..She always saw things as a competition..For example, back in college we were both in the same calculus class... If I scored higher than her, she would constantly pick fights and say that I'm changing and that I think I'm better than her... I always remember giving her a blank stare and saying "it's just a test..."She absolutely hated that.. And one day she threw a big rock and broke my driver side window.After that, I said peace out... And got my locks changed.
 
Originally Posted by KingSuperbIV

Yep exactly what im going through now. Head is a privilege type stuff.  I explained to her dont treat it like that. Whenever she wont give me none I always throw your going to make me get it from somebody else. She said well why dont you leave me now, i said i dont want to leave you i just want some Head.

So to this day I get my head by different females.  Volume #Craiglist escorts....
laugh.gif
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So now i told her im not having sex until she comes off that head.. been 1 1/2 months so far, if it goes any longer we gonna have to have a breakup talk. Been together 9 years
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Damn. With the sexual stalemate you two are having, eventually you may want more than head from #Craiglist escorts. Unless she has a sudden change of heart, you might as well break up now rather than drag the situation further.
 
Knew from seeing this title that this would be a hit. I have had a girl for 2 years now but my last ex we broke up over her jealousy.
 
Originally Posted by pip777

Originally Posted by KingSuperbIV

Yep exactly what im going through now. Head is a privilege type stuff.  I explained to her dont treat it like that. Whenever she wont give me none I always throw your going to make me get it from somebody else. She said well why dont you leave me now, i said i dont want to leave you i just want some Head.

So to this day I get my head by different females.  Volume #Craiglist escorts....
laugh.gif
laugh.gif


So now i told her im not having sex until she comes off that head.. been 1 1/2 months so far, if it goes any longer we gonna have to have a breakup talk. Been together 9 years
Click to expand...
Damn. With the sexual stalemate you two are having, eventually you may want more than head from #Craiglist escorts. Unless she has a sudden change of heart, you might as well break up now rather than drag the situation further.
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Sex is good head is like once very 4 months. I dont like that.

But its to late to call it quits. deep in the game with her 9 years almost. I put too much work and training into her to call it quits now.. I like the challenge
 
I honestly don't wanna make a giant post.. but I'm 20.. went out with my girl for what would be 3 years this November.. she was my HS sweetheart. We broke up in June.. I broke up with her bc I knew it was best for both of us. HS sweetheart ideology tells each other you wanna be together forever.. but the reality is we argued like a HS relationship does always.. and somehow I was always the bad guy. Even though, everyone around me saw it was not always the case. She chose to go away for school last fall and it honestly was hard. The times she was away from me, I got to think a lot.. us being together was great, but we weren't maturing as a couple, still wasting so much time in our relationship arguing and drama filled,we weren't progressing. Honestly can say in my 20 yrs of life it was the hardest decision I ever had to make.. I know deep down she will mature in the ways she needs to and I will too. So when it really does become time to spend the rest of our lives with someone, it will be healthy.
 
Originally Posted by dubg34

Wasn't appreciative of the changes i've made as a person for her
She's an introvert, I'm an extrovert (not that those 2 differences matter)
I try to involve her in my social life, but clashes due to her being family oriented, prioritises her family which is fine.
Every time she say's no I can't do this, no I can't be there, I can't go with you etc. Its always fine with me, never a big issue. But when it's the other way around she's pretty hard on me most of the time
She's selfish, naive, insecure
Fight about petty stuff, been repetitive last 3 months before I broke it off (I gave her warning too, if arguments are based of silly shhh we gotta re-evaluate our relationship)
Communication issues, perhaps a little trust issue as well?
She thinks she's just an obligation to me. Which is not fair to say
I'm her first serious boyfriend (is that even something to consider?)
We've been together close to 3 years no (sept 8 is our 3 year anniv)
Stuck in limbo atm at what to do, love the girl to death. When we are good we are GENUINELY great and happy.
But she's really pushed me off the cliff. Broke up early august, boiling point came when she said that all my hard work and dedication to work and earn money to make her happy were "lame $*! excuses" her exact words. Couldn't handle putting up with that %%+* no longer
Feels badman at times, Feelsgoodman other days too.

I realize I gotta make big changes to accomodate her to make things work out, which at times I feel like I'm ready to do. But I just hope this time off since weve broken up she can look at the mirror and owe up to her shortcomings. Nobody's perfect and all that. But at the moment, she too angry to see it. She blames everything on me.

I don't know what to do, so show me the light NT. Any advice would be appreciated.
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I feel you on a lot of those things.. best thing to do if its over is just try your best to improve yourself In any way you can.. I hope the same way you do, that in time they will see where their errors lay/lie.. read my post above.. sometimes time apart is best for both.
 
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