Why did you and your ex break up?

was with my ex for about 5 years...she ended up catching feelings for one of the bus boys that work at her mom's restaurant
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..I made that broad too she wouldn't be getting her RN degree if it wasnt for me instead she'd be another hood booger. Enjoy your future with your army reject, no education, osh sales associate bf. I know you readin this too and yes I'm still salty even though i got a new chick and its been a year
 
trust issues among many many other things.  funny how the person who cheats has no trust for the other 
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BgL2687 wrote:


was with my ex for about 5 years...she ended up catching feelings for one of the bus boys that work at her mom's restaurant 
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..I made that broad too she wouldn't be getting her RN degree if it wasnt for me instead she'd be another hood booger. Enjoy your future with your army reject, no education, osh sales associate bf. I know you readin this too and yes I'm still salty even though i got a new chick and its been a year
you gonna make another one?
 
Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by KingSuperbIV

Yep exactly what im going through now. Head is a privilege type stuff.  I explained to her dont treat it like that. Whenever she wont give me none I always throw your going to make me get it from somebody else. She said well why dont you leave me now, i said i dont want to leave you i just want some Head.

So to this day I get my head by different females.  Volume #Craiglist escorts....
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So now i told her im not having sex until she comes off that head.. been 1 1/2 months so far, if it goes any longer we gonna have to have a breakup talk. Been together 9 years
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More or less I lost a great one b/c I was selfish and an #$*. I prioritized wrong, and after 4 years she got fed up.  
 
Originally Posted by imsleepy1234

Originally Posted by ILovetheXIII

i came home one day
she told me she was no longer in love with me, and didn't wanna be married anymore...that was 3 months ago...she moved in with her mom...won't try counseling or anything, i've tried everything i can to keep my family together...got a 3 year old little girl in the middle ....

never saw it coming, she told me a month before all this how happy she was, blah blah blah, she put on a good show

women suck

the only conclusion i can come up with is she lost her mind.

changed my whole perspective on life

spent 5 years with her....waste of 5 years
Wow, I faced a similar situation a few years ago.  We were married for 6 years, and suddenly she didn't want to be married anymore.  I do not wish anyone the pain that I felt when she uttered those words.  Luckily, we did not have any kids.  I tried to fix everything when it was falling apart, but you can only do so much.  I made her my priority, and took care of her, unfortunately, my efforts were not good enough.  I had goals, but had set them aside to provide for her.  I went in to depression and suffered insomnia when she left.  
It also changed my perspective on life, and that is to always make myself as my number one priority.  One day, I decided to step out of the rut and move on.  I've decided to work on myself by getting a higher education and staying positive.  Now, I'm getting close to earning my bachelors degree, and I also have a younger, smarter, and more beautiful girlfriend.  Best of luck to you and your daughter.

Very strong post to name correlation....

But man I dno how you two do it, I couldn't imagine hearing those words out of the blue.  Hope you guys find someone else in life that won't pull anything like that
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She thought I was controlling where I just made suggestions on how she should do certain things which would make things much easier for her. I didn't actually force her to make any of those changes when she chose not to listen.
She thought that I didn't show enough affection towards her which is a complete lie.
She thought that I was dissing her and not spending enough time talking to her and stuff. Where I just was taking a step back because I wanted her to focus more of her efforts on schoolwork because her grades were falling.
I also was sort of questioning myself whether I actually see myself spending the rest of my life with this girl. Honestly towards the end I was considering yea it's a possibility. But once we got into this one serious fight which led to the breakup I realized that I was right for doubting it all along. Girl was fun and awesome and sort of exactly what I like. Minus one thing, she wasn't as driven and determined as I was raised to be so that's where things for me just fell apart.
 
Had no idea why i even asked my last Ex out
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Anyways; broke it up cuz i didnt even like the chick
Used her for sex and just to have

Overall felt good having my options on the side too because she lived 30 minutes away from me
 
Originally Posted by KingSuperbIV

Originally Posted by pip777

Originally Posted by KingSuperbIV

Yep exactly what im going through now. Head is a privilege type stuff.  I explained to her dont treat it like that. Whenever she wont give me none I always throw your going to make me get it from somebody else. She said well why dont you leave me now, i said i dont want to leave you i just want some Head.

So to this day I get my head by different females.  Volume #Craiglist escorts....
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So now i told her im not having sex until she comes off that head.. been 1 1/2 months so far, if it goes any longer we gonna have to have a breakup talk. Been together 9 years
Damn. With the sexual stalemate you two are having, eventually you may want more than head from #Craiglist escorts. Unless she has a sudden change of heart, you might as well break up now rather than drag the situation further.

Sex is good head is like once very 4 months. I dont like that.

But its to late to call it quits. deep in the game with her 9 years almost. I put too much work and training into her to call it quits now.. I like the challenge


She's topping someone else.Not to be rude, but think abt it
 
Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by KingSuperbIV

It got so bad one time we had to draw numbers to see who will give the head
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because i told her I wasnt doing it since she never do it and she said same thing even tho she was wrong.
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Forreal man? So who won. The "winner" probably half-assed it anyway. That is sad but funny.

I know she didn't catch it when she did give you head. I know that is asking her for too much.

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I gave her everything and she cheated on me. It's been 4 months and she still sends me book long texts all the time saying how sorry she is but I can never forgive her, ever..
 
"It was all downhill when we let them in our business..."

I have never experienced infidelity in a relationship, but that sounds like a tough one and a pretty common NT issue.  Got to do a better job screening that kind of character in a female before you lock it down. 
 
Originally Posted by JesusShuttlesworth34

"It was all downhill when we let them in our business..."

I have never experienced infidelity in a relationship, but that sounds like a tough one and a pretty common NT issue.  Got to do a better job screening that kind of character in a female before you lock it down. 
#!++ can hit the fan when you least expect it. 
 
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